Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 12 Mar 2023 - Page 4

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

I would remember for a long time the scene where Maaya made the cake on CA’s demand, decorated it with sprinkles and all, and MAA came in the last minute and cut it with Anuj and they even almost forgot to offer her the cake SHE made. How selfish, and the character is the titular character and Anuj is supposedly a hero. 😵 Any decent person in the world would get cringe at that. 🤔 Had this happened with AnupaMAA, the background music would be full of sympathy and sad song.

Originally posted by: Ria23

First great maa should abandoned her own children then ask Maaya to leave CA

She always leave CA to go to her own children but want to keep CA as well to please Anuj so keep giving her so called ex money

Bingo👏🏼 Todays overacting crying wasn’t about her love for choti leaving her. She was happy that in one breathe both Maya and her child were gone.

It was about how long will her marriage last now. How long until Anuj leaves too. How long until her bank account leaves her broke.

Originally posted by: Snowstorm22

Bingo👏🏼 Todays overacting crying wasn’t about her love for choti leaving her. She was happy that in one breathe both Maya and her child were gone.

It was about how long will her marriage last now. How long until Anuj leaves too. How long until her bank account left her broke.

What do you all feel ?

Originally posted by: Snowstorm22

All are acting stupid at this point.😡 No one is thinking straight. Adoption agency should have gotten involved the moment Maya came into the picture and wanted her child back. Logical step was courts, DNA test. She had documents with her so let her show it to you.🤦🏻‍♀️

Do DNA test, which she was willing to do. Of course not, because Maa has feeling that supersede everything.😡

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

What will happen if Anuj recounts how many times Anupama failed to be with CA just to attend to the requirements of Shah family !
CA was many times neglected by Anupama.
but at the same time If Maaya has to work to earn a livelihood for herself n daughter she too has to leave her alone for several hours a day. Working women can’t remain with their kids all 24*7. So can we compare ?

What do you all feel ?

I have thought about this a lot. Maya has her own business. She could run it from home. She could run it while Choti is doing home work from their dining table.
Go to work while Choti is in school. One thing Maya doesn’t have is ex-in-laws or grown kids always demanding her attention. Maya will be able to give her attention that Anu could never give her willingly.

I hope she gives her the attention and not fails her child. She may even get back on my good side.
I hope Maya prioritizes her time evenly.

Originally posted by: Snowstorm22

I have thought about this a lot. Maya has her own business. She could run it from home. She could run it while Choti is doing home work from their dining table.
Go to work while Choti is in school. One thing Maya doesn’t have is ex-in-laws or grown kids always demanding her attention. Maya will be able to give her attention that Anu could never give her willingly.

I hope she gives her the attention and not fails her child. She may even get back on my good side.
I hope Maya prioritizes her time evenly.

Hmmmm food for thought … also no husband to waste time on silly romance which makes even a 45 yrs old shy 🙈 .

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

Yes let them get DNA test done and because she gave up her child to orphanage n a couple adopted the child ..the best solution might be joint custody by Maaya and MaAn. 3 days a week . What do you feel friends ? But that will not imply Maaya will claim financial support for herself from MaAn .

Honestly, I was all for joint custody between Anuj and Maya until he started mistreating her. Not even giving her a chance. I am tired of both of them. They act like they are the perfect parents. Neither are perfect. After a while this became a competition, not about choti with them. Choti is not a trophy but a human child.

I do not think MaAn should ever raise any child much less Choti Anu. Both need to visit a shrink. They need help. Both have lots of mental health issues to work through before any child should be placed with them.

How they act is not how healthy mature adults act.

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

What will happen if Anuj recounts how many times Anupama failed to be with CA just to attend to the requirements of Shah family !
CA was many times neglected by Anupama.
but at the same time If Maaya has to work to earn a livelihood for herself n daughter she too has to leave her alone for several hours a day. Working women can’t remain with their kids all 24*7. So can we compare ?

What do you all feel ?

Ideally, we can compare and there are pro and cons to everything.

But here, the most unreasonable scenarios will be conjured up by makers where Anupamaa ends up running to Shah shanty everytime, in a bid to glorify her. While Maaya's character will be a vamp and degraded till the maximum possible extent.

Not speculating further either on the basis of technicalities or practicalities for the whole situation about CA's parentage because makers themselves seem unclear and will show any random occurrence

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

Yes let them get DNA test done and because she gave up her child to orphanage n a couple adopted the child ..the best solution might be joint custody by Maaya and MaAn. 3 days a week . What do you feel friends ? But that will not imply Maaya will claim financial support for herself from MaAn .

I dont think either amongst Apmaan or Maaya is a good option for CA here. Maybe the couple is better as people as I can give them the benefit of doubt for good intentions while Maaya is unknown and seems to be plotting and using the child as an accessory.

But, Apmaan couple will never be able to protect her from shameless shahs whatever they do. I refuse to believe that any Tamashah member can ever be good and especially in CA's case, care for her. This is a hill I'm willing to die on. Anupamaid already has problems with prioritising. Her self proclaimed maayka listens to her only at their own convenience, however much she tries. How exactly is she going to shield CA from Vanar Jhuli abuse in the future as well as her own worthless kids targeting her for Kapadia wealth

Why on Earth will Maya go to court to show the DNA test when Anupama said it's not required and that she knows and believes Maya is the Maa. Especially if she's a fraud, why would she go through the trouble of proving something when it's in her favour that an idiot with a so called Maa-meter believes her. If Anupama had shut her mouth and let her show the proof, at least we wouldn't be having this discussion now - either it would've been proven or she would've been thrown out then and there. So all this is a result of Anupama's stupidity.