Stop toleratng character assasinators n stop confusng d audience

For one thing, Anupama should stop tolerating people who assasinate her character. It's just enough. Isn't this show about self-respect? Then why is she tolerating all this? Why are her abusers still standing in front of her?

Secondly, the confusing message this show is giving out. Ufffff... I am fed up. Like isn't the victim suppose to become self-confident and maintain boundaries? Isn't she suppose to call out an abuser and stay away from them? Why the hell is her younger daughter getting involved with the abusers? Why is she still worshipping them? I don't wanna keep repeating this. Many have spoken about all this.

Barkha was half right today. Of Anupama being a doormat. She is a damn doormat. And worst, the owner of this doormat don't even clean it. Coz they don't care.

Plus, what the hell is wrong with the characters' attitude. They have personality disorder? They are like one second wishing good for one another but other second cursing and insulting one another. Kya hai yeh? Mein toh ekdam confused hoh gayi hoon. Abbbeeee, kaun acha hai aur kaun galat? For example, Barkha waving at Anuj like she is so happy to see him concious and next moment grieving his quick recovery. I understand if she had acted before Anuj but she is genuinely happy. Then why is genuinely upset over his quick recovery. Kudos to the makers! Because they used the word "quick." Matlab, she wishes his recovery but slowly. Paar farak kya hai? You still want him to suffer right? The makers show genuine happiness and then bilkul opposite. Hey bhagwaan! Areh if someone is bad, bad dikhao nahi toh good. Thik hai perfect insaan mat dikhao paar these conflicting personalities in one character is insanity! I am frustrated.

Toshu ko dekho. He cares for his mom now? Like really? If Anupama says one thing against Vanraj tomorrow, he will forget that her mother's husband is sick and her mother is an old woman who is traumatized. His empathy went out of the window when he saw his mom shaking in trauma the other day when Pakhi insulted her. Why the hell are you confusing the audience?

The negative characters are suppose to wear masks of goodness before the good characters right? In this show, the characters are wearing masks before the audience such that the audience are like... Wait a minute, she is bad but good... No! Good but bad... What the hell!!!!!

These characters are not called grey characters. Everyone is grey in life. These characters are mentally unstable.

I think barkha or adhik will switch off anuj oxygen or attempt his murder in hospital or at home

so he will go palralyzed

if vanraj was well he nmay have attempted on anuj life in hospital

lets see who attempts on anuj life next

Originally posted by: Jefen

For one thing, Anupama should stop tolerating people who assasinate her character. It's just enough. Isn't this show about self-respect? Then why is she tolerating all this? Why are her abusers still standing in front of her?

Secondly, the confusing message this show is giving out. Ufffff... I am fed up. Like isn't the victim suppose to become self-confident and maintain boundaries? Isn't she suppose to call out an abuser and stay away from them? Why the hell is her younger daughter getting involved with the abusers? Why is she still worshipping them? I don't wanna keep repeating this. Many have spoken about all this.

Barkha was half right today. Of Anupama being a doormat. She is a damn doormat. And worst, the owner of this doormat don't even clean it. Coz they don't care.

Plus, what the hell is wrong with the characters' attitude. They have personality disorder? They are like one second wishing good for one another but other second cursing and insulting one another. Kya hai yeh? Mein toh ekdam confused hoh gayi hoon. Abbbeeee, kaun acha hai aur kaun galat?

For example, Barkha waving at Anuj like she is so happy to see him concious and next moment grieving his quick recovery.

She is acting in front of Anuj because according to Barkha she still thinks Anuj doesnt know their intentions..

I understand if she had acted before Anuj but she is genuinely happy.

No she is not..she wanted him to take his time recovering so they can takeover his business

Then why is genuinely upset over his quick recovery. Kudos to the makers! Because they used the word "quick." Matlab, she wishes his recovery but slowly. Paar farak kya hai? You still want him to suffer right?

The Kapadias that are genuinely happy with Anuj's quick recovery are GK, Anu, Choti Anu, Sara and Ankush but he is reminded all the time whenever he wanted to act like himself in front of the family that he has a goal to achieve..

The makers show genuine happiness and then bilkul opposite. Hey bhagwaan! Areh if someone is bad, bad dikhao nahi toh good. Dikhayenge when they show Barkha knowing that Anuj knows their intentions then they will show..

Thik hai perfect insaan mat dikhao paar these conflicting personalities in one character is insanity! I am frustrated. beta isko dekhne ke liye kayi serials ka experience chahiye

Toshu ko dekho. He cares for his mom now? Like really? If Anupama says one thing against Vanraj tomorrow, he will forget that her mother's husband is sick and her mother is an old woman who is traumatized. His empathy went out of the window when he saw his mom shaking in trauma the other day when Pakhi insulted her. Why the hell are you confusing the audience? These are chameleon characters..time pe positive but can turn negative any time..ek baar Toshu ne bola tha ki maine bahut kuch galat bola mummy ko aur aage bhi bolunga ...bas isse main smjh gyi ki ye kuch time ka paschatap hai jab kuch hoga ye paltega aur thik wahi hua

The negative characters are suppose to wear masks of goodness before the good characters right? In this show, the characters are wearing masks before the audience such that the audience are like... Wait a minute, she is bad but good... No! Good but bad... What the hell!!!!!

The only character I am confused about is Rakhi Dave..kabhi kabhi she is with the Shah family she behaves so friendly kabhi kabhi nagagin ki tarah dasti hai..

These characters are not called grey characters. Everyone is grey in life. These characters are mentally unstable.

Abhi dekh lo ye chart..and follow this:

Team Villain:

Vanraj shah: Negative

Baa: Negative

Toshu: Chameleon

Pakhi: Chameleon

Rakhi Dave: Chamelen..I am confused AF

Adhik: Negative

Barkha: Negative

Ankush: 50/50

Team Anupama:

Mamaji: Positive

Samar: Positive

Bapuji: Positive

Kinjal: Positive

Dolly: Positive

Dolly ka husband: Positive

Dolly ki beti: Positive

Devika: Positive

Kanta: Positive

Anu ka bhai: Positive

Anuj: Positive

GK: Positive

Mukku: Positive

Sara: Positive

Ankush: 50/50

I love this topic, I actually have something which I'll be posting .

The confusion is caz of writers and audience.

Anuji ko khud nai pata usko kya chahiye

Originally posted by: Jefen

For one thing, Anupama should stop tolerating people who assasinate her character. It's just enough. Isn't this show about self-respect? Then why is she tolerating all this? Why are her abusers still standing in front of her?

Secondly, the confusing message this show is giving out. Ufffff... I am fed up. Like isn't the victim suppose to become self-confident and maintain boundaries? Isn't she suppose to call out an abuser and stay away from them? Why the hell is her younger daughter getting involved with the abusers? Why is she still worshipping them? I don't wanna keep repeating this. Many have spoken about all this.

Barkha was half right today. Of Anupama being a doormat. She is a damn doormat. And worst, the owner of this doormat don't even clean it. Coz they don't care.

Plus, what the hell is wrong with the characters' attitude. They have personality disorder? They are like one second wishing good for one another but other second cursing and insulting one another. Kya hai yeh? Mein toh ekdam confused hoh gayi hoon. Abbbeeee, kaun acha hai aur kaun galat? For example, Barkha waving at Anuj like she is so happy to see him concious and next moment grieving his quick recovery. I understand if she had acted before Anuj but she is genuinely happy. Then why is genuinely upset over his quick recovery. Kudos to the makers! Because they used the word "quick." Matlab, she wishes his recovery but slowly. Paar farak kya hai? You still want him to suffer right? The makers show genuine happiness and then bilkul opposite. Hey bhagwaan! Areh if someone is bad, bad dikhao nahi toh good. Thik hai perfect insaan mat dikhao paar these conflicting personalities in one character is insanity! I am frustrated.

Toshu ko dekho. He cares for his mom now? Like really? If Anupama says one thing against Vanraj tomorrow, he will forget that her mother's husband is sick and her mother is an old woman who is traumatized. His empathy went out of the window when he saw his mom shaking in trauma the other day when Pakhi insulted her. Why the hell are you confusing the audience?

The negative characters are suppose to wear masks of goodness before the good characters right? In this show, the characters are wearing masks before the audience such that the audience are like... Wait a minute, she is bad but good... No! Good but bad... What the hell!!!!!

These characters are not called grey characters. Everyone is grey in life. These characters are mentally unstable.

Agree with all that you said and it does looks like the writer herself lost her skills while writing this show and it is evident in the episodes and all the characters change their stand and colors in a moment. like Paakhi all that she said and did melted in a second and the very next day she went to Anuj's home to celebrate same too with Vanraj you have trouble letting Paakhi go for valid reasons then why allowing her and then blaming Anuj for all this.

The no of times these characters flipped made the story with no head or tail or no start or end. And the justification given for all this was circumstances sorry but not every fight should be put on circumstances. Some fights like Paakhi's and Toshu's should not be put on circumstances as they are not kids. Anu herself said that she can only guide her kids but not live their life and what the writers shows contradicts it.

And about the grey. I too don't get it at all I have seen grey characters but none were like the Shah's. They are black but painting themselves white and calling themselves grey

I might add some points later if I remember more.

I don't think Barkha really wants Anuj to die or suffer. She was happy to see him get well, because at the end of the day, she doesn't wish him bad. She just wants her family's future to be secure. She's a snob. But considering how her brother treated her, she sees the world as something to be profited from, take advantage or they'll take advantage of you. She knows Anuj genuinely cares for them, so she doesn't want him to die or for her husband to lose his brother. Unlike her own elder brother, Anuj cared for her. So even if she wants to take advantage of him on one side, she wants him to be well.

Originally posted by: Meghateresa

I don't think Barkha really wants Anuj to die or suffer. She was happy to see him get well, because at the end of the day, she doesn't wish him bad. She just wants her family's future to be secure. She's a snob. But considering how her brother treated her, she sees the world as something to be profited from, take advantage or they'll take advantage of you. She knows Anuj genuinely cares for them, so she doesn't want him to die or for her husband to lose his brother. Unlike her own elder brother, Anuj cared for her. So even if she wants to take advantage of him on one side, she wants him to be well.

Totally. She doesnt love him or see him as family, as what family means for Barkha was said loud and clear. B

And barkha doesn't really hate him eitther. Its like survival of the fitest.

Originally posted by: Jefen

For one thing, Anupama should stop tolerating people who assasinate her character. It's just enough. Isn't this show about self-respect? Then why is she tolerating all this? Why are her abusers still standing in front of her?

Secondly, the confusing message this show is giving out. Ufffff... I am fed up. Like isn't the victim suppose to become self-confident and maintain boundaries? Isn't she suppose to call out an abuser and stay away from them? Why the hell is her younger daughter getting involved with the abusers? Why is she still worshipping them? I don't wanna keep repeating this. Many have spoken about all this.

Barkha was half right today. Of Anupama being a doormat. She is a damn doormat. And worst, the owner of this doormat don't even clean it. Coz they don't care.

Plus, what the hell is wrong with the characters' attitude. They have personality disorder? They are like one second wishing good for one another but other second cursing and insulting one another. Kya hai yeh? Mein toh ekdam confused hoh gayi hoon. Abbbeeee, kaun acha hai aur kaun galat? For example, Barkha waving at Anuj like she is so happy to see him concious and next moment grieving his quick recovery. I understand if she had acted before Anuj but she is genuinely happy. Then why is genuinely upset over his quick recovery. Kudos to the makers! Because they used the word "quick." Matlab, she wishes his recovery but slowly. Paar farak kya hai? You still want him to suffer right? The makers show genuine happiness and then bilkul opposite. Hey bhagwaan! Areh if someone is bad, bad dikhao nahi toh good. Thik hai perfect insaan mat dikhao paar these conflicting personalities in one character is insanity! I am frustrated.

Toshu ko dekho. He cares for his mom now? Like really? If Anupama says one thing against Vanraj tomorrow, he will forget that her mother's husband is sick and her mother is an old woman who is traumatized. His empathy went out of the window when he saw his mom shaking in trauma the other day when Pakhi insulted her. Why the hell are you confusing the audience?

The negative characters are suppose to wear masks of goodness before the good characters right? In this show, the characters are wearing masks before the audience such that the audience are like... Wait a minute, she is bad but good... No! Good but bad... What the hell!!!!!

These characters are not called grey characters. Everyone is grey in life. These characters are mentally unstable.