Even basis the considerations of her not being a fraud or trying to break up Anujpama marriage, there's barely anything to judge how Maaya is as a mother.
Yes, she did take care of CA when Anupamaa was away and also at the farmhouse (people conveniently forget this when defending the MAA) but I still feel it's too little time to assess.
Anupamaa on the other hand is an utter failure as a mother. Her record is fully blemished. She is more of an unpaid nanny than a mother. Mother's duty is not to only make burger, pizza, cater to unreasonable demands and wipe their tears with snotty pallu.
She has absolutely failed to instill any values in her kids. Tosu is a horrendous disgusting jerk who had no qualms about cheating and disrespecting people. Sadakchaap Makkhi is in the same mould who uses people at will. And the one good egg has also become Vanar bhakt and spineless.
So Maaya is at zero and Anupamaa is in negative
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