AnupaMaa's misplaced priorities

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Will this noble woman ever sort her priorities or will she continue to misplace her priorities forever making lives messier for everybody around her? I know Anuj is after Mr Shah, Baa, Bapuji, Samar, Toshu, Pakhi, Kinjal, new kid in her priority list, then why did she marry him? Why could not they remained as best friends? Why when she was neck drown in responsibilities, she chose to add another responsibility in her already twisted life by marrying him? I have never seen any woman even with small kids to be so indifferent to her spouse's mental needs. Anuj comes 9th in her list of important people and he should have remained so forever. She did not need to prioritize his need of adopting a baby when she was completely against it. She has no mental connection with CA and does not put any effort to connect to her. By strictly rejecting the request of adoption she should have come across as a mature, sensible and truly empowered woman. She has made everyone around her handicapped but when they all demand her attention, she complains that she always has to divide herself. Who asked her to make pieces of herself, she could have been puri ki puri of Mr Shah's and we would have been spared the dialogue of ek auraat ko kiyun hamesha batna padte hai every two episodes.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Now I'm seeing your username in a new light. Is your username a sarcastic remark on Anupama's constant mother and motherhood dialogues🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Maine to aaj ke kal ke jamaane mein aisa dekha nahin ki marriage ke baad bus wife ki priorities only and only husband hoti hai


Loyal wife hone ke liye husband ke baare mein har time sochte raho yeh jaroori nahi hai

Being married does not mean wife revolve around husband only. Marriage woman ki apni ichha bhi hoti hai yeh nahin ki har time bus wife ki duty nibhati rahe aur uske elawa wife kise se baat nahin kar sakti ya kisi ki help nahin kar sakti

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

Maine to aaj ke kal ke jamaane mein aisa dekha nahin ki marriage ke baad bus wife ki priorities only and only husband hoti hai


Loyal wife hone ke liye husband ke baare mein har time sochte raho yeh jaroori nahi hai

Being married does not mean wife revolve around husband only. Marriage woman ki apni ichha bhi hoti hai yeh nahin ki har time bus wife ki duty nibhati rahe aur uske elawa wife kise se baat nahin kar sakti ya kisi ki help nahin kar sakti

Obviously a wife/mother can have a separate life from her husband/kids but if that life includes visiting your ex's place every two days, hugging your ex, shaking hands with your ex, teasing your ex then it's extremely problematic.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I recently came across a clip where Anu is saying mai bhale batt jau par mere rishton ko batne nahi doongi.

I think that's your answer 😂

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

Maine to aaj ke kal ke jamaane mein aisa dekha nahin ki marriage ke baad bus wife ki priorities only and only husband hoti hai


Loyal wife hone ke liye husband ke baare mein har time sochte raho yeh jaroori nahi hai

Being married does not mean wife revolve around husband only. Marriage woman ki apni ichha bhi hoti hai yeh nahin ki har time bus wife ki duty nibhati rahe aur uske elawa wife kise se baat nahin kar sakti ya kisi ki help nahin kar sakti

Anupama doesn't seem to have a life of her own.

Here her choice is between her current husband who gives her space, respect etc and her ex-family who treat her like trash.

She always seem to choose the latter. 😳

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Posted: 3 years ago
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But kinjal is not anupama ex bahu kinjal is still wife of toshu

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

Maine to aaj ke kal ke jamaane mein aisa dekha nahin ki marriage ke baad bus wife ki priorities only and only husband hoti hai


Loyal wife hone ke liye husband ke baare mein har time sochte raho yeh jaroori nahi hai

Being married does not mean wife revolve around husband only. Marriage woman ki apni ichha bhi hoti hai yeh nahin ki har time bus wife ki duty nibhati rahe aur uske elawa wife kise se baat nahin kar sakti ya kisi ki help nahin kar sakti

Her husband beat death and just came out of coma. Still bound to wheelchair. Getting paralytic attacks daily. I think any normal sane loyal wife would put Anuj before rest of shah clan at this point! Not just wife, any family member would keep him a priority. What a waste of love and devotion he showered.
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

But kinjal is not anupama ex bahu kinjal is still wife of toshu

There is an army of people in shah house to take care of kinjal.

Her husband had a near death experience and is bound to wheelchair.

Anyone with a sane mind would know their priorities.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

Maine to aaj ke kal ke jamaane mein aisa dekha nahin ki marriage ke baad bus wife ki priorities only and only husband hoti hai


Loyal wife hone ke liye husband ke baare mein har time sochte raho yeh jaroori nahi hai

Being married does not mean wife revolve around husband only. Marriage woman ki apni ichha bhi hoti hai yeh nahin ki har time bus wife ki duty nibhati rahe aur uske elawa wife kise se baat nahin kar sakti ya kisi ki help nahin kar sakti

Maine aj ke zamane mai aisa dekha nahi ki divorcee lady baccho se milne purane sasural jaha ex-husband uski nayi biwi ke sath rehta ho waha jati ho.

Maine aj ke zamane mai yeh bhi nahi dekha ki koi divorce ke baad ex-husband jaha rehta ho wohi same house mai rehne ka koi soch bhi sake.

Maine aj ke zamane mai yeh bhi kabhi nahi dekha ki cheater abusive ex-husband ka dhana chalane ke liye victim ex-wife pamphlet bategi.

Maine aj ke zamane mai yeh bhi nahi dekha ki koi ex-sasuralwalo ka kiya character assassination baar baar bhul jaye.

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