ANUJ IS DEEPLY HURT !!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Paru...

Thank you for the clarification.If u think Ak is getting insults from his wife and Sh family who belongs to the middle class category,he also got extension of his life from the son of his middle class wife who is also a SH family member .Think about the brighter side-Insults /Life extension?

Originally posted by: Paru...

Thank you for the clarification.If u think Ak is getting insults from his wife and Sh family who belongs to the middle class category,he also got extension of his life from the son of his middle class wife who is also a SH family member .Think about the brighter side-Insults /Life extension?

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You mean just the way Samar got a life extension from a speeding vehicle, from the attack by Nandini's stalker, Paritosh and Pakhi were removed from Anger issues, stroke and depression through therapy, Vanraj was saved both with his life in the hospital and with finances, Hansmuk's treatment, security for Kavya and Shahs which Anuj sponsored giving them ALL a life extension?

It is said, relinquishing your identity and Insult to one's self esteem is considered equivalent to death.

I don't entirely blame Anupama and Shahs. They are merely taking advantage of a rich person and one has to agree they are both highly ungrateful people.

Originally posted by: Muskie

you mean getting kicked out of your wife's ex sasural, where HE paid the money to keep it safe, handling insults of people (shahs) in HIS own house, when he's not needed he's not worthy of offering a glass of water; etc <<<<<<< life extension????

Yeah,life is more precious than insults.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

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You mean just the way Samar got a life extension from a speeding vehicle, from the attack by Nandini's stalker, Paritosh and Pakhi were removed from Anger issues, stroke and depression through therapy, Vanraj was saved both with his life in the hospital and with finances, Hansmuk's treatment, security for Kavya and Shahs which Anuj sponsored giving them ALL a life extension?

It is said, relinquishing your identity and Insult to one's self esteem is considered equivalent to death.

I don't entirely blame Anupama and Shahs. They are merely taking advantage of a rich person and one has to agree they are both highly ungrateful people.

yeah ,I agree that Sh people had exploited Ak as he is rich.but they r not tottally negative.They stood by Anuj in his hard times like when he got head injury after getting attacked by goons,when he fell off from the cliff ,when Ca suffered panic attacks when Maa went for udaan.That is the reason Ak 's attitude towards Sh became more softened after MaAn reunion.Even samar rescued him without thinking about his own safety,.

Originally posted by: Paru...

Baa has insulted him before. Even after that he has been to Sh. Ak just provided loan to Anu to pay the debt.Sh still belongs to Hansmukh and Baa.

Yeah,life is more precious than insults.

Originally posted by: Muskie

self respect above everything else. Samar was a gem but there are lots of other things that anuj has done for samar and Shahs which are way more than what samar did. But all he gets in return is insults, humiliation and second class treatment

Self respect is important but not as important than life.Remember ,M (I just hate this char.but using this as an example)has insulted Maa publicly many times .She tried to break her marraige.After all these khands she has sacrificed her life to save Maa at the end when she realised her mistakes.That is the reason Maa is talking gratefully about her.

Originally posted by: Paru...

yeah ,I agree that Sh people had exploited Ak as he is rich.but they r not tottally negative.They stood by Anuj in his hard times like when he got head injury after getting attacked by goons,when he fell off from the cliff ,when Ca suffered panic attacks when Maa went for udaan.That is the reason Ak 's attitude towards Sh became more softened after MaAn reunion.Even samar rescued him without thinking about his own safety,.

4 instances are mentioned here:

1. Head injury after getting attacked by goons:

Sorry cannot place this sequence. And exactly how did they stand by him?

2. Falling off the cliff was an attempted murder by Mr.Vanraj Shah. He was saved from being jailed and got a royal treatment in a speciality hospital because Mrs.Anupama refused to believe that Vanraj could harm Anuj inspite of testimony by Kavya (who was a witness) and Vanraj himself (on gaining consciousness).

Any wife in her place would have got Vanraj Shah Arrested and severely punished.

Not just that, Anupama did not allow Barkha to file a complaint as well and in turn insulted her for having spoken against her phemily and Mishter Shah.

3. When "Maa Hoon Ne" Anupama left her 7-year old grief stricken, adopted daughter in a depressed state.

Again exactly what did they do to stand by him? You are referring to them taking Choti Anu for a day to Shah House, the same place that Leela verbally abused the child multiple times. The same place from where the 7 year old escaped, went to her orphanage in Mumbai?

4. Samar diving to save Anuj.

Yes, that was heroic indeed. But that's not why he was helping Shahs. He was helping Shahs because he believed he was the reason for his murder. There is a difference.

Was Anupama soft towards Choti Anu because of Maaya even though she claims to have got off her udaan due to guilt? Her actions don't seem so🤷🏻‍♀️. She hasn't spent as much time since her Udaan crashed with Choti Anu as many times in ALL these days, she has run to Shah House. What was the point of the guilt-driven sacrifice drama?

Sorry, there is nothing positive about Shahs. Only Samar being the better off the worse.

Anuj had, on multiple occasions asked Anupama to draw boundaries and keep her distance with Shahs which obviously, she royally ignored.

Anuj's attitude towards Shahs is driven by the fear of her abandoning him. Both Shahs and Anupama know this very well.

Originally posted by: Paru...

Self respect is important but not as important than life.Remember ,M (I just hate this char.but using this as an example)has insulted Maa publicly many times .She tried to break her marraige.After all these khands she has sacrificed her life to save Maa at the end when she realised her mistakes.That is the reason Maa is talking gratefully about her.

yes because SHE saved HER. If she hurted any of the shah's then she would have met maa's wrath

It should always be others to save shahs to be remembered and glorified. CA should also blame maa because she died while saving her but she's mature enough to understand these things unlike shah's

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

4 instances are mentioned here:

1. Head injury after getting attacked by goons:

Sorry cannot place this sequence. And exactly how did they stand by him?

V was the one who came to hospital to help Anu and asked her to move on in her life with Anuj.Baa prayed to Anuj's health and G.k stayed with shahs.when he got discharged Toshu used to stay with Anu at Anuj's home while she was looking after Ak.

2. Falling off the cliff was an attempted murder by Mr.Vanraj Shah. He was saved from being jailed and got a royal treatment in a speciality hospital because Mrs.Anupama refused to believe that Vanraj could harm Anuj inspite of testimony by Kavya (who was a witness) and Vanraj himself (on gaining consciousness).

Any wife in her place would have got Vanraj Shah Arrested and severely punished.

Not just that, Anupama did not allow Barkha to file a complaint as well and in turn insulted her for having spoken against her phemily and Mishter Shah.

Anu believed that V as also got seriously injured he was not the person who pushed Anuj from the cliff.So she waited till Anuj comes out of coma.later Anuj himself confessed that he fell off accidently and V tried to save him.While Anu was in the hospital Ca was looked after by Kinjal.

3. When "Maa Hoon Ne" Anupama left her 7-year old grief stricken, adopted daughter in a depressed state.

Again exactly what did they do to stand by him? You are referring to them taking Choti Anu for a day to Shah House, the same place that Leela verbally abused the child multiple times. The same place from where the 7 year old escaped, went to her orphanage in Mumbai?

Maa went for Udaan as she thought Anuj may look after CA.Anuj also wanted her to go to U,S as she was committed to MD.Sh family came to console Anuj and K could make Ca calm and could feed her food.Here also Sh people's intention was to help Anuj as he was having a hard time.

4. Samar diving to save Anuj.

Yes, that was heroic indeed. But that's not why he was helping Shahs. He was helping Shahs because he believed he was the reason for his murder. There is a difference.

U have written " He was helping Shahs because he believed he was the reason for his murder.".I did'nt get it.Btw,what I have to say is "Give the devil his due"

Was Anupama soft towards Choti Anu because of Maaya even though she claims to have got off her udaan due to guilt? Her actions don't seem so🤷🏻‍♀️. She hasn't spent as much time since her Udaan crashed with Choti Anu as many times in ALL these days, she has run to Shah House. What was the point of the guilt-driven sacrifice drama?

It was shown that Maya's spirit came and requested Maa to go back to CA as she may die without Maa.Guilt ka tho patha nahin.I felt nowadays Anu spends quallty time with CA.only after Samar's death she was shown leaving CA with Md as she is nowadays busy with Samar's case and mentally disturbed.

Sorry, there is nothing positive about Shahs. Only Samar being the better off the worse.

Originally posted by: Paru...

U have written " He was helping Shahs because he believed he was the reason for his murder.".I did'nt get it.Btw,what I have to say is "Give the devil his due"

Anuj himself did not believe he was the reason for Samar's murder.

He was shattered when the same woman who stood against everyone for Vanraj's innocence did not bat an eye lid in blaming him for Samar's murder making him believe he was the cause. He is doing everything in his capacity to get over that guilt that has been instilled in his because of Anupama's words.

He expressed his fears to Ankush that Anupama would leave him. He is clearly delusional. Shahs and Anupama know it very well.

Devil tak ka toh theek hain, par due kuch nahin hain.

What would we call a person who would poison another and then pray to GOD to save the victim?