AnupaMaa's choice harder than Sophie's choice

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Posted: 3 years ago
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There is a movie called "Sophie's Choice" where the protagonist is forced to choose between her son's and daughter's life. While watching the film I felt no choice can be harder than this choice. But today I felt AnupaMaa has to make the hardest choice anyone ever made in this world. I felt so bad for her. 🥱

One one hand she has her husband who after regaining consciousness is suffering from paralysis. He is regularly having paralytic attacks. He is regularly falling. Dr has advised him to be constantly monitored as he is recovering from brain surgery and is in a very critical state. Dr has specifically insisted to not keep him with only nurse as a nurse can not handle his mood swings.

On the other hand she has her DIL who has recently delivered a healthy baby and is in perfect health. Her DIL has a super rich mother whose life revolves around her daughter and 6 other jobless family members who are always on toe to take care of the baby.

Now whom is she going to choose? I don't think anyone ever has to made such a tough choice.


During covid when there were shortages of ICU and ventilators, many people had to choose between sick family members. I bet they were not going through the turmoil what Anu is going through today.


Oh another thing booking hotel room to sleep with someone other than your spouse is not cheating only, constantly putting anyone above your spouse is also cheating. I rest my case here.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Anupama ki baatien

Main ab kabhi yahan SH nahi aao gi

Main v aap ko dekhti hoon to gusse se mera sar phatne lagta hai

Mera bharosa nahi main kiya kar jaao gi

Makers ab toh anupama ke in dialogs ka asar nahi raha woh aapni baatien khud bhool jaati hai

SH se nikalte waqt kitne episodes lag diya phir wahan chali gayi really what a 🤢

N teel me kinjal ka dimag ka OP hua hai ke usko pata nahi hai ke anuj ki brain surgery hui hai really sab ki memory loss track hai

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Posted: 3 years ago
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A normal person will simply inform her son and daughter in law that she can't be with them untill her husband recovers. And a normal family will understand. In fact, they will tell her not to worry at all. Then when she really misses them, she can go for an hour or two to visit them. A normal person and a normal family will do that. But this Anupama wants to do everything and be everything. I am sure she is worried coz she has to breastfeed the baby. Kinjal and baby can stay at her mom's for some days. But when Rakhi mentioned that everyone was shocked like it's something out of thie world.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Doctor telling someone his/her spouse is having serious brain issues and needs optimum care and wife spending entire night crying for her healthy DIL with 10 people around her shows how much Anupama actually cares for Anuj. Barkha bhabhi and Ankush bhaiya with all their flaws care more about Anuj than Anu does in any given moment. 🤢


I would be sick if they make the Toshu Kinju track an Anupama track. Anupama had her spouse cheat on her, she had her days. 😆 I am ready to watch at lease any other character getting their screentime and handle his/her situations, than Anu making it all about HER problem when it’s really not. 👎🏼 Was the focus on Baa when Vannu cheated ? No. High time this time they make someone else Sophie I am literally gonna accept anyone, even Tasneem I mean Rakhi Dave. 😆 Tasneem is a wonderful actress btw, her fan since Kumkum Kasautii days. 😳

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

There is a movie called "Sophie's Choice" where the protagonist is forced to choose between her son's and daughter's life. While watching the film I felt no choice can be harder than this choice. But today I felt AnupaMaa has to make the hardest choice anyone ever made in this world. I felt so bad for her. 🥱

One one hand she has her husband who after regaining consciousness is suffering from paralysis. He is regularly having paralytic attacks. He is regularly falling. Dr has advised him to be constantly monitored as he is recovering from brain surgery and is in a very critical state. Dr has specifically insisted to not keep him with only nurse as a nurse can not handle his mood swings.

On the other hand she has her DIL who has recently delivered a healthy baby and is in perfect health. Her DIL has a super rich mother whose life revolves around her daughter and 6 other jobless family members who are always on toe to take care of the baby.

Now whom is she going to choose? I don't think anyone ever has to made such a tough choice.


During covid when there were shortages of ICU and ventilators, many people had to choose between sick family members. I bet they were not going through the turmoil what Anu is going through today.


Oh another thing booking hotel room to sleep with someone other than your spouse is not cheating only, constantly putting anyone above your spouse is also cheating. I rest my case here.

Highly disagree with this and don't think they are equivalent.


The stupidest part of today's episode was her stressing out on having to take care of so many things at once. It was ridiculous. Rakhi can take care of Kinjal and Anupama can tell Kinjal that. End of story.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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If gk kaka n CA take care a brain surgery human then a whole family with fit n fine can't take care n new bron baby n her mother

I think i want to say yah toh kavya ko y baa ko Anuj ke pass behj do because they are also someone wife then shahs people feel kisi aur ki wife ko baar baar zimedari dena when here husband is also not well

To be very honest i really feed up with anu big big dialogs n befazool ka drama

Even maan scenes bhi shahs ki baat kiye bina nahi hote really 🤢🤬

Hate hate that

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Jab shahs nahi care kar sakte baby ki toh usko uski mummy ke ghar jaane dey fazool ka drama

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: name2saakshi

Anupama ki baatien

Main ab kabhi yahan SH nahi aao gi

Main v aap ko dekhti hoon to gusse se mera sar phatne lagta hai

Mera bharosa nahi main kiya kar jaao gi

Makers ab toh anupama ke in dialogs ka asar nahi raha woh aapni baatien khud bhool jaati hai

SH se nikalte waqt kitne episodes lag diya phir wahan chali gayi really what a 🤢

N teel me kinjal ka dimag ka OP hua hai ke usko pata nahi hai ke anuj ki brain surgery hui hai really sab ki memory loss track hai

means

chai ke saath bhajiya ya dhokla banaungi

kal phir aaongi

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Posted: 3 years ago
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There is a movie called "Sophie's Choice" where the protagonist is forced to choose between her son's and daughter's life. While watching the film I felt no choice can be harder than this choice. But today I felt AnupaMaa has to make the hardest choice anyone ever made in this world. I felt so bad for her. 🥱

One one hand she has her husband who after regaining consciousness is suffering from paralysis. He is regularly having paralytic attacks. He is regularly falling. Dr has advised him to be constantly monitored as he is recovering from brain surgery and is in a very critical state. Dr has specifically insisted to not keep him with only nurse as a nurse can not handle his mood swings.

On the other hand she has her DIL who has recently delivered a healthy baby and is in perfect health. Her DIL has a super rich mother whose life revolves around her daughter and 6 other jobless family members who are always on toe to take care of the baby.

Now whom is she going to choose? I don't think anyone ever has to made such a tough choice.


haaahaaa


During covid when there were shortages of ICU and ventilators, many people had to choose between sick family members. I bet they were not going through the turmoil what Anu is going through today.


Oh another thing booking hotel room to sleep with someone other than your spouse is not cheating only, constantly putting anyone above your spouse is also cheating. I rest my case here.


how can you be so sure

kya pata hotel room mei woh apni maryada mei ho.. ho sakta hai matar peel kar rahe ho. ho sakta hai kinjal ki dress par gota laga rahe ho. ho sakta hai woh breakfast bana raha ho

maryada kya anupama ka patent hai?


Really, today laughing like crazy.

serial crap dikha kar itna paisa kama raha hai toh laughter therapy se hum apna blood hi bada le.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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At the core I don't think that's the issue. The core issue is Vanraj's whitewash (idk why they'd to do this), once he's positive, all the previous things have been forgotten and now there's no issue about her spending time with Shahs.

About Anupamaa putting Kinjal or anyone of her kids before Anuj, that'll happen. IT's an ITV show, and to gain TRP they've to keep women a certain way. That's why women like Rakhi, Kavya are made villains. The name itself, AupaMAA says this, she'll be a mom first, anything later.

IT's ITV, and they need ridiculous drama, otherwise what's even stopping her to move Kinjal and her fam into her mansion?

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