This is why I Defend Anu

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The time difference definitely gives me advantage of posting topics, ROFL.

Barkha was not wrong in asking for investigation and calling Anu on the past behaviors (forget about V affection) and before Anu could really share her side, the Mary go Circle went into action. Anu made it clear the intension is getting answer once u get answer, action will be taken based on it. Both Barkha and Anu were saying same but in different ways. Also so far when was Anus side was ever really shown other than standing for self in two times, other than that was she ever given proper way to respond in these situations, the strong stand she took was in her own situations, and taking stand For Anuj during Durga Pooja, other than that her side was never really put out there without going in circles n loosing the topic completely. Thats why I jump in for this lady and take the role of supporting n try making sense which writers mess up royally.

Hospital scene of Maan, best of any hospital scene. It clearly highlights the trios world, and what they mean for each other, the ILU may sound cheesy but that was the perfect way of saying wat they mean for each other, best come back line of showing depth of relationship. Caz their ILUs are always mature and more in depth rather than couples saying ILU, it has its own significance. When he touched her Pallu, I rem his line 'my comfort zone is your pallu' his safe heaven the unsaid significance.

To know how Gaslighting is different from manipulation, I'll give example the lines that Baa said to Barkha initially is Gaslighting, manipulating in doubting your own reality n sanity with words done beautifully by control freaks, manipulators, abusers that is why I said in previous post Anu was never shown properly as she was Royally Gaslighted All the time hence the stand she starts taking just disappears due to the Mary go round manipulators in both Shah House and Kapadiya

Manipulation is getting want u need by playing words, gaslighting is manipulative words where abusers don't take responsibility and question the sanity n reality leading to self doubt of the victim.