Anuj's past - Page 3

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

There was no need to bring up the topic of Anuj's sex life before AnupaMaa. Something's should be left to viewers imagination only.But I think they always planned to bring an ex of Anuj and most probably Mukku was supposed to be his ex. But since the hero wanted screen space, Mukku was made his sister so the hero could have Mukku all by himself. I also feel they wanted to show Anuj has a love child from one of his ONS. But later they changed it to adoption.

Issey ek badhiyan vichaar aaya hai

Kya ho agar ritika wapas aaye jaaye aur woh bhi anuj ki ex ho😵

Socho devi ji ka kya reaction hoga

Ex pati ki bhi ex ritika

Current pati ki bhi ex ritika

Tabaa ho gaye

I don't understand such type of concept in this serial

U don't love but u still have affair like toshu said to anupama that he has relationship with girl but he don't love her ??

And Anuj said to anupama that he had affair with girls but he don't love them ??

Matlab love nahi karte magar phir bhi affair ho jaata hai .Aisa Hota Hai kya

Yeh love kya Hota Hai yeh affair kya Hota Hai

Vanraj bhai sahib ke kya kehne .he has affair with kavya for 8 year but anupama ko divorce nahi Dena chahte they .arey jub anupama ko divorce nahi Dena Hai to kavya se saath affair kyonn Kiya

Originally posted by: Aarz00_19

I may come as an obnoxious fool for asking this question. So Anuj really loved Anu , his love had no bounds like Meera had for Krishna. He told that he had many one night stands . He may had tried to move on but if you love someone so deep , how could you be comfortable to get physical with other women ? . It means he was fulfilling his needs like Toshu.. Maybe that's why his head was down while he was confronting Toshu for his EMAs. I know he was single and didn't cheat any woman . He was not a 2 timer but keeping someone in heart while getting easily physical with another. That irks me. How could they compare his love as Meera and Krishna? Your love is divine but you also have needs. I maybe wrong . Pls correct me. I welcome your opinions.

Interesting. I would have agreed with your points a few years ago. In fact, I always thought Radha Krishna's love/story or whatever is it to be an affair and morally wrong. With time my opinions changed, and now I believe I do not have the right to judge them when I don't know the entire context. Different people say different things. In Anuj's case, I won't say he did any wrong. He may have tried to move on but could not. Also, I believe the ONS he did were up to an age like maybe 35 and after that, he may have accepted that he cannot move on from her.

Referring to religious context is the worse thing this show does. Neither is Anuj Krishna nor Anupama Meera. They are unique or should I say they were unique in their own way. I do not know what is love. I feel it is the most complicated feeling/thing. Most twisted curse may be.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

There was no need to bring up the topic of Anuj's sex life before AnupaMaa. Something's should be left to viewers imagination only.But I think they always planned to bring an ex of Anuj and most probably Mukku was supposed to be his ex. But since the hero wanted screen space, Mukku was made his sister so the hero could have Mukku all by himself. I also feel they wanted to show Anuj has a love child from one of his ONS. But later they changed it to adoption.

Not sure about kid, but am damn sure they wanted to show Mukku as his ex. I seriously can't think of any reason as to why a brother can't take up a call from his sister and if he does that it would ruin his one-sided love's ex's family function. How? 🤣

What is wrong in sleeping with any one if it was mutual consent?

People have physical needs,and many are into casual flings,just because we wouldn't think of doing it,doesn't mean it's morally wrong.

Not everyone is okay getting into relationships.

Relationships require lot of time,commitment,emotions, and that's not everyone's cup of tea....

But maybe being with someone for a few moments works for some...they don't expect more from that relationship.

And in a way,I believe it was more of destructive mechanism for anuj...there are many people who after not being able to get married to their love, indulge in one night stands,casual flings, drugs,alcohol and stuff...so I don't really think it a very big matter personally.

Anuj's love was pure for Anu,that is why he never could be in a serious relationship with anyone.

And as for the girls whom he slept with,how could we assume that those girls wanted more from the relationship?

Maybe they were okay with casual flings.

Who knows?

Originally posted by: shubhK2308

What is wrong in sleeping with any one if it was mutual consent?

People have physical needs,and many are into casual flings,just because we wouldn't think of doing it,doesn't mean it's morally wrong.

Not everyone is okay getting into relationships.

Relationships require lot of time,commitment,emotions, and that's not everyone's cup of tea....

But maybe being with someone for a few moments works for some...they don't expect more from that relationship.

And in a way,I believe it was more of destructive mechanism for anuj...there are many people who after not being able to get married to their love, indulge in one night stands,casual flings, drugs,alcohol and stuff...so I don't really think it a very big matter personally.

Anuj's love was pure for Anu,that is why he never could be in a serious relationship with anyone.

And as for the girls whom he slept with,how could we assume that those girls wanted more from the relationship?

Maybe they were okay with casual flings.

Who knows?

Maybe he had gone Kabir Singh mode 😅

Originally posted by: Aarz00_19

I may come as an obnoxious fool for asking this question. So Anuj really loved Anu , his love had no bounds like Meera had for Krishna. He told that he had many one night stands . He may had tried to move on but if you love someone so deep , how could you be comfortable to get physical with other women ? . It means he was fulfilling his needs like Toshu.. Maybe that's why his head was down while he was confronting Toshu for his EMAs. I know he was single and didn't cheat any woman . He was not a 2 timer but keeping someone in heart while getting easily physical with another. That irks me. How could they compare his love as Meera and Krishna? Your love is divine but you also have needs. I maybe wrong . Pls correct me. I welcome your opinions.

Anuj's unrequited love was believable to an extent during the initial days. Then quickly took a downward spiral, with each new track that was introduced. The prequel was the last nail in the coffin that strengthened my conviction that Anupama was nothing more than an infatuation for him. That's it.

Like many have indicated here, parallels drawn to divinity is quiet juxtaposed and borderline inappropriate.

But, I have never liked Anuj & Anupama as a couple. So my post should be taken with a pinch truck load of salt. 🤔

I mentioned this point in another thread..

Love and Sex are both different

Sex is just a need, it has nothing to do with Love

Lemme tell you..

After falling in love, My Husband and I got into “live in” to know each other better and after a couple of years, we decided to marry as we thought we are perfect as a couple..

After our wedding, on the day of our First Night.. We realized, am a Erotophobic ( Irrational Fear Of Sex)

It’s been 7yrs of our marriage and we never consummated.. My husband never complained about it. I asked him to leave me and Marry someone else .. he didn’t agree to it.. So, I literally pushed him to have One Night Stands but he made me sit and told me..

He loves me..

He loves the way I think , the way I behave.. Inshort everything about me and A simple Hug and Kiss from me also makes him feel complete and happy..

He would anytime prefer embracing me in his arms and Spend time talking over Sex with other gal..

He has no complaints about it and convinced me that I should also stop thinking about it..

Am so lucky and blessed to have such a husband..

So, I feel, am the right person to tell you..

If you truly truly truly love a person, sex is nothing..

You never ever can have sex with other person whatever be the reason..

Originally posted by: vivacious

I mentioned this point in another thread..

Love and Sex are both different

Sex is just a need, it has nothing to do with Love

Lemme tell you..

After falling in love, My Husband and I got into “live in” to know each other better and after a couple of years, we decided to marry as we thought we are perfect as a couple..

After our wedding, on the day of our First Night.. We realized, am a Erotophobic ( Irrational Fear Of Sex)

It’s been 7yrs of our marriage and we never consummated.. My husband never complained about it. I asked him to leave me and Marry someone else .. he didn’t agree to it.. So, I literally pushed him to have One Night Stands but he made me sit and told me..

He loves me..

He loves the way I think , the way I behave.. Inshort everything about me and A simple Hug and Kiss from me also makes him feel complete and happy..

He would anytime prefer embracing me in his arms and Spend time talking over Sex with other gal..

He has no complaints about it and convinced me that I should also stop thinking about it..

Am so lucky and blessed to have such a husband..

So, I feel, am the right person to tell you..

If you truly truly truly love a person, sex is nothing..

You never ever can have sex with other person whatever be the reason..

Can't describe how lucky you are. such people only exist in dreams . 😊

Originally posted by: vivacious

I mentioned this point in another thread..

Love and Sex are both different

Sex is just a need, it has nothing to do with Love

Lemme tell you..

After falling in love, My Husband and I got into “live in” to know each other better and after a couple of years, we decided to marry as we thought we are perfect as a couple..

After our wedding, on the day of our First Night.. We realized, am a Erotophobic ( Irrational Fear Of Sex)

It’s been 7yrs of our marriage and we never consummated.. My husband never complained about it. I asked him to leave me and Marry someone else .. he didn’t agree to it.. So, I literally pushed him to have One Night Stands but he made me sit and told me..

He loves me..

He loves the way I think , the way I behave.. Inshort everything about me and A simple Hug and Kiss from me also makes him feel complete and happy..

He would anytime prefer embracing me in his arms and Spend time talking over Sex with other gal..

He has no complaints about it and convinced me that I should also stop thinking about it..

Am so lucky and blessed to have such a husband..

So, I feel, am the right person to tell you..

If you truly truly truly love a person, sex is nothing..

You never ever can have sex with other person whatever be the reason..

Beautiful story and you are very lucky to get a person who understands your condition.Usually people suffer. I had a friend named Sandhya who had the same issue and her husband threw her out