Anuj obsession with anu destroyed many lives

I would say anuj obsession with anupama destroyed many lives

1) His mom dad must never had one day peaceful with this devdas crying meri anu meri anu in USA after she married vanraj

2) He destroyed Malvika life first by marrying her to her brute first husband. If her real parents were alive they would have checked groom nature and married her. Than instead of taking care of an abused raped sister he left her roam world for 10 years sleeping in parks and stations

3) He again destroyed Malvika life by allowing vanraj to have extra marital affair with her and ran off in chappal with meri anu. He knew Malvika will give him back kapadiya empire one day for sure sonow let vanraj use my sister while i dilly dally with my 26 year love anupama

4) He destroyed GK kaka life by getting him humilaited again and again at hands of Shahs and Baa because of his love for anupama. GK kaka ran off to ashram in fear i guess

5) Hes destroying Choti anu life from starting. Who told him to adopt kid if ceannot give her 5 hours a day after office. Anupama never cares for that kid. Atleast he can come home by 6pm and be with that kid play with it, take it to gardens and teach it maths, english, science but no that gawar anupama will teach her instead meri anu karegi (guyan karegi yeh).

6) He allowing anupama to disrespect his mother Malati Devi is gross. Hey Simp if your mom did not leave you in orhanage no you would never go to USA or be this billionaire business man in first place. You would be a mamuli office clerk in india if you were MD son whom anupama would not even spit at in life forget marry divorcing her bacchon ke pita you fool. Be greatful to MD thats because of her you are kapadiya and millionaire and US retured and thats why anu married you in first place you good for nothing ungreatful son of both adopted and own parents

Before i thought only anupama does not love CA now i think anuj himself never loved CA, shes like a toy to use for his lonliness and keep anupama at kapadiya house. Imagine CA was not there anupama would be from 6am to midnight at shahs so clever man adoppted a child so that atleast for child sake his meri anu came home and never leave him. Like they say after few years parents stay together for kids although love has gone from relationship. Same way anupama never loved anuj and anuj knows that so he used CA as bait to keep anupama tied to him thats all. Thats why hes OK if pakhi and Baa or toshu abuse CA both in kapadiya mansion and shah house. No real father will allow his baby to be abused by anyone. But anuj allows because he truly does not love CA shes a means to his end anupama

Also no father will allow their kid to be taught by an illiterate mother like anupama, they will hire tutors or teach themselves so that their kid future is bright.

There are others too whom hes humiliated for his meri anu like ankush, adhik, maya, barkha etc sometimes for no reason in front of shahs just to pls his meri anu

One who never loves or respect his parents and sibling and family will never get love or respect of world

In a way its good how anupama, pakhi, toshu, baa and vanraj keep humilating anuj kapadiya. He desrves it, its called karma for not respecting your own parents adopted or real and your sister and brother actually. You deserve your karma anuj kapadiya.

In law you cannot divorce your family your parents and siblings and kids no matter how much you fight with them.

But you can always divorce your spouse there is a reason for that

Because your relationship with mother, father, brother, sister, kid is made by almighty God so you cannot divorce them

But you can always divorce one spouse marry another or marry 2 spouse marry 3 times as per any law in any country. Because marriage is a contract not permanent relation like mom, dad, brother, sister, kid

That also this US returned MBA could never realize in 46 years

Yes is some cultures marraige is scared for life but in modern world no one folows such things. All marry for some benefits. Else all beggars on road, mentally uwell, those with disability etc would have spouses if true love existed ever. Nowadays all marraigges are done looking at status and money of both spouse and education level etc more of marraige with benefits. Not truly love you simp. Anupama is top 1% who married you only for your money because you are US educated and millionaire. Because another good woman would have returned kapadiya shares and power back to you and malvika if it was true love. Nowadays educated woman are very capable and do not accept hubby money or property and maintain their self respect and spend only their hard earned money on themselves. But not this anupama shes used your money and power for shahs her 3 kids her ex hubby his wife her ex in laws etc Someone with self respect never do that.

Ex: Narayan Murthy wife work as lecturer in college although hubby billionarie for many years, bill gates wife work as software developer many years and earn own money. Nandan nilkeni wife also work and why not? They are educated get jobs outside why not? Any respectable woman would not work in hubby company but outside company to avoid ppl pointing fingers at hubby like these women do or did most life. And Mr. Murthy and Mrs Nilkeni wife got lakhs of shares in company you know why they gave money to husbands to start company initially. So they deserve those lakhs of shares they contributed when no one gave money to infosys in 80s or 90s. They worked hard outside and gave money to hubby to start companies they are real role model of great wives not anupama who uses her husband father company and money to bring up her ex hubby and his kids and in laws family. If infosys founder Murthy and Nilkeni wives wanted they could easily become CTO or MD etc in infosys as they are BE highly qualified capable but till today never taken job at infosys. Only infosys foundation charity org they work thats ok its like NGO. Real model are these great highly qualified woman who never asked any post in hubby company although they gave max money to found infosys. They are real great women not anupama

If you lived with malati devi all life i doubt she could afford to send you to US or set you up kapadiya empire or Mlaati empire and you would have become a clerk in some private company in india anupama would not even look at you forget marry you over her divorced bachon ke pita vanraj shah

I believe that OG anuj kapadia was actually sensible to did able to read mind and make good decisions. He almost said no anupama only because his legal team Sai yes to anupama project . He did make wrong decision but at least he did pointed out anupama hyprocisy in NYE year kand

Also When anuj came back after so many years that time Anuraj were separated. Only because of that there was a hope for anuj.anuj always tries to understand Anu's situation through her eye.Anuj is definetly at fault here to keep tab on his lover for 26 years through someone.But here i blame Devika equally she has no right to go and tell abuout anupama personal life info to anuj in detail every week when he asks

No best friend will spy on her or his best friend life and tell her lover everthing like devika did . Its criminal what Devika was doing for 26 years. She misused anupama trust on her as college best friend . Usually we tell best friend our problems thinking they will not share outside or even if they share not every other day that too to our lover in school college office etc (whom we may or may not love). Devika has done a big crime or offence too. Anuj was anyway not right after anupama marriage he should not have kept tab on her at all.Imagine if all ex boy friends start keeping tab on others wives like this in real world it may lead to many issues and crimes too actually law does not permit all this actually neither does society because its wrong

Originally posted by: Historia

I believe that OG anuj kapadia was actually sensible to did able to read mind and make good decisions. He almost said no anupama only because his legal team Sai yes to anupama project . He did make wrong decision but at least he did pointed out anupama hyprocisy in NYE year kand

Also When anuj came back after so many years that time Anuraj were separated. Only because of that there was a hope for anuj.anuj always tries to understand Anu's situation through her eye.Anuj is definetly at fault here to keep tab on his lover for 26 years through someone.But here i blame Devika equally she has no right to go and tell abuout anupama personal life info to anuj in detail every week when he asks

No best friend will spy on her or his best friend life and tell her lover everthing like devika did . Its criminal what Devika was doing for 26 years. She misused anupama trust on her as college best friend . Usually we tell best friend our problems thinking they will not share outside or even if they share not every other day that too to our lover in school college office etc (whom we may or may not love). Devika has done a big crime or offence too. Anuj was anyway not right after anupama marriage he should not have kept tab on her at all.Imagine if all ex boy friends start keeping tab on others wives like this in real world it may lead to many issues and crimes too actually law does not permit all this actually neither does society because its wrong

Very true very true

a person who loves a woman cannot keep tab of her 26 years - its called criminal stalking and obsession

and devika who told her to tell about anupam ato anuj - keep quiet may be he would move on in life and marry again

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Very true very true

a person who loves a woman cannot keep tab of her 26 years - its called criminal stalking and obsession

and devika who told her to tell about anupam ato anuj - keep quiet may be he would move on in life and marry again

I miss OG anuj but after new year kaand he is gone forever . When Anuj was introduced he actually was pretty much shemp.minded , no. Nonsense guy but now they completely butchered his character.

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