Anuj unfit to be anyones family

Anuj is unfit to be anyone family member

Because hes a very ungrateful man whether son or brother or father

One day he never remembered his father and mother or felt bad about their death but today when hasmukh kept hand on head suddeebnly it fellt that hasmukh is his father - can you ever find such shameless son ever? (or may be in 21st century sons are loyal to wife and her family at cost of their own?)

Anuj is not bothered about his sister his only family Malvika for 45 years of life where she is? She has no family than GK or anuj. One day hes not called her or thought about her future. This selfish man in ego even married her to a brute and destroyed her life and acts like best brother in world. Better to nt have siblings than such a bad brother

In 10 years when Malvika is sleeping on roads across world this anuj kapadiya never called her. And now hes calling shahs because his lover anupama daughter pakhi sleeping on road shameless man

This man is wasting his sisters and fathers business and hard earned money on buying 80 lakh neckalce to ungreatful disloyal anupama and spending money like water on Shahs

Same anuj kapadiya does not remember his GK kaka where he is? One day he never took care of that poor man treated him like servant only although he says him as mummy. Anupam aalso thinks GK is servant not father in law. As soon as she married she forgot Mukku and GK. Today one day hasmukh toouched anuj so he remembers papa but last 20 years its GK who took care of him after father mother death. And this shit ungreatful anuj considers hasmukh as father not GK. May be if adopted dad was there he would forget him too in anupamas love and shahs worship. Good that they died before

This man is unfit to be father too look how those shahs ill treat little baby anu and he keeps quiet and does not show Shahs the door. But dares shut up barkha and ankush or adhik who speak in favour of baby anu and oppose the way shes ill treated. Why does this man shiver in pants looking at shahs and anupama?

Honestly if its my pet cat or dog i will pounce even at my family members too forget outsiders if they dare stare or shout at them etc here its a 6 year old kid . Pets are given more love and care and protected than little anu in this show.

And this cunning man anuj and his selfish manipulative wife have purposely allowed shahs in their home so pakhi wins over adhik by falling all over him because they know barkha and ankush hate pakhi and do not want her as adhik wife and even adhik hates pakhi but anupama is talking sweetly and trapping adhik an young boy like she and toshu did to kinjal or samar and anu did to nnadini.

Maniplative shitanupama knows how to trpa future bahu damad with sweet words its like crocodile snare once victim gets trapped cannot escape you see. Anupamaa and her kids have done PHD in trapping educated rich girls and guys to marry her kids by first sweet talk than after wedding making them slaves to eran and do house hold works while anupama nad her 3 kids enjoy their life.

Honestly i want kinjal to divorce toshu and adhik to divorce pakhi and leave. Thats real karma for this shitanupama kids.

If you observe anupama and anuj are same actually

Anupama does not care abour brother jignesh or mother and anuj gives a damn about malvika and GK their real family

Anupama does not help jignesh and mother but helps ex hubby vanraj and ex in laws while anuj only helps shahs

Anupama only wants to please vanraj by helping his parents and family and anuj only wants to please anupama by helping shahs and not his own like barkha to set up boutique. Tommorow if pakhi or toshu ask few crores to set up business anuj will give them 5 times what they asked

Anupama gives adamn and do not respect her real mom and anuj give a damn about his real parents who are dead or GK his parent after real parents death but calls hasmukh baa as bapuji and baa

Anu is busy giving bashans to outsiders about values and morality but her own kids are horrible anuj gives big big bashans to Malvika and barkha ankush but dares not correct anupama or shahs

True. Their principles are so skewed.

Leela - Hansmukh can do ANYTHING and get away with it because woh bade hain.

Anuj really needs an earful and some sense 1knocked in may be by Malavika or Devika 🤷🏻‍♀️, she was shown to be a realistic person.

Learn from Anupama who will flare up at anyone who even remotely raises a voice against Leela, Hansmukh, the intolerable kids or even Vanraj.

While Anupama is hypocritical to allow Leela, even Paritosh insult Barkha. For God's sake she is Anuj's bhabhi and in place of Leela at Kapadia's if not more. Where are your "sanskaars".

Anuj, you mentioned that Ankush-Barkha are your elders and you allow a third person to insult them in your presence. You left a vulnerable sister knowing well the intentions of Vanraj. You had money to finance an amateur Academy, bail out a toxic family off debts but you left the decision of a finance pitch by your bhabhi to a Novice like Anupama.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

True. Their principles are so skewed.

Leela - Hansmukh can do ANYTHING and get away with it because woh bade hain.

Anuj really needs an earful and some sense 1knocked in may be by Malavika or Devika 🤷🏻‍♀️, she was shown to be a realistic person.

Learn from Anupama who will flare up at anyone who even remotely raises a voice against Leela, Hansmukh, the intolerable kids or even Vanraj.

While Anupama is hypocritical to allow Leela, even Paritosh insult Barkha. For God's sake she is Anuj's bhabhi and in place of Leela at Kapadia's if not more. Where are your "sanskaars".

Anuj, you mentioned that Ankush-Barkha are your elders and you allow a third person to insult them in your presence. You left a vulnerable sister knowing well the intentions of Vanraj. You had money to finance an amateur Academy, bail out a toxic family off debts but you left the decision of a finance pitch by your bhabhi to a Novice like Anupama.

@bold even pakhi’s sister in law and as good as mother in law.

And honestly I like Barkha more than anyone in kapadia house because most of the times she speaks the truth and has more genuine reactions to situations like a normal person would have.

but because neither Anuj or Anupama give her the respect of an elder nobody else does.

Baa should not forget that this is not her house that she roams around giving her hukums.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

True. Their principles are so skewed.

Leela - Hansmukh can do ANYTHING and get away with it because woh bade hain.

Anuj really needs an earful and some sense 1knocked in may be by Malavika or Devika 🤷🏻‍♀️, she was shown to be a realistic person.

Learn from Anupama who will flare up at anyone who even remotely raises a voice against Leela, Hansmukh, the intolerable kids or even Vanraj.

While Anupama is hypocritical to allow Leela, even Paritosh insult Barkha. For God's sake she is Anuj's bhabhi and in place of Leela at Kapadia's if not more. Where are your "sanskaars".

Anuj, you mentioned that Ankush-Barkha are your elders and you allow a third person to insult them in your presence. You left a vulnerable sister knowing well the intentions of Vanraj. You had money to finance an amateur Academy, bail out a toxic family off debts but you left the decision of a finance pitch by your bhabhi to a Novice like Anupama.

Even this anupama never consider anyone other than shahs as worth of getting respect even relatives

Did you ever see anupama give a cup of coffee to GK ever like she does hasmukh and vanraj 4 times a day

Or what about a milkshake for little anu instead of pakhi

Or some nice burger for adhik

Never she only cares and cooks and defends shahs never anyone else

But all kapadiyas feel symathy for anupama when shahs take advantage of her

actually anupama desrves such treatment from shahs because she never treat who respect and care for her with respect and love

Originally posted by: sweet_tehs

@bold even pakhi’s sister in law and as good as mother in law.

And honestly I like Barkha more than anyone in kapadia house because most of the times she speaks the truth and has more genuine reactions to situations like a normal person would have.

but because neither Anuj or Anupama give her the respect of an elder nobody else does.

Baa should not forget that this is not her house that she roams around giving her hukums.

True imagine barkha is elder to both anuj and anupama and highly educated but shes treated like some widowed sister in law in some orthodox family whose a bhoj and every step of hers is scrutinized

Why are ankush and barkha tolerating all this

before adhik would jump in their defence but now hes joined maan in abusing barkha and even ankush as if they are his enemy

Originally posted by: myviewprem

before adhik would jump in their defence but now hes joined maan in abusing barkha and even ankush as if they are his enemy

He is soon going to become a bhakt of the devi in suti sari. All spouses of tamashahs have to be docile inside the house, tolerate their tantrums and bark at anyone outside who tries to question. The way Kinjal lost her brain doing bhakti and started to tolerate Shameless Shahs abusing her mother at will. Basically become an educated clone of Anupamaa.

While I'm aware it was because of the actress leaving, Nandini running away from this filthy family is one of the best decisions a character has ever taken on the show.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Even this anupama never consider anyone other than shahs as worth of getting respect even relatives

Did you ever see anupama give a cup of coffee to GK ever like she does hasmukh and vanraj 4 times a day

Or what about a milkshake for little anu instead of pakhi

Or some nice burger for adhik

Never she only cares and cooks and defends shahs never anyone else

But all kapadiyas feel symathy for anupama when shahs take advantage of her

actually anupama desrves such treatment from shahs because she never treat who respect and care for her with respect and love

1. Anupama's take on sanskaar is questionable.

2. How is Anuj and Adhik silent when Shahs even Dolly taunts and insults Ankush-Barkha? How are they?

So much for being Sanskaari!

Characters are good if they are Anupama's cheerleader!

Where are the nosy neighbours? Why don't they taunt Anupama for her treatment of Ankush-Barkha?

Pre-cap again shows her negligence towards her daughter.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

True imagine barkha is elder to both anuj and anupama and highly educated but shes treated like some widowed sister in law in some orthodox family whose a bhoj and every step of hers is scrutinized

Why are ankush and barkha tolerating all this

before adhik would jump in their defence but now hes joined maan in abusing barkha and even ankush as if they are his enemy

Anuj let Shahs insult AB and BB. In fact, he himself never misses a chance to insult them, its bcoz they are dependent on them. Where are their sanskaras?

When maharaja and maharani can help shahs financially, why can't they finance Barkha's boutique? Madam ne Shahs se proposal manga hai kabhi.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

True imagine barkha is elder to both anuj and anupama and highly educated but shes treated like some widowed sister in law in some orthodox family whose a bhoj and every step of hers is scrutinized

Why are ankush and barkha tolerating all this

before adhik would jump in their defence but now hes joined maan in abusing barkha and even ankush as if they are his enemy

I will blame Anuj for this. He can tolerate shahs, support them financially and emotionally though they don’t have any value or realisation for same.

But he cannot do anything for his own family.

When he is seeing his bhai bhabhi struggling to find a good house why not pull some strings and help them.

He is business tycoon AK I’m sure any agent would be ready to serve him.

Anupama very well knows what Barkha wishes to do.

She has good degrees and wishes to work. Where is the feminist Anupama Devi now? Should she help her bhabhi in standing on her own feet?

she can help a stranger like dimple to start her life afresh.

She is pushing Pakhi to work.

But Barkha very clearly told in the resort episode that she wishes to work and also she had told she wants to open a boutique.

What did Anupama do about it?

So many loose ends in characters arch as well as tracks.