Originally posted by: surabhi01
Kya baat hai apne parents se girls agar frankly marriage ki baat kare it is not beshsarmi ?
Aisa toh purane zamane mai hota tha ki ladki khud ki shaddi ki baat kare toh besharmi ho jaye!
Aj ke zamane mai it’s called practical choice when you are not interested in study or job.
Meri cousin 21 years ki thi jab usko education mai interest nahi tha and job karni nahi thi ! Yaha tak ki b.com bhi bich mai he chod diya kyunki usko career job kuch life mai chahiye he nahi usko aisa bol diya.
So she said that since I have no ambitions for education and job, I want to get married and want to have children before 25 and everyone had appreciated her thought . In arrange marriage setup, family started searching groom for her seeing her desire for marriage and within a year she got married and they both are very happy.
Har ladki education, career and khud ki kamaai soch wali nahi hoti ! Log aise bhi hote hai !
Bhagvan kare usko life mai kabhi education, job , financial independence ka value samaj aye but agar nahi aye toh bhi it’s ok.
We should not judge anyone for their desires.It’s completely okay.
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