Perils of being rich

The person whose on top has no friends or family

anuj kapadiya too has no reall family who care or love him

all are there for their benefits includes anupama madam

ankush barkha adhik are there for his business and wealth

vanraj baa hasmukh kavya are also nice to him only as they want his wealth and help

toshu wants his wealth samar wants his 10 lakhs pakhi wants his big bungalow and money

even anupama is there because he benefits her real family her shahs

Imagine anuj was jhopad pati will, she marry him or give any bhav if he was of no use to her shahs

anupama loves him because he benefits her 3 kids and her ba bapuji her vanraj etc

If anupama truly loved him vanraj need not have told her tu prem karthi hai use man le meri ma in hospital and hasmukh need not have said welcome him hes kanha o your life etc because true love need not be told by others dil se pata lagtha hai jab true love ho

If anupama truly loved him she would not have left him to attend functions in shahs after he fell from bed etc koi sachha pyar karne wala anupam aki taraha nahi hota. Anupama has not truly loved anuj as lover nor has she accepted him as soulmate from heart actually.

even malvika left him for vanraj

GK and little anu are once who truly love him unconditionally

Every single person with anuj is there because of his weath and empire not for him at all

Actually only GK and little anuj love him unconditionaly

malvika too loves him in her own way and not truly after his wealth or benefits

apart from these three all are leeching off him sucking his wealth that all

all this love and family is only words not felt from heart by anyone associated with anuj kapdia

i so wished he got true love of family like if his mom dad were there koi toh saccha unconditional love kartha usko

i so wish before death anuj knows whats real family whats real love atleast few days of life

Anuj thinks the only way he can keep Anupamaa is by being a Yes man, because he can easily predict that if he says a stern no to anything about serving the Shahs, Anupamaa will abandon him (while simultaneously crying that its such a tough job for her and she is the victim) and immediately go to the Shahs.

She has a narcissistic need for being needed all the time, reestablished today when she was profusely apologising for not making tiffin and seemed somewhat disappointed when the father-daughter said it didn't matter. She is extremely uneasy all the time about having to say no to Leela for her chores.

That need to be needed is more important for her than any money and since Anuj has everything materialistic possible, she can never live with him with optimal satisfaction.

Anupama has refuse to take gold jewelry from anuj during dhanteras when anuj want to give gold jewellery to anupama during dhanteras and anupama said to anuj she will buy steel ke bartan

Anupama took care fully of anuj In hospital making him bath giving him medicine for 13 days

When anuj was hit by goons anupama use to make soup.for him and take care of anuj

Even when anuj and anupama stuck in stormy night and stay at hotel and when anuj having fever and at that time anupama give medicine and gave him kadha,to anuj

And also anupama in today episode totally refuse to pakhi there will no lavish wedding of u using anuj money anupama clearly told anuj ke paise tumhari koi lavish wedding nahi hogi

But even after all these where anupama refuse to take gold jewelry and even refusing pakhi there will be no lavish wedding using anuj money still anupama is taking advantage of anuj and does not love him truly then what to say

Anupama has care for anuj for many times but just attending 1 hrs function of. Baby welcome ceremony making her bad wife

May be like filmy ki tarah ub tuk anuj kidnap na hi aur anupama jub tuk apni jaan ji baaji lagate hue khatron se khulte hue

Ya phir jub tuk Aisa khuch nahi dikhate ki anuj kisi jaal mein Phasta hai jub tuk anupama police ko call karke ya khud jaan ki baaji laga ke ya anupama apne jaan ko anuj ke liye khatrre mein nahi daalti hai tub tuk anupama ko true love proove nahi hoga

I wonder real Iife mein wives log ko apne husband se Sacha pyaar karti iske liye kya karti hongi .woh log bhi anupama ki Tarah anuj ko khaana banan ke deti hongi agle din ke liye husband ke kapde tayaar karti hongi .medicine deti hongi . Apne husband ke saath kabhi dukh kabhi masti hi karti hogin.iske elawa aur kya real life ki wife karti hongi apne husband ke liye to proove their true love towards hus

,I am not able to understand yahan true love ka kya Matlab hai

As far I understand jub tuk anupama anuj ke liye jaan Khatre mein nahi daalegi tub tuk anupama ka true love proove nahi hoga ya,phir anupama jub tuk maid ki Tarah Kapadia mansion mein ek kone servant quater mein Padi na ,Rahe tub tuk anupama ka true love proove nahi hoga anuj ki taraf

Ya phir jub tuk anupama anuj ke elawa na kisi ko dekhe sune aur na baat kare bus anuj ke peeche peeche ghumhte hue bus anuj anuj karti Rahe tub anupama ka anuj ki taraf true love proove nahi hoga

BTW how taking loan is called as benifit .loan ka Matlab samar has to returned money every month in installment .samar ne loan liya hai koi charity nahi li hai anuj se

I feel so sorry for him. He is so obsessed with his narcissist wife that he does not understand what's he losing in life. He deserves to be loved unconditionally by someone.

True.

Actually Anupama and the Shahs are a luck lot.

1. A space for dance academy/cafe with no rentals.

2. A "loan" of 40 Lakhs with NO collateral, no paperwork or no fear of a Recovery Agent in the event of a missed EMI.

3. An additional "loan" towards the Dance Academy. Clearly, the Dance Academy is not yielding profits.

4. Sponsored Global shows and marketing with no expenses or investment.

Now imagine a woman who walks off a 25 year old marriage with No alimony, No savings, No source of income. Let's think that there is an inheritance in the form of a workshop re-modelled to a Dance Academy/Cafe.

Which Business takes off such that it breaks even let alone earns profits to support an EMI, later a rent of the house Anupama stayed, her medical expenses, daily expenses and expenses of travel and accommodation of outstation and overseas shows?

Which new business gets sponsorship for so many shows with no publicity?

What does ALL of this define?

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Anuj thinks the only way he can keep Anupamaa is by being a Yes man, because he can easily predict that if he says a stern no to anything about serving the Shahs, Anupamaa will abandon him (while simultaneously crying that its such a tough job for her and she is the victim) and immediately go to the Shahs.

She has a narcissistic need for being needed all the time, reestablished today when she was profusely apologising for not making tiffin and seemed somewhat disappointed when the father-daughter said it didn't matter. She is extremely uneasy all the time about having to say no to Leela for her chores.

That need to be needed is more important for her than any money and since Anuj has everything materialistic possible, she can never live with him with optimal satisfaction.

So she will never feel needed or have a dependent husband in Anuj, which is why Anupama does not love him with all her heart. For which Anuj tries to keep her around by doing her jay jay kaar.

Coz if he becomes her yes man and praises her all the time then Anupama may stay with him longer.

Loan is always given against property/secure job salary/savings. Any company/bank even checks your credit score to confirm you have been paying off your debts regularly and earning a decent amount on a regular basis. In case of Samar or his whole family, both things are not happening.

How did Samar get the loan? He does not have a house/bank balance to provide a paperwork that if he is not able to pay up the loan money, then Kapadia company can take the house in return.

So many people get rejected for loan when they do not have enough property to provide security. Here Samar's whole family is jobless (Kavya got a job 1 month back but have never been shown going to work)

Their house/dance academy/cafe properties are already a charity by Anuj.

What is Samar's eligibility to secure that 10 lakh loan? It's a joke. And they never showed that he is paying off monthly against the loan. Samar just mentioned that he will return the money to Anuj.

So yes, Samar is also a freeloader.

Anupama does not care for her respect or her family's (husband and little anu)

But she continues to put Anuj's life in danger. Shah family is dangerous. Their son is capable of kidnapping his own daughter. Mr. Shah has twice taken Anuj on top of the hill for a heated discussion.

Also, shah family has tried to snatch Anuj's property/business.

So shah family is dangerous for his life/money/family/social standing.