Anupamaa 05 Dec 2023 Written Update & Daily Discussions Thread

Today’s episode was Anujless

There was a glimpse of him in the Precap but that was his body double in there.

Ex wife/unpaid maid is constantly defending and giving justifications for her ex husband/abusive master to his current wife who is herself pregnant with her ex husband's child. The levels to this filth are just ridiculous

Since the last few episodes, AnupaMaid has suddenly remembered that she is the mother of CA as well but it remains to be seen till when this pretense of her lasts.

Apmaan are unfit to be parents. Unpaid maid never cared and all her concepts in life are wrong whereas Majboor is a weak, inept and spineless person generally in life leave aside parenting. They can do their cringe romaanch, simping and slaving for TamaShahis as much as they want, why destroy a child's future?

The child's psyche is already damaged and she needs to be counselled so as to not cause hurt to other children like the girl she made fun of. Being surrounded by negative influences like the ill mannered gold digger Makkhi doesn't help. And yes, AnupaMaid is guilty as charged, so is Majboor

Anupama enrolled CA in online class because she didn’t want MD to teach CA, and now see - Maa has no time to check what ber Bebli is doing in online class.

She gives a huge lecture to MD and Barkha, but thankfully CA has realised Maa’s double standards and called them out - hope CA tells infront if Anuj how Pakhi is bullying her, how she was about to slap her

Charity begins at home, which the greatest Maa has never heard of. Samaj and Duniya Sudharo Mission with Bhashans wali Maa cannot say a word when her laadli Sweeti ‘bullies’ CA.

Dr. ne sirf ye bol diya ke Maa banne ka chance hai and Pakhi took it as a confirmation and now is like Main Maa banne wali hu, usse pehle business set up karna hai, business ka experience nahi to kya Maa banne ka bhi to nahi hai par ban rahi hu na - she is an obsessed psychopath - she is just obsessed with the idea of becoming a mother, doesn’t even think of the huge responsibility that comes with it. And she hasn’t even read or researched about the success rate of IVF and the stress you have to go thru while the whole process.

And Maa lectured MD that Maa ka farz bachhe ki galti sudharna hota hai uspe parda dalna nahi - really? Who sent Tosu to rehab because he cheated on his wife? Who said Sweeti is mann se bimar when she was hitting and abusing her husband?

Maa has always covered up for her biological kids’ crimes, horrendous upbringing. Thank God CA spitted facts finally.

Also, now that Kavya has left Vanraj, stage is set for Vanraj planning go get the maid back, just like last year this time - Kavya leaves house again. Rinse repeat!

Exactly, the only one thinking of competition in raising a family is Anupama.

Her actions are purely driven by threat.

She felt threatened by Anuj's prioritising Choti Anu and hence returned to Kapadia Mansion for a trip she had NO idea about, leaving an ailing son.

She felt threatened by Choti Anu and Maaya's presence and hence conveniently set the departure of Choti Anu with Maaya.

She felt threatened by Barkha sending back her belongings without retaliation from Anuj and hence "returned" to her Sasural.

She felt threatened by the growing closeness between Malati Devi and Choti Anu and Anuj softening towards Malati Devi and made every attempt to keep them at bay.

About Anupama's endless bhashans on mamatha etc.

Anupama has had the audacity to question the motherhood, sanskaar, shiksha of others like Rakhi, Barkha and every random person. None has dared to retaliate "Look who's talking, the 3 anmol ratna are classic examples."

Barkha tried once, but again she is Anupama who has Anuj's unconditional, unwavering support whether she is on the right or not.

To be honest I really want anupama understand that bad behavior influence kidz that because say bacho ke samne ache se bolo warna they learn what they see.aur ca ke samne toh hat waqt adopted hone ka bola jata hai woh ehsaas nahi kare gi.

HAHAHAHA I’m soo proud of CA usne ekdam sahi kaha Malevolent Mummy never scolds or punishes her Ladli Sweetudi so why should she always be scolded and treated like trash?? The woman is always strict and careless with Bebli and kind and forgiving with Sweetudi! It’s definitely cause CA is adopted and Sweeti is Biological!!

Feeling sorry for CA who has to go through this at such a young age all cause of her terrible toxic parents!!

Darasal yaha ek complex si baat hai. Black and white ki binary nahi hai.

Maa bahut acchi bhi ho to bhi uske bacche bahut galat nikal sakte hain. Kyonki baccho par father/grandparents/society aur khud ke individual self ka bhi impact padta hai.

Aise me Anupamaa se hamdardi hoti mujhe agar wo:

1) dusri women ko aise judge nahi kar rahi hoti

2) hamesha Bhashan mode me nahi rahti

3) khud ko sudharti

4) for once, wo khud me badlaav laati

Anupamaa ki problem ye hai ki uski sari priorities hi galat hain. Wo ek choti bacchi ko, khud ke career ko, apne husband ko lowest priority par rakhti hai (jabki ye wo kaam hain, ko koi aur nahi kar sakta) lekin un cheezo ko top priority par rakhti hai, jo kaam ya to uski jimmedari nahi hain ya fir jise outsource kiya ja sakta hai.

75+ logo ka khyal rakhne ka matlab ye nahi hota ki aap apni bacchi ko bhul jao! Jo women akele hi ghar, office aur motherhood ki jimmedari sambhalti hain aur etne km paise kamati hain ki pura na pade.. unki problems mai samjh sakti hu. Lower class, bacche umra se pahle bade ho jate hain kyonki wahan parents (sabhi nahi) rojana ke basis par overburdened, exploited, aur stress me hote hain. Aur uska asar baccho par padta hai.

Yaha.... Ek to Anupamaa.. apni struggling maa aur apne struggle karke ghar sambhalne wale Bhai Bhavesh aur uske baccho ko jara bhi nahi puchti. Lekin Leela aur Hasmukh ke liye aise daudhti ho, jaise unhe dekhne wale koi na ho! Unhe sambhalne ki jimmedari unke baccho ki hai. Leela ki beti bhi to hai.. purani bahu ko bula lete hain ye besharm lekin apni beti ko sasural se nahi bula pate! Vanraj aur Kavya ki bajay ye Anuj aur Anupamaa par bahut khushi 2 dependent rahte hain.

Anupamaa jitne passion ke sath unhe Maata pita kahti hai, utne passion se Baa ki beti bhi unhe apna parents na kahe. Baa ki beti apne pati, career aur apni beti Meenu ko jyada importance deti hai, par Devi ji ko to Choti Anu sadak par gire hue sikke ki tarah mili thi, isliye wo parwah hi nahi karti ki uske prati jimmedari sabse jyada honi chahiye.