Anupamaa 28th Jan 2024 Written Update & Daily Discussions Thread - Page 5

Originally posted by: IWasHareeshFan

Then there must be a confrontation between Kinjal and Anupama over Anupama's legendary emotional blackmail to live with Paritosh after everything that happened.

But more than that, I hope Rakhi Dave challenges to take Pari with her and officially forbids both Kinjal and Paritosh from Dave Coaching (India) and Pari's care citing the example of an upbringing they are giving her.

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See, I watched the episode, and after watching today's episode I don't think that kinjal is totally wrong, matlab it is anupama's good upbringing that her son is useless, it is toshu's family ke acche gun that he is badtameez, moreover kinjal is not doing all this with the ill intention, if she would have thought ki anupama kaa nuksaan ho jae, yaa vo bas ghar par hi baithi rahe, toh I would have thought that she is doing all this with the bad intent.

I may be again wrong

If Anupama wants to do something, toh she should stop doing anything, matlab anything for toshu, she should stop making breakfast dinner or lunch for toshu, but I don't think that taking money for doing work for her own grand daughter is going well with me, may be because I haven't seen this here, I am not saying this is wrong or right, but kuch karna hai toh pari ko chod kar baaki sabka kaam karna chod de.

kinjal is not totally wrong here because she doesn't have any other option, she didn't call anupama as maid, but she just said that both need each other, yes even this is wrong, but bhai vo toh apne maa ke ghar thi hi naa, zabardasti usko kisne roka hua tha, she left toshu kaa house, but anupama and her family kept her back, toh ab dhayaan kaun rakhega.?

when the raja beta of the house is useless, jobless toh phir kaun dekhega, it is not that kinjal is not doing anything, she is managing everything, but it is their son who is not willing to help kinjal in any way, toh phir usko kuch toh karna hi hoga naa.

divorce dena nahi hai, rehna bhi hai, toh kuch toh karna hi hoga naa.

Right, Wrong, Good, grey sab chodo.

First and foremost, Anupama should STOP giving life lessons to ANYONE and start implementing just 1 one the things she says to others.

Secondly, Kinjal should leave Paritosh and return to India and live with Rakhi and LISTEN and Incorporate what she teaches. Clearly, Neither she, Anupama nor Paritosh have done anything good in their professional or secured personal life.

Finally, Paritosh can find his life wherever he wants, however he wants to just not interfere in Pari's upbringing (he clearly has no intentions of raising her).

I love the way Aadhya is so sorted unlike her Pops

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Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Right, Wrong, Good, grey sab chodo.

First and foremost, Anupama should STOP giving life lessons to ANYONE and start implementing just 1 one the things she says to others.

Secondly, Kinjal should leave Paritosh and return to India and live with Rakhi and LISTEN and Incorporate what she teaches. Clearly, Neither she, Anupama nor Paritosh have done anything good in their professional or secured personal life.

Finally, Paritosh can find his life wherever he wants, however he wants to just not interfere in Pari's upbringing (he clearly has no intentions of raising her).

I think Rakhi has disowned her daughter, we are just joking about this, but even if it is true then also there is nothing wrong, she insulted her mom every time in front of everyone, although rakhi is so modern but she sacrifized everything, even her self respect for her daughter just to give her daughter the love of both parents, but what did she do in return, nothing, respect karna toh chodo, stand bhi nahi leti thi apni maa keliye, agar stand nahi le sakti thi toh chup hi reh jati, but naa, she defended all the wrong doings of her family and ignored her mom's advise.

This is the main reason why I don't like her, yes, after watching yesterday's episode (aaj kaa nahi dekha) I said that she is not totally at fault, but she is not innocent either.

benifits chahiye toh maa, varna maa gai bhad mei, I wish Rakhi wouldd have disowned kinjal.

Originally posted by: IWasHareeshFan

I think Rakhi has disowned her daughter, we are just joking about this, but even if it is true then also there is nothing wrong, she insulted her mom every time in front of everyone, although rakhi is so modern but she sacrifized everything, even her self respect for her daughter just to give her daughter the love of both parents, but what did she do in return, nothing, respect karna toh chodo, stand bhi nahi leti thi apni maa keliye, agar stand nahi le sakti thi toh chup hi reh jati, but naa, she defended all the wrong doings of her family and ignored her mom's advise.

This is the main reason why I don't like her, yes, after watching yesterday's episode (aaj kaa nahi dekha) I said that she is not totally at fault, but she is not innocent either.

benifits chahiye toh maa, varna maa gai bhad mei, I wish Rakhi wouldd have disowned kinjal.

The show is a cover for the book called "Ungrateful Children".

Surprisingly, other than Vanraj, (may be Ankush-Barkha) there is NOT ONE grateful child on the show.

(Barring the next generation, poor kids, are the most tortured lot including Aadhya aka Choti Anu).

Originally posted by: IWasHareeshFan

I think Rakhi has disowned her daughter, we are just joking about this, but even if it is true then also there is nothing wrong, she insulted her mom every time in front of everyone, although rakhi is so modern but she sacrifized everything, even her self respect for her daughter just to give her daughter the love of both parents, but what did she do in return, nothing, respect karna toh chodo, stand bhi nahi leti thi apni maa keliye, agar stand nahi le sakti thi toh chup hi reh jati, but naa, she defended all the wrong doings of her family and ignored her mom's advise.

This is the main reason why I don't like her, yes, after watching yesterday's episode (aaj kaa nahi dekha) I said that she is not totally at fault, but she is not innocent either.

benifits chahiye toh maa, varna maa gai bhad mei, I wish Rakhi wouldd have disowned kinjal.

Not sure about that. Although, Kinjal is a lost cause and any prohibitory actions on Rakhi's part os absolutely justified.

Rakhi gave them a house and a bana banaya Dave Coaching in UK. Apparently, ALL they had to do was move in. They did not talk about any struggles when they returned after 1 month.

Kinjal was more willing to meet Onupama rather than be by her ailing parents for whom she apparently rushed back to India barely 1 month of moving to UK. Kinjal wanted to go on a picnic.

What has she done now? They closed down the set-up in UK, moved in to US and now the US branch is on the rocks.

This probably shows Rakhi helped them as much as she could and is now not helping anymore or these people are not seeking her help anymore for fear of consequences.

Rakhi should keep them at a safe distance from he India set-up.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

The show is a cover for the book called "Ungrateful Children".

Surprisingly, other than Vanraj, (may be Ankush-Barkha) there is NOT ONE grateful child on the show.

(Barring the next generation, poor kids, are the most tortured lot including Aadhya aka Choti Anu).

Actually even vanraj threw lila out of the house if I am not wrong, yes, lila was too much that day, but who throws mom out just because she fought with dad.

However, apart from that incident we have never seen vanraj disrespecting his parents and credit should be given where it dues, no matter how horrible guy he is, but he has tried to be a good son, at least ye jitne bhi hain unme sabse better hai vo.

Yes, all the kids are being tortured, just think about mahi, she was there in a boarding school and now she is somewhere which is even worse than the boarding school, then ishani jiski maa toh pata nahi kaunsi duniya se uth kar aagai hai, and then poor addya, that girl has turned from sophisticated and well mannered girl to a disrespectful and dramebaz, the girl who once used to respect his mother and everyone, is now disrespecting (saw an article somewhere just now) and faking panick attacks.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Rakhi should keep them at a safe distance from he India set-up.

I agree, this proves that nepotism does not help in the long run, no matter how much how much someone pushes you but at the end you need to work hard to maintain that name, isiliye I don't fully support that jo log nepotism se aate hain unke paas sab kuch hota hai, yes, hota hai, lekin usko maintain karna unki responsibility bhi toh hoti hai naa.

just take the example of abhishek bacchan, he got the movies, bohot movies mei he acted very well, but we don't remember him getting so much acknowledgment as compare to AB and Aish, aur bhai unke papa ne kamaya hai toh aur kaun uska use karega, jab papa ko koi problem nahi hai toh who are we, but it is also true that many talented acters don't get the deserved opportunity.

Similarly, Rakhi gave them everything, but they could not run the business, itne time se vo business chal raha tha, but vo bhi nahi chal paya, even in USA they could not manage well, I don't know ki aur kaunse kaunse branches bache hain RD ke, but whatever is left usse she should keep kintosh away.

Poor woman worked so hard to establish all this and no one even respects that

Originally posted by: IWasHareeshFan

I agree, this proves that nepotism does not help in the long run, no matter how much how much someone pushes you but at the end you need to work hard to maintain that name, isiliye I don't fully support that jo log nepotism se aate hain unke paas sab kuch hota hai, yes, hota hai, lekin usko maintain karna unki responsibility bhi toh hoti hai naa.

just take the example of abhishek bacchan, he got the movies, bohot movies mei he acted very well, but we don't remember him getting so much acknowledgment as compare to AB and Aish, aur bhai unke papa ne kamaya hai toh aur kaun uska use karega, jab papa ko koi problem nahi hai toh who are we, but it is also true that many talented acters don't get the deserved opportunity.

Similarly, Rakhi gave them everything, but they could not run the business, itne time se vo business chal raha tha, but vo bhi nahi chal paya, even in USA they could not manage well, I don't know ki aur kaunse kaunse branches bache hain RD ke, but whatever is left usse she should keep kintosh away.

Poor woman worked so hard to establish all this and no one even respects that

Seedhi baat, jo bhi cheez kisiko bina mehnat kiye mistake hain, uski qadr nahin hoti.

Yaha toh phone ke baad bhi qadr nahin hain because malum hain, Rakhi apni beti, naatin ko badhaal toh chodegi nahin especially itni Choti bachchi ke saath.

Hence, to break their bubble, Rakhi should take custody of Pari and take back Dave Coaching off Paritosh-Kinjal and ask them to find their foot.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Seedhi baat, jo bhi cheez kisiko bina mehnat kiye mistake hain, uski qadr nahin hoti.

Yaha toh phone ke baad bhi qadr nahin hain because malum hain, Rakhi apni beti, naatin ko badhaal toh chodegi nahin especially itni Choti bachchi ke saath.

Hence, to break their bubble, Rakhi should take custody of Pari and take back Dave Coaching off Paritosh-Kinjal and ask them to find their foot.

it is good, but I wanna know something, is it possible for Rakhi to take the custody of Pari without her parents concent?

Originally posted by: IWasHareeshFan

I agree, this proves that nepotism does not help in the long run, no matter how much how much someone pushes you but at the end you need to work hard to maintain that name, isiliye I don't fully support that jo log nepotism se aate hain unke paas sab kuch hota hai, yes, hota hai, lekin usko maintain karna unki responsibility bhi toh hoti hai naa.

just take the example of abhishek bacchan, he got the movies, bohot movies mei he acted very well, but we don't remember him getting so much acknowledgment as compare to AB and Aish, aur bhai unke papa ne kamaya hai toh aur kaun uska use karega, jab papa ko koi problem nahi hai toh who are we, but it is also true that many talented acters don't get the deserved opportunity.

Similarly, Rakhi gave them everything, but they could not run the business, itne time se vo business chal raha tha, but vo bhi nahi chal paya, even in USA they could not manage well, I don't know ki aur kaunse kaunse branches bache hain RD ke, but whatever is left usse she should keep kintosh away.

Poor woman worked so hard to establish all this and no one even respects that

I agree but not all are like abhishekh bachchan

Look at sunny deol or hrithik roshan they are also star sons

they worked hard especially sunny was hit from 1980s to 2005 till the hero he worked hard(now you say he had his mom and younger brother responsibility in life as dad had another family so he turned responsible? could be but still he worked hard 20 years plus to feed his family or whatever reason although star son)

and hrithik worked so hard on body dance etc he had speech issue still (you will say rakesh roshan was a flop actor and had debt and so hrithik worked his ass off to pay them could be but still he put effort last 23 years)

even salman, amir, ajay devgan, karishm, raveena, kajol were star kis but worked hard to establish themselves not given much on platter in 80s and 90s exept initial 4-5 movies may be after that itts on own

so we cannot say that all rich sons star sons famous ppl sons or daughters are not that hard working or recognized etc

Its up to you what you make of your opportunity given by your dad or mom bec they are famous. Abhishekh never had that looks or charisma and looked akward to be an hero in movies he was never meant to be an hero or actor ever. Even AB had no looks but he made it up with acting and charisma(of course with help from powerful friends and a bit of politics he played to get to top). See to be hit you have to have skill or learn to play game only they survive. SRK had both he was good actor in negative and romance movies lus hes A plus at PR and politics in 90s so he went top. Salman was not good at acting or dance but had looks and great at PR all sort of affirs that were famous and kept him in lime light(like ranbir kapoor). Amir was ok actor initially but had good sense of script and knew how to snatch credit of others(taare zameen par). Ajay had no looks or dance or dressing sense but had good acting especially serious roles. Akshay had great PR skills and affirs no acting skills but martial arts to survive. Look at top 5 actors always they have one either acting, or looks or great PR to sustain them. Sunny had no PR but good acting and action that no one can do before him or even 40 years later. When sunny hits you think its real hit.

Abhishekh was too laid back and lazy to make it to top unlike sunny, hrithik, shahid all star kids. Whoever takes oppt given by family or mom/dad for granted will fail actually. I mean abhishekh had jp dutta, adiya chopta, sooraj barjatya, karan johar movies in first 5 years of career the are not small opportunities at all. But abhishek never improved his acting or dance or styling or looks he looked awful and akward to be an hero no charisma. Look at govinda or ranveer singh do they have looks no not at all but look at what they were in first movie and after 5 movies the efforts showed. Abhiskhk never improved much for long neither dance nor dressing nor acting nor PR no affair so how will he survive. Bit of chaplusi helps a lot in bollywood to survive too which he has not much. Chaplusi and Pr are no1. to survive on go on top in Bollywood actually for long