The stark difference between Anuj and Vanraj - Page 10

Originally posted by: strancho

Why is Anupama tolerating his baseless accusations? She should walk out of that house. Divorce fek ke Maaro uske muh pe..

Exactly!

Aur PoA toh hain hi uske paas. She can deny him alimony. He ought to suffer.

Why should Anupama suffer abuse from a stupid man who blames her for his failures?

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

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Finally!

That's it.

itna patience mujh mein hota toh mai Anuj Kapadia kehlaati…

Originally posted by: hinz

behen tujhe salaam🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 and big hug🤗

itna patience mujh mein hota toh mai Anuj Kapadia kehlaati…

Ab Hina di hi raho. Puppy banne ka jaroorat nahi hai 🤣

Originally posted by: strancho

Why is Anupama tolerating his baseless accusations? She should walk out of that house. Divorce fek ke Maaro uske muh pe..

That's her house. Anuj should be kicked out.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

That's her house. Anuj should be kicked out.

Correction: Anupama should throw the puppy out of her house which was gifted to her by the puppy on the basis of baseless allegations made against her by the puppy

Puppy ko thoda pyaar kya de diya, puppy to bhediya ban gya

Originally posted by: hinz

behen tujhe salaam🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 and big hug🤗

itna patience mujh mein hota toh mai Anuj Kapadia kehlaati…

Humse aur na hoga.

Indeed Anuj was at fault because he chose to fall in love with a stupid,dumb old lady n even married her..Anuj is a fool for sure.

[Me]: I don't think you got what "End does Not justify the means" referred to. So, the child confessed that the child wanted to stay with the foster parents.

Anuj was trying to talk to the child, a situation which Anupama manipulated to Not talk.

I don't think that phrase is even relevant here. A child confessing is meaningless here. So you are saying if CA would choose to live with Anuj, it was perfectly normal to separate her from her biological mother .... just because Anuj wanted that. Or because people are so busy blaming Anupama that they even refuse to see that how highly immoral that would have been? I am trying to find some sense into what would come out of "Anuj talking to CA"? Is he even right to think to separate CA from her mother?

There are 2 things here:

a. When she knew the result would still be the same, might as well tell the truth to her husband, the father of Choti Anu. She anyway, successfully, forcefully locked him up to stop him from even conversing with the child and speaking to Maaya.

b. This was the premise of the 15-day challenge was that if at the end of 15-days, Choti Anu wanted to stay with her foster parents, Maaya would leave without a word.

Choti Anu's confession would have put this to rest.

Yeah right!!!! Haha a child choosing her foster parents would have put everything to rest. Talk about fantasies

I can imagine you will then say, Maaya would not honour the deal. Well, who gave the deal in the first place? Tab yeh khayal nahin aaya? That too without taking Anuj into confidence or even discussing with him.

I can see a LOT of what-aboutry. Be that as it may.

2. @bold: The pivotal phrase here being IF. She was sure she is the biological mother through her Mamata meter and stopped others from a DNA Test under law.

So was anuj snoozing when anupama used her mamta meter? Why didn't he use his brains ? He could have put his foot down but he didn't. Why did he choose to be so stupid?

[Me]: This, if you would have scrolled further, would have seen, Yes Anuj was a fool to have trusted Anupama and her promise. Yes Anuj was a fool to have succumbed to Anupama's stern refusals. Well, he did put his foot down, only to be trampled by force by Anupama.

Trampled by anupama? How exactly? Did she threaten to kill herself if he used his brains? Or did she threaten to leave the house if anuj used his brains? Exactly how did she 'trample' him?

This effectively proves two things:

1. Anuj should Not have trusted Anupama with anything to do with Choti Anu.

2. Anuj should have done his own thing/taken unilateral decisions just as Anupama has been doing.

Wait, but aren't they married? Isn't this what marriage is supposed to be? Just asking.

Hey just asking..does being married means throw your common sense in the gutter? Anuj decided to inflate Anupama's ego by putting her on the pedestal and refused to see her mistakes in trusting Maya. So anuj was more stupid than anupama here. He took a backseat only to blame Anuapama later.

Any reason why she gave it in the first place. Why does Anupama expect or assume others actions instead of taking responsibility/ownership of her own?

What does this even mean? Maya had NO REASON to accept this and yet she did. Anupama didnt expect or assume anything. Maya was free to answer what ever she wanted. Anu just made the offer, doesn't mean it's needs to be accepted

[Me]: Oh but she did run back to Kapadia Mansion discarding/ignoring her sick son. Wait wait wait that was because Anuj replied that he was busy. She, even now, did not come back for her love or concern for Choti Anu or Anuj. She came back because of the fear of missing out.

Wait wait wait....didn't anupama make it clear that she wasn't making adhar card of shah house and was there just to visit and look after her son. At some point she would have gone back to her home. So you mean she went back only due to "fear of missing out"??

[Me]: Absolutely not. He cannot get away with trusting Anupama and her promise. I mean it never was a marriage if equals, was it?

But I agree, like I said, he was a goner long back.

Big fat nothing for Choti Anu? Care to elaborate. Because it was only he who was there for Choti Anu despite Anupama and her ignorance.

Tell me just one practical he did to try to stop CA? Met any lawyer? Spoke to Maya to find a middle ground?

He chose to do 2 worst things....try to speak to a child CA to convince her or leave everything on Anupama. Both were irrelevant

About the woman card, let's not get there. Anupama is anything but abla, bechari. A woman who can manhandle an emotionally vulnerable person, gender disregarded, is anything but that.

No one is calling her abla nari but Anuj is no saint here. He purposely put Anupama in the front so she is the villan. He is just as manipulative as his better half

[Me]: You are right. Only Anuj was emotionally connected to Choti Anu. Thanks for indirectly accepting that Anupama had No Emotional Involvement in fostering Choti Anu. So, she did not do enough to improve the situation.

Exactly what Anupama needed to do to improve the situation? The time Maya manipulated the whole thing, Toshu was in the hospital.

Anuj was obviously more connected to CA so shouldnt he be the one taking matters in his hands?

[Me]: In addition to the above, Still does Not answer why she:

a. Gave a 15-day Challenge.

b. Promise Anuj falsely.

c. Stop Anuj, Ankush-Barkha from taking legal actions?

Said it million times and will say again....anuj ankush barkha...all are adults. They had a choice to NOT LISTEN to Anupama. She didn't hold a gun on their foreheads and threatened them with dire consequences if they went against her. All these 3 adults voluntarily acted stupid

And again so what she gave 15 day challenge? Did it even have a point ?

And just because she promised doesn't mean she can achieve it!

Why these points even need an answer? Totally redundant