Anuj obsession to Maa

If Maya is being obsessed with anuj, is not anuj too a obsessed lover of anupama

I mean who in their right senses looks at a dance and falls in love and remains in love with that dancer girl all life

We all liked some film actor as kids or in teenage etc are we remaining obsessed with them all life no we move on to other hero heroines as new ones come

Same way many people fall in love in school college etc who remains obsessed with that girl or boy for 26 years and does not move on

And which sane man keeps tab on that married woman through her best friend for 26 years till she divorces and comes running back to get her as soon as shes divorced

That too all the whoile having one night stand with unsuspecting woman in USA who would not really know he has no intentons to marry them as hes obsessed with anupama

If this is not obsession what else is?

And that too as soon as he comes back to india he starts visiting her house which none of her other classmates male ones did that too her husband house whose so orthodox and strict and suspicious

Not once anuj thought that anupama ex hubby and her family may trouble her if he keeps visiting or calling her home on one pertex ar other. Was this not his love obsession giving her saree and calling her family to puja, festival home etc just to impress her or get close to her. Is it not lover obsession like maya only? He literally followed anupama gave her family jobs her business although none deserved it may be and got it because of anuj obsession with anupama. Anuj was bribing her and her family so that she can become obliged to him and thus never say no to marraige and neither should her family.

I know Shahs are taking advantage of anuj kapadiya wealth and position but anuj himself started this thing by offering anupama business although shes unfit to be business woman neither education nor aptitude. Same for her family neither vanraj or toshu are great at work o hand them business in vanka works etc.

Anupama may be not really fulfilling a wife and mother duty now because actually anuj love has been forced on her by hasmukh and the gratitude to anuj for all money and jobs etc before. Shes neither loved anuj like a soulmate nor will love his family its hasmukh and vanraj telling her and their financial situation that forced anupama to decide to marry anuj in first place. Also society that does not treat divorced woman properly forced her to accept anuj proposal. Because her kids never supported her left her alone after divorce so anuj got opportunity to get close to her.

Now after marraige you see this forced marraige effect that shes still loves shahs as family and never accepted anuj home as her home or anuj as hubby. Because its marraige of compromise for her. Marriage to help benefit her family in long term financially and to go higher in status and because of society pressure and anuj pressure shes said yes. Its not out of her own wish or love thats why anupama behaves the way she does in second marriage.

Ok lets admit it many people have loved someone in college or before marraige but may not be able to marry because of various reasons. Who runs after that love for 26 years keepers tab on them through their friend etc its also obsession only

Anuj obsession was so much he allowed anupama ex hubby to trap his sister malvika in front of his eyes, let vanraj take over kapadiya empire etc. He allowed his family members to be illtreated and abused by shahs and anupama in front of outsiders etc