What CA wants - Page 4

Again, where have we spoken about who the better mother is?

The topic was what Choti Anu wants. To which we don't think anyone including the writers know.

Choti Anu's character has been badly written because of ALL the reasons mentioned earlier.

Who is a better mother to Choti Anu?

That is in itself a joke because the writers seem to have different priorities. This is a lost case and as Prerna mentioned, I think it's better to close the Choti Anu.

They have insulted the care and love of mothers like Barkha, Rakhi, Kanta enough.

We have seen the Anmol ratna of Anupama. In any case, what can we say when someone (who is the foster mother) teaches a child just sacrifice, accept abuse, make a child believe that yes, she turned out to be the reason for issues between her foster parents and yes, whatever Maaya said was true. Reminds of two instances (before Maaya existed on the show) when Choti Anu asked her foster parents to patch up and another where she started questioning if her foster parents were fighting because of her.

There was nothing shown about Anuj-Maaya till the character of Maaya (despite her past) started gaining popularity. The initial episodes with her arguments with Anuj about guardianship leading to him and Ankush digging her past.

There was a blatant attempt to glorify Anupama with the bangle show of how accepting she is of a woman with a dark past.

However, unlike the CVs who assume audiences are from decades ago, the audience seemed to have acknowledged that incidents and situations like Maaya's are a reality and one cannot judge/question people by their past.

In any case, a person who can dig out her past about eloping with her boyfriend to being sold off by the same guy she married can surely validate her rescue and rise of power.

So, when these tricks failed to generate hate for Maaya, the old trick in the book started, a love triangle with a one-sided love. And Bingo, hit bull's eye. None likes another woman so much so, that people start questioning a validated past🤷🏻‍♀️. It seems this time the writers got it right.

In any case, tell me one person who is not a villain in Anuj-Anupama's life? Oh wait, are they showing Anuj too as villain in Anupama’s life?

Still after ALL this and many hundreds of episodes, Anupama is where she was, no realisation, no learning, no growth but still she is the BESHT🤷🏻‍♀️.

Originally posted by: naaznin

Maya is not present wholly for CA. She is always busy in plotting n ignores CA. When child herself doesn't feel she is loved by her biological mom there has to be something.

Anu already acknowledged that if she doesn't go with Maya she will trouble anuj and anupama. So she kind of have seen Maya's negative side n doesn't have good opinion of her.

Choti Anu said what Maaya told her and Anupama did not deny it. What does that mean?

I haven't been watching it, going by updates here,

She seems to be doing the normal things that girls her age do. She might be missing the drama of Kapadia's and Shahs but that's healthy, right?

has there been mention or instances of her ignoring Choti Anu or Choti Anu confessing that Maaya doesn't love her?

Has she told it to anyone? And that someone (possibly Anuj-Anupama because these are the only 2 people she spoke to i suppose) who she said this is silent and doing nothing about it?

Then the person she said this to, doesn't seem to care any more.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Choti Anu said what Maaya told her and Anupama did not deny it. What does that mean?

I haven't been watching it, going by updates here,

She seems to be doing the normal things that girls her age do. She might be missing the drama of Kapadia's and Shahs but that's healthy, right?

has there been mention or instances of her ignoring Choti Anu or Choti Anu confessing that Maaya doesn't love her?

Has she told it to anyone? And that someone (possibly Anuj-Anupama because these are the only 2 people she spoke to i suppose) who she said this is silent and doing nothing about it?

Then the person she said this to, doesn't seem to care any more.

Yes she has. Maya just in yesterday’s epi proved she doesn’t care for CA much.. she’s more concerned about eyeing and lusting after Anuj and manipulating and plotting. She proved in yesterday’s epi.

CA herself confessed Maya doesn’t love her as much as Anu loves her. CA herself said she loves Anupama and considers Anupama her mother more than Maya..

Originally posted by: YoungHeart

Yes she has. Maya just in yesterday’s epi proved she doesn’t care for CA much.. she’s more concerned about eyeing and lusting after Anuj and manipulating and plotting. She proved in yesterday’s epi.

CA herself confessed Maya doesn’t love her as much as Anu loves her. CA herself said she loves Anupama and considers Anupama her mother more than Maya..

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Who did she comfess to? What is that person doing still?

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

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Who did she comfess to? What is that person doing still?

CA confessed this to Anuj just 2 episodes back that Maya doesn't love her as much as Anupama does and that she loves Anupama more

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Choti Anu said what Maaya told her and Anupama did not deny it. What does that mean?

I haven't been watching it, going by updates here,

She seems to be doing the normal things that girls her age do. She might be missing the drama of Kapadia's and Shahs but that's healthy, right?

has there been mention or instances of her ignoring Choti Anu or Choti Anu confessing that Maaya doesn't love her?

Has she told it to anyone? And that someone (possibly Anuj-Anupama because these are the only 2 people she spoke to i suppose) who she said this is silent and doing nothing about it?

Then the person she said this to, doesn't seem to care any more.

CA told anupama that she loves anuj anupama more than Maya she didn't told her about maya. Then she confessed to anuj yesterday that Maya doesn't love her so much like anupama used to do. And we saw anu asked Maya "to drop her to school" but Maya said to go with driver because she wanted to keep eye on pakhi. Anu said she planned to live with Maya only for few days then go back n then come to Maya for few days. And anuj coming to her ruined her plan. She confessed all this.

A mother priotises someone else's husband over her own biological child. Also when a child herself says anupama loves her more than Maya is at fault.Also pakhi said that barkha n maya keep on planning whole day so quite possible that anu gets ignored by Maya n we saw that too in episode. Anuj asked Maya to drop anu to him n don't come herself but Maya sent CA to picnic n herself came to anuj for getting close to him.

Anu said she understand anupama has other kids n that's why her attention got divided but with Maya she has no such reasons.

Maya is a pathetic woman n she is hailed only on this forum. Otherwise she is worst of a kind.

Ok. So Choti Anu did not say Maaya doesn't love her or she is bad or ignored or a cause of her problems but that Anupama loves her more than Maaya.

Am I right?

Did Pakhi come to Maaya's house to see Anuj?

Let's not conclude on biological mother, the prioritizing of child needs, how pathetic a woman is, how this forum etc.

Maa toh ek anupmaaaaa hi hai. Jagat mata

Others women whether it's rakhi, barkha Or maaya are bad mothers.

2 din pehle tak maaya maaya.. N ab anu jaada pyaar karti hai isse. Anu se jaada toh barkha ne care ki hai iski..

6 sal ki bacchi ko pata hai ji maaya anu or anuj ko pareshan karegi.

Maaya ka character kharab hai, isliye woh acchi maa nahi hai

Bb padi likhi hai, woh acchi maa nahi hai

Rakhi working woman hai, isliye woh acchi maa nahi hai

Acchi maa ki theory, practical mei ( chahe woh iske naache ho ya phir doosro ke ya phir adopted) toh anu maa hi phirst hai.. Inko star milega

When a child comes to you to discuss problems, you talk them through, do something about it. Not stay quiet.

If Choti Anu confessed to Anuj that Maaya doesn't love her and is ignoring her, what on earth is Anuj doing about it?

What is Choti Anu supposed to understand from ALL this?

First that Choti Anu is the cause of fights among her foster parents, even though she loves Anuj-Anupama more and knows Anupama loves her more than Maaya, she will have to stay there to ensure her foster parents are not bothered?

This is disturbing to an Adult. Think about what it would be for a 7-year old.

i am sorry, but every adult in question is highly irresponsible. None is bothered to clear Choti Anu's doubts whether it is about who loves her, who doesn't, whether she is the root of problems and fights between the couple. It is like putting the onus of understanding everything on a 7-year old.

About Choti Anu feeling that Anupama loves her more than Maaya being a conclusion that Maaya is at fault/Maaya is wrong, is, sorry to say, absurd.

Children often say Father loves them more than the Mother or Maasi loves them more than the mother. Does that make the mother be at fault or is wrong?

Again, is our perception of Maaya, the mother based on the fact that she is eyeing Anuj? Are we judging the situation from the lens of Maaya the other woman in Anuj-Anupama paradise?

Secondly,

Choti Anu decided a settlement for the problem that she would stay for a few days with Maaya and a few days with Anuj-Anupama? Isn't it too much for a 7-year old to arrive at such solutions?

Ok, so, Choti Anu said this to Anuj, did she tell this to Maaya as well?

Did the so-called adults discuss this jointly?

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

Maa toh ek anupmaaaaa hi hai. Jagat mata

Others women whether it's rakhi, barkha Or maaya are bad mothers.

2 din pehle tak maaya maaya.. N ab anu jaada pyaar karti hai isse. Anu se jaada toh barkha ne care ki hai iski..

6 sal ki bacchi ko pata hai ji maaya anu or anuj ko pareshan karegi.

Maaya ka character kharab hai, isliye woh acchi maa nahi hai

Bb padi likhi hai, woh acchi maa nahi hai

Rakhi working woman hai, isliye woh acchi maa nahi hai

Acchi maa ki theory, practical mei ( chahe woh iske naache ho ya phir doosro ke ya phir adopted) toh anu maa hi phirst hai.. Inko star milega

You know what's funnier, NONE of the Children value their Mothers.

Kinjal, we ALL can agree, is able to be the way she is at Shah House because dare they do something to her, Rakhi will show them stars in the day. Still Kinjal doesn't spare a word in her mother's defense when she is called names.

Barkha, what does one say, she is the best bet for them ALL to be used a villain. From Maa samaan Bhabhi in the first episode to now, a LOT has been twisted for convenience.

Even Kanta for that matter. When Kanta wanted to take her after divorce, it was Anupama who asked her leave not on just one occasion saying she has lost a family but her parents are still there for her, really?

Sach batao, how many knew Anupama's mother was Kanta and what her Mayka actually was.

She did not bother calling them on any occasion (other than Rakshabandhan) and now when she was left with no choice went running to her and even let her go to Shah House and Mumbai to fight her battles? How convenient?!