Please help me with these questions nobody is answering

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I asked & requested so many people but no body answered 😡


1 ) what was anupama's expectations from his second marriage?


2 ) what is anupama's contribution in her name sake second marriage


Please answer this , if I get unbiased answer answer I will definitely not called anupama as cowardpama, will daily rant anupama is great on d forum . Pinky promise.



# # jo log anuj ke tariff karne aaye unki khushi ke liye mein pehle hi keh dete hoon anuj is bewakoof, gadha , paagal who thought person like him can have a life with anupama d great as he is not worthy of her khush . Ok ab uski tariff mat karna.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Actually maa never really loved Anuj. She was merely attracted towards him. She wanted to marry a rich,hot hunk and fulfill her desires. It was a "marrige of convenience" not responsibilities. That's why she couldn't accept CA and viewed her as a BOJH. She just expected him to PAMPER her 24×7,bear the financial expenses of her so called "maika" and even tolerate their taunts and abuses. Thus, she was taken aback and emotionally blackmailed him whenever he asked her to draw healthy boundaries. The bottom line is she made this relationship all about herself and didn't thought about him at all.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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If I take a realistic approach then at this age if you marry again then you will be mostly investing yourself into second marriage. Reason being all your kids are grown up and they should ideally need you for guidance and emotional support. That touchbase can happen over calls or weekend family times.

Secondly adopting or fostering a small kid is a big decision for Anupama at least as she has already patented 3 kids so she might not be ready to take one more responsibility when she just wants to take rest. I personally feel she should have said no for this.

Now coming to this show, I feel Anupama's expectations was Anuj should understand that her priorities can not change. She can not make him and CA her priority and Anuj should never ask for it.

Anupama's contribution is nothing in her second marriage because she could never prioritise it. I strongly feel she should not have said to foster a child. That way at least she could run around SH freely without any obligations as Anuj is anyways her puppy.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Expectations- nothing much.. Duniya ke saamne ek example shet karna tha.

jab mard 50 saal mei saadi kar sakte hai toh orat kyun nahi.

Waise didi ka mann nahi tha... But baapuji ne bhi kaha. Toh phir karni padi.. Aur phir anuj dekhne mei bhi theek thak hi hai, thoda bohat ameer bhi tha, phir anu anu anu... Jaap bhi karta hai.

Contribution: didi ne ek din naasta banaya tha, phir khichdi bhi bana kar gayi thi... Anuj ke liye danch bhi kiya.. Din mei kahi bhi ho.. Raat ko toh KM aa hi jaati thi

Phir CA ki 2-4 din care bhi ki..

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Ruchi--

If I take a realistic approach then at this age if you marry again then you will be mostly investing yourself into second marriage. Reason being all your kids are grown up and they should ideally need you for guidance and emotional support. That touchbase can happen over calls or weekend family times.

Secondly adopting or fostering a small kid is a big decision for Anupama at least as she has already patented 3 kids so she might not be ready to take one more responsibility when she just wants to take rest. I personally feel she should have said no for this.

Now coming to this show, I feel Anupama's expectations was Anuj should understand that her priorities can not change. She can not make him and CA her priority and Anuj should never ask for it.

Anupama's contribution is nothing in her second marriage because she could never prioritise it. I strongly feel she should not have said to foster a child. That way at least she could run around SH freely without any obligations as Anuj is anyways her puppy.

I feel usko Anuj se shaadi hi nahi karni chahiye thi.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: magicalgirll

I feel usko Anuj se shaadi hi nahi karni chahiye thi.

Haww...phir example kaise shet hota...women empowerment ka kya hota... Ma hu naee dialogue kaise maarti wo 100 times 🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago
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It's wrong ki dukhmukh ke kehne pe kiya she only do what she want to without caring of anyone no one can force her , she wanted to divorce vanraj she did it despite her kids & baa bhagwan asking her not to .


Dont blame dukhmukh varna Leela ko aapke peeche chhod dungi

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

I asked & requested so many people but no body answered 😡


1 ) what was anupama's expectations from his second marriage?


2 ) what is anupama's contribution in her name sake second marriage


Please answer this , if I get unbiased answer answer I will definitely not called anupama as cowardpama, will daily rant anupama is great on d forum . Pinky promise.



# # jo log anuj ke tariff karne aaye unki khushi ke liye mein pehle hi keh dete hoon anuj is bewakoof, gadha , paagal who thought person like him can have a life with anupama d great as he is not worthy of her khush . Ok ab uski tariff mat karna.

I will be more happy if this shameless lady Anuj se jitna door rahe to we all call Maaya shameless but Anupama kya kam shameless hai hamesh Kavya ke husband ke ghar ajaati hai .

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Posted: 2 years ago
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1 ) what was anupama's expectations from his second marriage?

Anu wanted to be loved and respected by Anuj .....this is what dkp wants us to believe but what we saw she secured the entire Husmukh Shah Clan's future.⭐️

2 ) what is anupama's contribution in her name sake second marriage

Anu made him realize Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty.😔


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Posted: 2 years ago
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I think she loved the feeling of being loved, that is why she married again..

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