AnupaMaa's misplaced priorities - Page 2

Originally posted by: Koms9

Her husband beat death and just came out of coma. Still bound to wheelchair. Getting paralytic attacks daily. I think any normal sane loyal wife would put Anuj before rest of shah clan at this point! Not just wife, any family member would keep him a priority. What a waste of love and devotion he showered.

Forget normal sane loyal, any manipulative, cunning, disloyal wife will never leave her husband in such a state unless she is fully inhumane. Anu left her paralyzed husband and kid with a 75 years old man and three snakes relatives. I would not have dared to leave my pet fish in such a state. Anu came across as fully selfish. 🤢

Phlahal 18 20 din se to anupama shah family gayi hi nahin

Anupama was in hospital taking care of anuj only for 15 16 days in hospital. Sub ne kaha ki tum ghar jaao but anupama ne bola ki main hospital mein reh kar anuj ki care karoongi

And for 15 16 days she only taking care about anuj

Then she celebrate anuj birthday which is celebrate only in kapdadia house and no one of members of shah present in anuj birthday

Then on ganpati festival it was choti anu desire that why don't shah conme and celebrate with us that it is anuj said yes we should not keep grudge for long

So seeing desire of choti anu. It is anuj who call shah family for ganpati festival

Anupama did not even said ki festival mein shah ko invite karo

Then ganpati festival celebrate at kapdadia farm house

And after kinjal labor pain start tub se anupama hospital mein hi hai anupama to shah ke ghar mein gayi hi nahin

Hospital se seedha woh kapadia house mein jaa rahi hai

Jub se anupama ne pakhi ko bola hai ki ab woh is ghar mein nahi aayi hai tub se anupama shah house mein gay hi nahin hai

So where anupama giving priority only to kinjal she has given priority to anuj too

Agar anupama khuch der ke liye kinjal ke saath reh legi that does not mean she is not giving priority to anuj

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Phlahal 18 20 din se to anupama shah family gayi hi nahin

Anupama was in hospital taking care of anuj only for 15 16 days in hospital. Sub ne kaha ki tum ghar jaao but anupama ne bola ki main hospital mein reh kar anuj ki care karoongi

And for 15 16 days she only taking care about anuj

Then she celebrate anuj birthday which is celebrate only in kapdadia house and no one of members of shah present in anuj birthday

Then on ganpati festival it was choti anu desire that why don't shah conme and celebrate with us that it is anuj said yes we should not keep grudge for long

So seeing desire of choti anu. It is anuj who call shah family for ganpati festival

Anupama did not even said ki festival mein shah ko invite karo

Then ganpati festival celebrate at kapdadia farm house

And after kinjal labor pain start tub se anupama hospital mein hi hai anupama to shah ke ghar mein gayi hi nahin

Hospital se seedha woh kapadia house mein jaa rahi hai

Jub se anupama ne pakhi ko bola hai ki ab woh is ghar mein nahi aayi hai tub se anupama shah house mein gay hi nahin hai

So where anupama giving priority only to kinjal she has given priority to anuj too

Agar anupama khuch der ke liye kinjal ke saath reh legi that does not mean she is not giving priority to anuj

There is a new BTS picture of AnupaMaa celebrating baby's home coming in Shah house. She vowed to never enter that house but she will go there to celebrate when her husband is stuck at wheelchair. Is homecoming even that important program to leave behind your paralyzed husband?

Just only one day if anupama is staying with kinjal that means she is not giving priority to anuj?? I did not know that too give priority to her husband that mother in law can't even meet her daughter in law even for 1 day

Maine to kahin aisa nahin dekha

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

There is an army of people in shah house to take care of kinjal.

Her husband had a near death experience and is bound to wheelchair.

Anyone with a sane mind would know their priorities.

Are we still debating who is her priority? Isn't it obvious yet? 🤣

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Will this noble woman ever sort her priorities or will she continue to misplace her priorities forever making lives messier for everybody around her? I know Anuj is after Mr Shah, Baa, Bapuji, Samar, Toshu, Pakhi, Kinjal, new kid in her priority list, then why did she marry him? Why could not they remained as best friends? Why when she was neck drown in responsibilities, she chose to add another responsibility in her already twisted life by marrying him? I have never seen any woman even with small kids to be so indifferent to her spouse's mental needs. Anuj comes 9th in her list of important people and he should have remained so forever. She did not need to prioritize his need of adopting a baby when she was completely against it. She has no mental connection with CA and does not put any effort to connect to her. By strictly rejecting the request of adoption she should have come across as a mature, sensible and truly empowered woman. She has made everyone around her handicapped but when they all demand her attention, she complains that she always has to divide herself. Who asked her to make pieces of herself, she could have been puri ki puri of Mr Shah's and we would have been spared the dialogue of ek auraat ko kiyun hamesha batna padte hai every two episodes.

That's Why Devika warned Anu not to adopt CA if she was not ready and even if Anuj just accidently told her his wish he did not force it on her. She gave him her word twice when he asked her if she was not ready then she should have not agreed the second time he asked her. But she agreed. So it is solely her fault. And the makers fault for not knowing how to write a story.

Originally posted by: saito

That's Why Devika warned Anu not to adopt CA if she was not ready and even if Anuj just accidently told her his wish he did not force it on her. She gave him her word twice when he asked her if she was not ready then she should have not agreed the second time he asked her. But she agreed. So it is solely her fault. And the makers fault for not knowing how to write a story.

Originally posted by: strancho

Are we still debating who is her priority? Isn't it obvious yet? 🤣

Anupama's priority list:

1. Sperm donor of her kids

2. Baa

3. Bapuji

4. Kinjal

5. New Baby

6. Samar

7. Pakhi

8. Toshu

9. Dolly

10. Sanjay Bhai

11. Meenu

12. Flies on Shah house wall

13. Cockroaches in Shah toilet

14. Anuj

15. Her mother

16. Her brother

17. CA

18. Her self respect

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Anupama's priority list:

1. Sperm donor of her kids

2. Baa

3. Bapuji

4. Kinjal

5. New Baby

6. Samar

7. Pakhi

8. Toshu

9. Dolly

10. Sanjay Bhai

11. Meenu

12. Flies on Shah house wall

13. Cockroaches in Shah toilet

14. Anuj

15. Her mother

16. Her brother

17. CA

18. Her self respect

You forgot Mamaji 😱 Poor Mamaji , he’s actually the only sane person left on the show ..

And also neighbourhood wali gossiping chachi , who interestingly is also the dr who says Anupamaa ne OT mein hamari himmat badhai 🤣( saw a post about it on Tw)

I agree that everyone is first an individual before any other relation be it wife, mother or daughter, or why just women, a man is an individual first as well and has the right to choose what they do. Here the question is not about Anupamaa being an individual but her priorities in her relationships. She has two people in her life right now that need her attention, her husband who almost died, was in coma and has just regained consciousnes. The other person is her daughter in law who is healthy after child birth and has no complications.

Anuj is still wheelchair bound and requires assistance to even move or lift his hand to do minor things. He is surrounded by an almost octogenarian and a 5 year old who can keep him company but definitely can’t lift him if he falls. There are 3 other people in his house who piss him off and have caused him to have a panic attack already. Yes he is wealthy, then Anupama/ Kapadia’s should have the forethought to hire nurse and help. Don’t forget it’s a festive day and the compassionate man that he is Anuj has given the nurse and help holiday to celebrate with their family.

Compared to that Kinjal has 8 other people from family and doctors at the hospital to care for her. Rakhi, whatever she maybe, she loves Kinjal, is a mother herself that she understand postpartum care and again is wealthy to hire nurses.

I don’t understand Anupama’s batna when its not being forced on her. It is her choice here to stay with Kinjal than go visit Anuj who doesn’t demand her attention but is restless and shows her his impatience. He said “ aaram se par jaldi aana”. Even here Anuj is not forcing her to leave Kinjal and her daadi banne ki khushi. But Anupamaa ignoring him comes about as being insensitive.