Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 27 Nov 2022 - Page 4

Originally posted by: lalaland23

Absolutely agree with this. No one is saying they shouldn't testify or support her. But no sane person, not even the kindest people, will bring the person home and keep them like a family member. They should drop her to her own house or to an organisation that can help. I mean, she's been a victim of a brutal gang rape, she needs a trauma counsellor and professional help! Not to be kept in a person's house whom she just met and to show "our toxic family is the best therapy, everything will be solved". They have so many of their own problems to deal with. Earlier, Anupama wasn't even able to handle whatever was on her plate, she still can't, and now she's added this also by bringing the victim home? She already cries and gives lectures about her various responsibilities and now she's added one more "matka" to her head. Where is the logic??

They should testify in court for sure and support her financially if required after assuring adequate security for everyone. How on earth is Anupama just travelling in auto because her car broke down, the same day they received a THREAT letter? How stupid can you be! Why doesn't she have security? She should provide security for the Shahs also and everyone involved and then she can tell people she's doing the right thing. Right now she's being stupid as hell.

In war times other countries do give shelter to those people who run from countries for their safety

During lord Krishna time when kans become king of mathura many king fled due to fear of kans and took shelter in other kingdom they stay in other house in other kingdom .pehle log sirf apne parivar ke kiye nahi jeeta they society ki taraf bhi duty bhi nibha te they

Exactly. How can she take a decision for other people to put their lives in danger for a completely unknown girl? She can do it, that's great, but her reaction to the Shahs and Kapadias is very unfair, she feels like she is entitled to their agreement.

I feel that Anupama and Anuj shouldn't back out, they should be witnesses and support Dimply 100%. Just that they should do it in a right and sensible, thought out way - first arrange the security and THEN do this. Baa would have also calmed down if security arrangements were made at the house immediately. And it's so silly that Anupama travelled without any security the day they got the letter. Just to show mahaanta, they are showing plain stupidity.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

I am not talking of regionalism here because i have lived in most regions north south west of india

I just wrote that some city are much safer than other cities

Like in ahmedabad/mumbai/hyderbad/chennai/bangalore even at 1am girls can go eat chat in market or watch movies and go back walking 1km/2km back home or take auto or taxi

Tell me in UP or bihar or even delhi can girl or 2 girls go alone eat chat at 1am or return watching movie at 1am? (for your info i have stayed in UP and delhi too)

In delhi if girl go alone on roads at 7pm boys start following in bike or car

In UP/Bihar too many cities no girl will dare go out to eat alone from home at 1am unlike in mumbai/ahmedabad/hyderbad (one or two city is exceptions safer)

In many of these city hotels or street food open at 9pm and close at 3am and one girl or 2 girls can go alone to eat at that time too and return safe most times (i cannot say 100% but yes girls go out in these cities till 1am alone without parents or brother or boys accompanying them even in 2022)

And in south and west the percentage reporting of crimes is much more as police is more friendly and educated

Taking an auto/taxi after 9pm is safer in south and west india for a single girl. I cannot say 100% auto and taxi driver are good because there too women have been abducted and killed. But its still safer much safer in mumbai/bangalore/ahmedabad than a delhi or agra or morabadad or patna etc to take auto after 9pm for one girl alone

You are right dude, i live in Delhi and never go out at 1am to eat chaat... coz i prefer eating chole bhature instead ;)

And yes as soon as I step my foot out of my house after 7 pm i freak out...coz there are street dogs fighting on the road ughhh 😩

Jokes aside, things are not exactly like how you have described . We have the most fun night life here in Delhi (and if you don't believe me you can google the "best night life in india" or maybe the pics of India gate at 1am😂)

The way you are describing Delhi up rajasthan and Bihar is bizarre. Your description is as extreme as saying "All Asians and black people are killed by white people as soon as they enter USA"

Statistically speaking,yes..the probability of crime happening to you is more in Delhi compared to any South Indian state but then why do we always ignore the fact that Delhi up Bihar etc are more densely populated. If 15 women are raped daily then there are 15 thousand women who travel safely too. It's not like everytime i step my foot out of the house two men on bike start following me😂😂😂

Overall my point is that don't generalise things like this..you are describing Delhi like Afghanistan tbh 😕

And in case you are offended, come throw tomatoes and eggs at me coz i being a Delhi girl know self defence 😆

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yes I say because in north west are like baa and vanraj because in north west particular in up.u will.see that in most of house husband feel.ashamed to.touch to.clothes of wife .

Wife ko.bimar Padi Rahe. But husband will never wash clothes of wife and will never cook if wife fall ill .bolte hain yeh hamara kaam thodi hi hai aur yeh up mein most Ghar ki kahan hai

Let us not discuss sensitive topics claiming knowledge about regions and make statements here that can hurt sentiments of ppl living in those regions/cities/states.

The characters are from Ahmedabad. The same show has been made in different languages. So I believe the makers arent trying to tell a story of Delhi or Ahmedabad but wants to tell a story of every such woman in any part of the world tbh.

I understand we all have our personal experiences of different regions within India but this is not the place to argue based on our limited (or profound) knowledge.

As it is the forum has been at war for no reason... oh sorry over AnuMA and her righteousness, so I would like moderator to help remind the members to not make statements that can hurt sentiments of members.

Why people taking so offensive if some one are talking about region why they have problem

Sub apna experience share Kar Rahe Hai. No one has right to tell others what should other post or not .

Really this forum is really loosing charm because of continuous moral police by some members

I badly missed my old anupama forum I bady miss old member jo kaafi din ho gaye ab forum mein nahi aate jiske opinion different hote they but they never moral police other they never mock other

Kitna fun tha Kitna Raunak hua Karti thi anupama forum.m Mein different opinion hote hue bhi but ab sub khatm ho gaya hai because of too.much moral polcimg mocking going in forum

In Lucknow chori jyaada hoti chain snatching jyaada hoti but in Lucknow best thing u will not find eve teaser hardly boy chase girl to tease but in Allahabad murder and eve teasing is prominent it is not safe to girls out side alone at dark in. Allahabad

Buddy chill kar na. Every place and country has its own plus and minus. Ours is a huge country and its perspective of people how we see about the place.