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Posted: 2 years ago

Till divorce, it was actually quite good. Devika was a refreshing change - imagine an ITV female friend not after the FL's husband + I am enough for myself ❤️ -Anupama having a good relation with her DIL (Kinjal) inspite of the toxic relation with her own MIL, her learning to drive, there were so many more good things. There was this self love thing that RG is mentioning and it kept me hooked. Of course, Anu was too mahaan from beginning but I could overlook it because of the good things + promise of change.

After Anupama stayed back at Shahs after divorce, the show started going downhill for me. When Anuj came, she started taking stand for Anuj and herself and I thought She iz beck. I liked the Dadi ki Shaadi track - addressed age shaming well. After that, nothing good from Anu's side. Anuj threw a fit over Shahs and the track had great potential but got lost over song and dance until it became this soggy mess.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Snowfally

Till divorce, it was actually quite good. Devika was a refreshing change - imagine an ITV female friend not after the FL's husband + I am enough for myself ❤️ -Anupama having a good relation with her DIL (Kinjal) inspite of the toxic relation with her own MIL, her learning to drive, there were so many more good things. There was this self love thing that RG is mentioning and it kept me hooked. Of course, Anu was too mahaan from beginning but I could overlook it because of the good things + promise of change.

After Anupama stayed back at Shahs after divorce, the show started going downhill for me. When Anuj came, she started taking stand for Anuj and herself and I thought She iz beck. I liked the Dadi ki Shaadi track - addressed age shaming well. After that, nothing good from Anu's side. Anuj threw a fit over Shahs and the track had great potential but got lost over song and dance until it became this soggy mess.

Those were the days when i used to adore Anupama.❤

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Snowfally

Till divorce, it was actually quite good. Devika was a refreshing change - imagine an ITV female friend not after the FL's husband + I am enough for myself ❤️ -Anupama having a good relation with her DIL (Kinjal) inspite of the toxic relation with her own MIL, her learning to drive, there were so many more good things. There was this self love thing that RG is mentioning and it kept me hooked. Of course, Anu was too mahaan from beginning but I could overlook it because of the good things + promise of change.

After Anupama stayed back at Shahs after divorce, the show started going downhill for me. When Anuj came, she started taking stand for Anuj and herself and I thought She iz beck. I liked the Dadi ki Shaadi track - addressed age shaming well. After that, nothing good from Anu's side. Anuj threw a fit over Shahs and the track had great potential but got lost over song and dance until it became this soggy mess.

Very well summarised. It's been quite a rollercoaster. They had even managed to deal with the Covid related shooting problems quite well with the whole cancer treatment track. But then her staying back with Tamashahs ruined everything. Yet when Anuj appeared it seemed to be getting back on track. However, the subsequent Mukku track was a complete mess but again they wrapped that up quickly. Post that there was virtually zero progress with each track involving the butchering of a social issue with no effective conclusion except a mahaanta laden lecture and this rinse repeat formula being followed throughout. Can't see anything bright here in the future. Maybe, all that the famed vision consisted of, was rehabilitating the image of eternal hero Vanraj with his worthless clan 😆

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

Very well summarised. It's been quite a rollercoaster. They had even managed to deal with the Covid related shooting problems quite well with the whole cancer treatment track. But then her staying back with Tamashahs ruined everything. Yet when Anuj appeared it seemed to be getting back on track. However, the subsequent Mukku track was a complete mess but again they wrapped that up quickly. Post that there was virtually zero progress with each track involving the butchering of a social issue with no effective conclusion except a mahaanta laden lecture and this rinse repeat formula being followed throughout. Can't see anything bright here in the future. Maybe, all that the famed vision consisted of, was rehabilitating the image of eternal hero Vanraj with his worthless clan 😆

Seems that way. No other sane reason for repeating Anuj = Vanraj Had the TRPs not caught the downward slide, I suppose AnuRaj would be happening right now. I have noticed that Aniruddh has disappeared as quickly as he appeared. No AnuRaj, No AniYa.

Social issue - in complete agreement with you.

I thought Maya and Dimple were to break stereotypes, not further them. Again, Ankush is whitewashed but Barkha is still vamp. Woman golddigger / homewrecker stereotype again. Regression in clothing of progression, they name is Anupamaa.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Snowfally

I thought Maya and Dimple were to break stereotypes, not further them. Again, Ankush is whitewashed but Barkha is still vamp. Woman golddigger / homewrecker stereotype again. Regression in clothing of progression, they name is Anupamaa.

Absolutely. Dimpy's track is the most infuriating out of all.

If the eventual plan post Nandini's departure was to have another girl for Samar who might go negative or has grey shades, it could have been done very simply by introducing her without this whole background. And if they necessarily wanted to show Anupamaa as a crusader for justice who does the work of police, the character she helps could have been phased out after the track instead of being linked with Samar. A new character could have been brought for that. People rightfully poured scorn on Dimpy for being thankless but portraying a survivor as an ingrate was a very conscious choice by makers in the first place.

It's all too easy to applaud the makers of this regressive show where educated women are specifically the vamps and always vilified, where abuse & manipulation is justified because it is done by elders, where the lead character has the wrong priorities such as the unbreakable bond with ex husband (whose crimes are always condoned) and ultimately sets an example of constantly swallowing humiliation and living a miserable existence. What a great show and inspiration, especially for the women of all ages that watch it🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago

I am only interested in 3rd point because I am literally slogging 24/7 and juggling between work and upskilling myself.

Koi guarantee de sakta hai ki hota hai sahi mein? 😒

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

Absolutely. Dimpy's track is the most infuriating out of all.

If the eventual plan post Nandini's departure was to have another girl for Samar who might go negative or has grey shades, it could have been done very simply by introducing her without this whole background. And if they necessarily wanted to show Anupamaa as a crusader for justice who does the work of police, the character she helps could have been phased out after the track instead of being linked with Samar. A new character could have been brought for that. People rightfully poured scorn on Dimpy for being thankless but portraying a survivor as an ingrate was a very conscious choice by makers in the first place.

It's all too easy to applaud the makers of this regressive show where educated women are specifically the vamps and always vilified, where abuse & manipulation is justified because it is done by elders, where the lead character has the wrong priorities such as the unbreakable bond with ex husband (whose crimes are always condoned) and ultimately sets an example of constantly swallowing humiliation and living a miserable existence. What a great show and inspiration, especially for the women of all ages that watch it🤣

Makers have ruined every character one by one so much that it has become unbearable to tolerate any character especially character like Anuj for whom we used to be crazy like anything. It felt like love was in air.

Acc to makers, only anupma can address all the issues, they are giving msgs to audience through anupma. Poori duniya ko social issues se yehi aware karegi.


I feel makers yeh na dikha de... Anupma has gone to sudan to resolve that issue and how courageously she is working on evacuation operation.


Apne ghar ka, husband ka issue solve na hota, iss orat se, par baaki sab akele kar lengi yeh


Coming to dimpy who is portrayed as selfish and ungrateful.


Anupama always does good to other but in return, what she gets, criticism or betrayal... Bechari anupma.. She is like that saint who saves a crab everytime even after being bitten.


To me, Anupama is like anaconda who can swallow a person completely at once.. Imagine, big goons started trembling before her... Gave jordaar ka chaata to kavya..Barkha and maaya do not stand anywhere in front of her... She became chandi in a minute. No comparison of her tongue.


But now kanta ben has to come in between to fight for anupama who is behaving like bechari, helpless goongi gudiya.


Where was this kanta ben when anu became dadi, she also became padnani... Was she not happy? Then why did not she come and knock some sense in her beti's head. She is giving gyaan lecture and bhasan to everyone.. Thoda gyaan apni beti ko naa de diyo.


Anu di ki army is always ready... See paakhi, jisse apna ghar, pati na sambhalta... Jise 5 p ki akal nahi hai... Mumbai pahunch gayi. Saree pehan kar yeh ab sati savitri, devi ban gayi hai. Ab yeh dushto ka vinaash karengi.


Talk about udaan, 45 yr ki anupama who has everything...has restaurants in her name. Money, power but yeh tiffin supply karengi and paakhi ko kuch nahi karna.. Yeh ghar mei tayar ho kar, 5 kg ka make up kar ke.. Baatein sunegi , 2 ulte jawaab degi, phir sofa todegi. Maa ki academy join kar le... Woh rinky, minky, dimpy, simpy ke liye hai..


Women empowerment, emancipation ke naam par kab tak kachra serve karenge yaar.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: strancho

I am only interested in 3rd point because I am literally slogging 24/7 and juggling between work and upskilling myself.

Koi guarantee de sakta hai ki hota hai sahi mein? 😒


Arrey aur bhi hain, add karo:

1. Padhe-likhe insaan, lalachi, matlabi, dhokebaaz aur bure hote hain.

2. 5-Page ke Bhashan se hriday parivartan ho jata hain har kisiko

3. Har Anupama ke liye Anuj Kapadia hota hain jo paise batata hain aur apni poori property uske naam kar deta hain.

4. Aaj Kal bank loan kewal vishwas par diye jaate hain bina savings aur collateral ke.

5. Apna venture kholne ke kuch hi time me breakeven bhi hojata hain aur lakhon ka profit bhi. Strugglers kis khet ki mooli hain.

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Posted: 2 years ago

You have forgotten how mata jee barged in the Kijus boss office along with the whole shah family and what they did to the boss even police cant do it .

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

I feel makers yeh na dikha de... Anupma has gone to sudan to resolve that issue and how courageously she is working on evacuation operation.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I think it's a good idea. Anyway, her life here is super successful and she has achieved everything possible so now she can start solving the problems of the world. Sudan, Ukraine, Yemen and wherever else there are conflicts taking place. A lot of countries would be interested in listening to her bhashan and people worldwide could benefit from her gyaan ke moti. Maybe Indian govt. should push her candidature for the post of UN Secretary General 😈

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