Anuj's fault? - Page 2

The golden rule of this show is - "ShitnupaMAA can never be wrong"

But jokes apart, Mr. Kapadia invited trouble for himself by simping 24/7 over this lady. His "meri Anu" jaap was quite jarring. The big mistake he made, as pointed out by many is actually marrying her. He had enough time to observe the shameless shahs and to understand the problems that would come along his way. Choices have consequences and now he has to deal with these sadakchaaps and try to protect CA from them.

Also, his lack of action over Trashraj manipulating his own sister cannot be excused. Taking a stand where CA is concerned is a case of Better late than never.

However, when compared with the mahaan maa whose mamta is so world renowned that she is too busy to take even a bit of time out for her daughter, it is natural to feel sympathy for Anuj. Especially when one sees the disgusting treatment meted out to him by her and her filthy phemli. As a character, he is not perfect but at least listens, tries to do good and rectify his mistakes. Unlike the Tamashahs who constantly act out of malice.

It is rational to relate to and root for such a character especially in the backdrop of this show where they are being shown on the receiving end while someone who has a god complex but does nothing right is glorified without any basis.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

I have learned to not get my expectations up & always be disappointed with the show. No trust in PH at all

Deeraj was brought to glorify Dungarpama

Her tantrums worked in making Anuj feel guilty & further gaslight him

Also anyone getting annoyed with Rupali acting where she is crying & blubbering. OMG I wanted to take tissues and stuff her mouth full. So damn annoying

Lady neglected CA like fruitcake at Christmas & now is claiming she can’t live without her!? Drama queen to the extreme
I don’t even think she has called CA yet? I fast watch the shows online cause I can’t stand Anu/Shahs so maybe I missed the call

🤣🤣

Call; yes she called Devika for taking notes on romance, and how to seduce Anuj.

She does not bother and care what the question is. How is CA? On the new year, she is not at home.

whatever the ques, no matter sex is definitely the answer.

Anuj’s fault was that he didn’t book the first available return ticket trip back to the USA and run for his life when he first heard Anupama say ‘soori soori’. A woman who cannot correct a pronunciation she used probably 10 times a day for 26 yrs of servant-life in SH would not be able to correct her life - Anuj should’ve known !

Originally posted by: Snowstrom

Silver Moon,I so agree with your observation as if she needs more ego boost, first. As for the actress herself, I don’t know much about her since I don’t watch any other Indian drama. I have only been paying attention since September. She is a great actress but to me, this overacting is too much. I feel bad for her that this is the garbage she has to work with. It must get tiring.

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Originally posted by: Snowstrom

I have lived in the USA for my entire childhood and have been married for 27 years. I am in the same age group as Anu possibly maybe older by three years give and take. I have cousins, colleagues, friends, and sisters, who are divorced, divorced with kids( much younger than Anu’s batimaaz kids) and remarried but what I have never seen is a woman who runs to her ex- inlaws house to worry about their health, safety and emotional well being over her husband of (6m) and his adopted child. I will use my sister for example, other than monthly child support payments, my sister has not seen nor spoken to her ex-husband in person or over the phone since her divorce 14 years ago. My parents and younger siblings would be the ones dropping her off and picking my niece up from her father’s house after their visits. She is now 16 and can do it herself. My cousin got custody of her daughter the same year as my sister. My cousin’s ex got 8 weeks of visits during the summer. My cousin after the divorce only deals with her ex through her attorney, there is no dealing with her ex-in-laws nor dealing with her ex period. I have colleagues who have remarried divorces with kids and they brought their kids into marriage or fostered kids but yet, but I have never seen anything like the one with Anupama. Even my husband wouldn’t put up with me neglecting our kids and him for my family and their issues daily. No spouse would. I know no American-born and raised spouse would for sure. My desi, American-born kids wouldn’t put up with any kind of this behavior from their spouse.

I have always cone across woman who went through what Anupama did ..hate their inlaws and never speak about inlaws after the divorce. Forget going round their house and doing housework for ex inlaws and ex hubby and living there , they ban these people from communicating totally.

I mean what were they and are the writers trying to convey to their viewers ?? Especially the female viewers ?? Carry on being a doormat to ex inlaws even after divorce ?? 🤔

Originally posted by: Snowstrom

Anjali^Exactly, that is what I am trying to understand here. If you are planning on still showing her as a doormat to her ex, why write about her getting a divorce and moving on? Women who have been abused and are lucky enough to get out with help of laws, and divorce, will do everything in their power to not go back. Here you show a woman blessed with 2nd chance at life but instead of enjoying her life, she has been shown running around catering to the needs of her ex-husband and his parents. He has a wife for this and lets his wife cater to their needs (she, badly wanted that role). Since her kids are grown, and the two are married why is she running after them as if they are still in diapers.🤦🏽‍♀️ even parents in the USA let their kids go at 18 yrs of age and say, we did all we can, here are 50 dollars for food and gas but child your own. Don’t forget to call. Who holds their grown kids' hands when they are old enough to get married and produce kids of their own. I have four kids, and, three of them are out of college with careers, living on their own in different states, from their dad and me. I don’t hold their hand with every life choice and problem they have. We did our part and educated them and now they are on their own and can manage their own lives. I talk to them once a week but that is about. My kids know they are capable of making mistakes and solving their problems. Why can’t writers show this instead of this garbage of a weak woman still with no growth? If I was the actress playing, this role, I would be embarrassed. One day or two days of this writing is fine but after 6 months of no growth still, I would think about having a talk with writers over this garbage. The character deserves better, the actress does too. What I have seen the last few days is beyond insulting to the actress, playing the part and women everywhere, especially the ones in horrible situations who can’t get out and are trying to. Writers have shown that abused women in India, Pakistan, and everywhere else shouldn’t be taken seriously.

above all makers and fans call bearing this abuse and babysitting grownups as a zimmedari and goodness of Maa