Anupama's bhashan.. - Page 3

Well actions are more powerfull than words means faltu bhashan dene se accha khali dhoond leti time aur energy bhi bach jaati uski our sabki 😆🙄🙏

Uski bhashan sunsun key kaan pak gaye sabki 😕

As I told bhashan Dene Wali baby Pari ko bhi doondh rahi thi bus khaali khade ho ke kinjal ko suggestion nahi de rahi thi .anupama baby ko dhoodne mein poori koshish kar rahi thi

Waise bhi I don't pay attention to such small things kyonki anupama ne aisa khuch nahi bola ki Jo main is baat ka itna bada issue banaaon anupama

People can make big issue for such small things that anupama bhashan deti hai I know is forum mein bus ek hi topic reh gaya hai discuss karne ko that is anupama ka bhashan

Aur aagey bhi bus ek hi topic discuss hoga that about anupama ke bhashan but mere liye anupama ke bhasahan itna bada issue nahi jo mai iske liye anupama ko criticise karoon

Anupama bacche ko dhoodne mein lagi hui yeh mere liye badi baat hai

Most shows have sub plots where it focuses on the side characters also, which can be nicely done if they have a good story and proper characterization of the characters. In fact only focusing on the lead actor can sometimes make it monotonous. If they properly sketch out the characters - like where Toshu's issues stem from, Rakhi's problems being a working mother and taking care of her child (not just randomly inserting an EMA), Pakhi's behavioural problems etc., and like how someone said, how kids from broken homes react and navigate life, it would be interesting to watch. Here someone or the other is randomly made the villain to white wash other characters. Pakhi's story was so abruptly done, sending her to a therapist and then where/when did she work on her issues? There's no improvement, she's so horrible now and changes her colours more than a chameleon. Nothing makes sense. First, they should separate Anupama's journey from the Shah family and show both separately. That in itself will make things 1000 times better. She doesn't always need to be in their house to create common drama. Her growth is so stuck because of that.

And even if you have to give the lead more time, show her journey- her going back to complete her education or even learning English, how they raise CA with the problems and insecurities she has (not her also being some mahaan devi at childhood), problems she faces at school etc., there was a whole thread made here on all the issues that could be addressed and dealt with SHOWING her journey. Don't know why the writers can't look at all those things. Instead of showing her journey, they give her long lectures.

In every other tv show, why does the lead not give an irrelevant lecture? The lead can have something meaningful to say at the right time, and apart from that most leads have enough screen space without necessarily resorting to unrelated lecturing. Every time her useless kids do something horrible, instead of giving them a tight slap or even scolding them for what they have said, they have to hear a generalised speech about all the children in the world (most aren't at all like these two brats). So they don't even take her seriously! They just make fun and mock her. She doesn't properly tell THEM what they're doing wrong.

At the end of the day, we are viewers. We have every right to criticise, because we are watching for entertainment or even for the message being spread, not to get annoyed. Some people may not be bothered and that's fine but we have every right to ask them to spare us the torture because it is extremely annoying. And writing and characterisation is an important part of a tv serial, you can't make people hate or get totally annoyed with the lead character. That shows you're doing something wrong. FOCUS ON HER JOURNEY, she'll automatically get screen space. This looks very forced and unnatural, doesn't even go with the flow of the show. Hope the writers are able to see this!

I have already told people can make big issue of small things like anupama bhashan deti hai but I can't criticise anupama for such small things ki anupama bhashan deti hai. B ecause Jo anupama bhashan deti hai she is always ready to help other ahd how she stand against Her own son toshu for kinjal

Don't know why the writers only give her bhashans to churn out, instead of focusing on her journey, her business, her growth. She's a kind person no doubt, but she could be so much more as an individual. She has potential, so why make her character annoying. Utilise her screen space in a better manner, and they can start by her not being the Shah House doormat. 😒

I don’t understand, why is kinjal chilling in the house when it’s her daughter that has been kidnapped? She was dancing and having fun , but sat at home and let Anupama be the super dadhi. Nonsense .

Anyway, I think I'm a newbie so I'm out here ranting and hoping the makers see logic and reason but everyone else here seems tired of it because it's of no use, haha. God knows whose feedback the writers take, even TRPs are falling 😔 Or they should stop pretending to be a woman empowerment show, they can be a typical drama serial and do whatever they want.

Also, sorry for the empty posts guys, I'm a newbie so still trying to figure out properly how posts/editing etc. works here 😆

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I have already told people can make big issue of small things like anupama bhashan deti hai but I can't criticise anupama for such small things ki anupama bhashan deti hai. B ecause Jo anupama bhashan deti hai she is always ready to help other ahd how she stand against Her own son toshu for kinjal

Did you see in my opening post that I say anywhere that Surabhi has to comment on Anupama's Bhashan? Then why are saying this again and again......nahi comment karna hai toh mat karo......jo log pak gaye hain Anu ji bhashan se woh comment kar rahe hain......no one is expecting you to criticize Anupama for anything.....and its totally fine....