Maa or Maaya, who is the better mother? - Page 3

Originally posted by: TianaWrites

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Besht Maa

Originally posted by: hinz

@bold- kyu? usko akele sleeping karne mein dar lagta hai?

Itni bholi mat ban tereko pata hai mera kya matlab hai ☺️

Bheegi bheegi raaton mein 😉

Originally posted by: hinz

TiaMaa you better fess up, have you given up writing to concentrate on making such dhaasu gifs?

Correction... Not making... Searching for such dhaasu gifs in tenor

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

On one side is a mother,

• who was not able to teach two of her children to respect her, while a third has an unhealthy attachment to her that's almost Oedipal and is always looking for a wife like her and will dump the girl who just won't sacrifice enough.
• Her standards of respect are based on age and not actions.
• Extremely indecisive.
• Starts doing the same regressive things out of "compulsion" which she claims to have wanted to escape.
• Claims to be independent but whatever has worked for her till date was done majorly by someone else.
• Claims to have a stand of her own that melts like salt in water at the slightest show of emotion.
• Starts many ventures to show off she can do everything but abandons them midway for phemily
• Hangs out with people who disrespect her all the time.
• Will give a child a family to live in but a family that is toxic and will convert the child to either a doormat or a brat.
• Unhygienic, superstitious, and won't change for anything.
• Keeps ranting "I am the Besht, my Phemily is the besht"

And on the other hand there is a mother,

• without a family and has actually handled most of her life alone
• Stayed in a dangerous place for many years and yet didn't lose hope and escaped
• Her standards of respect come from people who actually helped her.
• Doesn't go back to prostitution out of compulsive habit
• Didn't fall in love with her abusers or make them her family.
• Is an actual self-made businesswoman without investments or inheritances from long lost lovers and is not running a business that is gifted.
• PAYS HER OWN BILLS
• Could have forgotten her daughter and started a new life but kept coming back.
• Got attracted to a married man but backed off when he disrespected her and will not relent now.
• Can do house work and have a full-time career.
• Has experiences that can actually inspire her daughter to do better in life.
• Changed her mannerisms for her career (a brothel is usually not a hygienic place, she must not have had much training)
• Doesn't have dysfunctional and toxic people around her.
• Doesn't rant "I am the best" all the time.

The choice shouldn't be difficult. Okay let me tabulate,

Anupamaa pros:

• Cooks great food.
• Will keep loving you even if you detrimentally disrespect her.
• Her response to someone abusing her child varies depending upon how attached she is to the abuser.

Anupamaa cons:

Do we really wanna go there?

Maaya pros:

• Strong and level headed.
• Decent Career woman as well as a decent homemaker. She is neither the multi-millionaire private jet user that Anuj is, nor is the phataphat kitchen queen like Anupamaa but she has just enough of both to give CA a peaceful life.
• Doesn't have unnecessary relationships to hold her down.
• Will aggressively retaliate to anyone trying to harm her as well as her child irrespective of who they are.

Maaya cons:

• May be an absent parent sometimes only because she is a single parent and not because she has to babysit her adult-children.
• The child may get insulted if they come to know about her past.
• May fall in love with wrong people again (she truly has a type, men who don't value her more than trash)

How about now???

@bold

Correction

Will keep loving you even only if you detrimentally disrespect her.

Disclaimer no intention of objectifying anyone!

Lets dehumanise the situation!

Isnt quality of product of any significance while determining the better of two sources or manufacturers?🤪

I mean if 3/ 3 products are defective doesnt say much good about the quality of manufacturer or service provider.😳

Originally posted by: Toto123

Disclaimer no intention of objectifying anyone!

Lets dehumanise the situation!

Isnt quality of product of any significance while determining the better of two sources or manufacturers?🤪

I mean if 3/ 3 products are defective doesnt say much good about the quality of manufacturer or service provider.😳

The products are indeed defective as well as being highly harmful but people are getting confused due to fake reviews posted by the manufacturers and allied service providers. If it's a racket of paid reviews in a bid to prop up their profile, it should surely be probed lest more people be fooled by these useless manufacturers and their toxic products 🤓

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

The products are indeed defective as well as being highly harmful but people are getting confused due to fake reviews posted by the manufacturers and allied service providers. If it's a racket of paid reviews in a bid to prop up their profile, it should surely be probed lest more people be fooled by these useless manufacturers and their toxic products 🤓

The probe is necessary. Some of the reviews look highly suspicious.

"I personally know one of the products - I'd recommend for everyone - full of love, kindness, respect, manners, culture, values, the list is really endless. I am not even a bit spoilt or entitled. 5/5 stars"

1 comment(s): I? Is this a comment posted by the product

"Please...NO ONE ever get this product. I have one with me and now I am filled with regret everyday. When I tried to give the product back, they slapped a NO RETURN POLICY on me"

3 comment(s): God I'm in the same situation - everyone please don't trust this manufacturer. I don't know why my comment keeps getting deleted

This comment has been deleted by the manufacturer

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I have gone too far, haven't I

Originally posted by: hinz

‘Neither’ isn’t an option ok?😳 And we are going to leave Anuj out of the equation, he’s only there for BG noise😳

So, assuming Maaya is not gonna turn out a fraud, if we pit Anupamaa against Maaya who is better on the maa scale?

DKP style reasoning is most welcome😳

Honestly neither are at this point. If I had to choice one with least tight rope around her neck at all time it would be Maya!
At least with Maya, Ca will have normal childhood where she will get love and the attention of a mother. Maya can give her all that. Maya had resources, is educated and can put her child first. No baggage of ex-in-laws, other kids. Maya isn’t perfect and not trying to be like the great MaAn.

Maaya/ Chavi isnt shooting for the show anymore so its safe to assume that focus will shift from Maaya and CA to MaAn’s temporary seperation…

For now Maaya is winning this romachak kampetisan, maa will resume her morcha once she’s won her ATM back..thodi si dencing kar doongi, mere Anuj laut aayenge…daudte hue, sar ke bal 😳

Maaya must be relieved ke gadho se peecha choota even if its for a short while

Originally posted by: hinz

Maaya/ Chavi isnt shooting for the show anymore so its safe to assume that focus will shift from Maaya and CA to MaAn’s temporary seperation…

For now Maaya is winning this romachak kampetisan, maa will resume her morcha once she’s won her ATM back..thodi si dencing kar doongi, mere Anuj laut aayenge…daudte hue, sar ke bal 😳

Maaya must be relieved ke gadho se peecha choota even if its for a short while