What CA wants - Page 5

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

When a child comes to you to discuss problems, you talk them through, do something about it. Not stay quiet.

If Choti Anu confessed to Anuj that Maaya doesn't love her and is ignoring her, what on earth is Anuj doing about it?

What is Choti Anu supposed to understand from ALL this?

First that Choti Anu is the cause of fights among her foster parents, even though she loves Anuj-Anupama more and knows Anupama loves her more than Maaya, she will have to stay there to ensure her foster parents are not bothered?

This is disturbing to an Adult. Think about what it would be for a 7-year old.

i am sorry, but every adult in question is highly irresponsible. None is bothered to clear Choti Anu's doubts whether it is about who loves her, who doesn't, whether she is the root of problems and fights between the couple. It is like putting the onus of understanding everything on a 7-year old.

About Choti Anu feeling that Anupama loves her more than Maaya being a conclusion that Maaya is at fault/Maaya is wrong, is, sorry to say, absurd.

Children often say Father loves them more than the Mother or Maasi loves them more than the mother. Does that make the mother be at fault or is wrong?

Again, is our perception of Maaya, the mother based on the fact that she is eyeing Anuj? Are we judging the situation from the lens of Maaya the other woman in Anuj-Anupama paradise?

Secondly,

Choti Anu decided a settlement for the problem that she would stay for a few days with Maaya and a few days with Anuj-Anupama? Isn't it too much for a 7-year old to arrive at such solutions?

Ok, so, Choti Anu said this to Anuj, did she tell this to Maaya as well?

Did the so-called adults discuss this jointly?

Why should anuj or anupama clarify to anu. Isn't it biological mother's duty to see her child well being n her mental state. What is she doing as mother if outsiders have to clarify. Why hasn't she been able to bridge the gap so CA start calling her mom n start confessing to her.

Problem here is on this forum ppl hate anupama so even if Maya is wrong they find fault in anupama n try to show Maya as some mahaan aurat. Which she is not. She is a despo who ignores her child for her lust. If u want to argue better give some proper logical statement. Blaming everything on anupama when others are at fault doesn't make sense. Anupama is at fault many times but it's not like other characters r not at fault.

It's not our perception it's shown in the show that Maya is wrong.

Originally posted by: naaznin

Why should anuj or anupama clarify to anu. Isn't it biological mother's duty to see her child well being n her mental state. What is she doing as mother if outsiders have to clarify. Why hasn't she been able to bridge the gap so CA start calling her mom n start confessing to her.

Sorry i did not understand.

Choti Anu tell Maaya that Anupama loves her More than her? How can Maaya clarify something she doesn't know or share?

Whatever has happened is it a small thing and is Choti Anu a switch that she swindles and adapts on a click. Her calling Maaya or Maa is not a barometer of anything.

Aur waise bhi, when Choti Anu, even after living with them for months, can hide from her foster parents that the school had announced a picnic because she thought her foster parents were too busy, this is just a few days that she is with Maaya.

If Anuj and Anupama have no responsibility, say or stake in the matter, what is the fuss ALL about? Why ask Maaya to bring Choti Anu to Kapadia Mansion, why call her, why come Mumbai? Everything is a moot point. It also means, Choti Anu has this misconception that Anuj-Anupama are anything to her.

Problem here is on this forum ppl hate anupama so even if Maya is wrong they find fault in anupama n try to show Maya as some mahaan aurat. Which she is not. She is a despo who ignores her child for her lust. If u want to argue better give some proper logical statement. Blaming everything on anupama when others are at fault doesn't make sense. Anupama is at fault many times but it's not like other characters r not at fault.

It's not our perception it's shown in the show that Maya is wrong.

Talking about being judgemental or perceptive. The fact of the matter is, everyone of us is perceptive and judgemental of the other.

Just as we have strong opinions on subjects, things, others have a strong opinion as well and most of the times may not be the same as ours.

An argument is when two strong opinions clash.

Who is to say who is right and who is not?

Furthermore, we are judging a Maaya the mother because she is eyeing Anuj.

Maaya is wrong to eye a married man and wreck his married life. But how is that a barometer to judge what kind of mother she is to Choti Anu?

What has she done to ignore Choti Anu? If the answer is that she did not go to drop her to school and stayed back, how many times before have they dropped her to school and/picked her up while at Kapadia Mansion.

Did Pakhi go to Maaya's house to convince Anuj? Did she not have Dheeraj's address?

So you mean to say, Pakhi comes to Maaya's house to create a scene and Maaya should have left the two at her house and left?

I say, ask them to leave and argue elsewhere on bringing Anuj-Anupama together.

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You guys are still trying. Cant you see ? 😆

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

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U just want to blame anupama even when Maya is shown negative n giving illogical reasoning. U r not even watching the show just reading updates. Better watch the show properly. Maya's character is turning like Shagun of YHM. Only ppl on this forum r hell bent to prove Maya as gr8 otherwise she is being hated every where.

Anupama was always shown to be cuddling n Bonding with Anu n she used to talk to her like a mother. Anupama already has three kids so she kind of has experience in getting close to a child. That's why anu got attached to anupama. But Maya being a new mother doesn't seem to have idea on what physical n emotional attachment a child wants. Also because of anuj her focus went to anuj instead of anu. Hence anu is not getting attached to maya.

I was knowing kanta & bhavesh r anupama's real family, I guess u missed to know anupama was not allowed to meet her real family by vanraj & Leela as in recent episode anupama taunted Leela about it u missed it I guess . Kanta ben & bhavesh dint like Leela & vanraj coz they seperate them from anupama

Anupama always included her mother brother in her happiness, they were present in kinjal toshu engagement & wedding, kanta ben was present in dance academy opening, bhavesh was present bhoomi poojan arrange by anuj, after divorce many times it has been told anupama went to visit her mother , maybe d actress playing kanta ben was not available so was not shown, when there was tiff b/w kinjal & baa on household duties that time anupama was busy with kanta who had operation of knee, anupama did give back to pakhi also when she insulted kanta ben & bhavesh or bhi moment

Maybe u missed all this yes I m also irritate with anupama unhealthy obsession towards shah house & bapuji but that doesn't mean she don't care 4 her mother or brother

Maaya was never meant to be a innocent character or ye anupama ki vajah se nhi tha . I earlier also told u maya bgm is not negative but tells about her personality that's of a manipulator, it's Sanskrit shlok about maaya that she has innocent but seerat means nature is not innocent some thing like that . For ur knowledge I should tell lord Vishnu is also known as maayapati as he can never be trapped by anyone maaya , nor anyone can escape his maaya .

To be very true maaya ka character ek hafte ka tha as chavi initial interview said it's a cameo , or na hi uske character mein koi dum tha , it was a phuski bomb 💣 gods know why she collected so much evidence when she never had to use it , maybe she had some other agenda which might be shown latter.

zabardasti usse sympathy story de lekin jab usse koi farak pada nhi to usse anuj ke peeche laga diya gaya

It's better that end this good 4 nothing character

Anuj , anupama dint care to clear anu's doubt but did maaya dared to clear infact she used it for her own benefit so she will not care to remove or this is not maaya's responsibility?

Will CA tell this to maaya , will she even agree to it ? She will again rant mein bahut akeli hoon blah blah blah , CA said she came with maaya coz she is akeli.

Forget about anuj anupama tell me about maaya what she has done for CA as a mother ? , What are responsibility of mother . Aapki tasali ke liye mein pehle hi keh deti anupama is not a good mother . Do tell me.

Aapko itni vakalt karte ho maaya ke liye , to usme sach mein kuch unique qualities hongi to mujhe nhi pata

Maya character has been butchered by CVs just to show Anupama mahaan

Thats sad because she was sold into prostitution abused so much by men and ran away some how for whom for CA

Now the child for whom Maya faced so much says anupama loves her more than her mother

Such a shame this show has become just to make one woman mahaan other is slandered like this

Before it was Rakhi and kavya now its Maya and Barkha butchered to praise anupama

Atleast spare woman who are abused by society do not show them bad on shows

You are spreading wrong message in world that woman abused and sold into prostitution deserve it and are cheap and are not good mothers and are after others husbands etc all wrong messages

Have you visited NGOs or woman centers run for prostitutes and abused woman and see how they are or behave exact opposite of Maya

They are exploited so much by men that they hate men they are scared of men they get terrified being in mans company and needs decades of counselling to over come such fear whether its india or USA

You are showing Maya character exact opposite of what a woman in her place has undergone they are scared of interacting with men or being near men actually

This anuj and anupama should get restraining orders to come near CA only than maya can bond with CA as mother or parent. Till these 2 are around CA CA will never bond with maya as parent child.

If a child is left with grandparent for upbringing they do not have strong bond with mother father too. That happens in real too. Same way anuj and anupama interfering too much with CA life hence maya cannot bond with that child as mother or parent.

How will anuj anupama feel if they have own child and some outsider comes and starts treating their child as own and never allows them to bond as parents?

Anuj and anupama have no rights to meet CA or interfere so much between her and Myaa. And no CA will not be asked by court to stay with maan as usually biological parent or grandparent have right over child than any adopted or foster

Anuj has no right to come and meet CA in mumbai and not allow maya to bond with CA.

I know Maya is bad shes after anupama husband

But anuj is also bad hes after mayas child and stalking CA

CA is maya first child Maya is learning howto be mom for past 1-2 months only she needs time

When anyone gets their first pet at home they do not become expert mom dad in first few months its all learning. But if they have 4 dogs or cats than they know how to deal with 5th dog or cat like Pro from 1st day bec of experience

Same is for kids too first kid all parents are learning next kid they are 50% better by 3rd kid they are 75% knowing all by 5th kid they become expert from day one.

Maya is first kd and only 2 months since shes got that kid allow her to become mother to CA than interfere so much in their life by anuj and anupama calling going to meet etc

Originally posted by: naaznin

U just want to blame anupama even when Maya is shown negative n giving illogical reasoning. U r not even watching the show just reading updates. Better watch the show properly. Maya's character is turning like Shagun of YHM. Only ppl on this forum r hell bent to prove Maya as gr8 otherwise she is being hated every where.

Going by the title, I thought it was about Choti Anu. Where does blaming Anupama come here? Kindly share which of my posts is blaming Anupama.

Choti Anu's character development has been bad and I have specified why I feel the same. If that's illogical reasoning, 🤷🏻‍♀️. Each to his own.

Secondly, are you trying to say, the updates are incorrect? Then may be, that's the problem.

Ok. So, a character is hailed or hated everywhere else. Does that mean everyone should have the same opinion?

Anupama was always shown to be cuddling n Bonding with Anu n she used to talk to her like a mother. Anupama already has three kids so she kind of has experience in getting close to a child. That's why anu got attached to anupama. But Maya being a new mother doesn't seem to have idea on what physical n emotional attachment a child wants. Also because of anuj her focus went to anuj instead of anu. Hence anu is not getting attached to maya.

Well, may be, but, why judge her for being the mother?

When we last discussed about being perceptive and conclusive🤷🏻‍♀️.

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Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

I was knowing kanta & bhavesh r anupama's real family, I guess u missed to know anupama was not allowed to meet her real family by vanraj & Leela as in recent episode anupama taunted Leela about it u missed it I guess . Kanta ben & bhavesh dint like Leela & vanraj coz they seperate them from anupama

Anupama always included her mother brother in her happiness, they were present in kinjal toshu engagement & wedding, kanta ben was present in dance academy opening, bhavesh was present bhoomi poojan arrange by anuj, after divorce many times it has been told anupama went to visit her mother , maybe d actress playing kanta ben was not available so was not shown, when there was tiff b/w kinjal & baa on household duties that time anupama was busy with kanta who had operation of knee, anupama did give back to pakhi also when she insulted kanta ben & bhavesh or bhi moment

Maybe u missed all this yes I m also irritate with anupama unhealthy obsession towards shah house & bapuji but that doesn't mean she don't care 4 her mother or brother

What stopped her from going to Kanta's after divorce? Infact, Kanta came on 2 - 3 occasions to take her back but still she infact told her that Shah House was where her parents were and sent her back.

Her mother also advised her atleast twice to prioritize and value her new marriage second chance at life which clearly she did not take.

Just going by number of times she has remembered/called/visited Kanta and Bhaveshtor ever referred to their house as Maayka v/s Shah House as Maayka and Leela-Hansmukh as her parents, anyone would agree, ofcourse, only if one wants to, though🤷🏻‍♀️.