Deja vù?, Contradictions?

While Anupama has many a contradictions and hypocritical sequences, there seems to be a sense of Deja vù on some tracks which, one wonders why are they not addressed.

1. Rakhi Dave's conspicuous silence in the Pakhi-Adhik matter:

How come she did not bring the topic of "Dekha kaisa lagta hain jab apni khud ki beti Tumhari baatein ansuni karke pyaar karti hain!"? The drama queen that she is shown to be, why did she never raise this point ever?

When Paritosh-Kinjal were "explaining" Pakhi how come Pakhi herself, the big mouth that she is, not ask Paritosh-Kinjal, "Look who's talking!".

2. Impending Adhik - Shah confrontation:

Adhik, returns from USA after 20 odd years? He must have been atleast 10 when his brother betrayed him and Barkha off their property? So he is ~30 now? So he is atleast 8 - 10 years elder to Pakhi and around the same age as Malavika?

A 45+ Vanraj can take a 30 something, emotionally vulnerable Malavika on a royal emotional ride (so much so that she stays at Shah house and goes around interfering in their internal affairs). The oh-so-sanskaari Mr.Hansmukh and Mrs.Leela see no problems, are so naive that they don't see through what was happening much less stop it?

Anupama once warned Vanraj which he did not give 2 hoots to, expressed concern with Anuj which he sidelined that he had "made arrangements" to "keep him posted", really?

ALL his deeds are magically forgiven by everyone.

Well done, Anuj, Mr.Hansmukh, Mrs.Leela, Samar, Anupama.

How come NONE brought that topic up like Barkha, Adhik or Ankush?

In both cases, where does "Betiyan sabki saanjhi hoti hain go here"?

On the side notes:

3. Anuj's return after 26 years:

Kapadia Industries apparently always existed.

Who took care of it?

Malavika was globe trotting, Anuj and GK stayed there since had a business in US. Anuj returned to India after 26 years for good. Why?

Did he wind up his US business? Same Ankush-like situation, losses? Why would anyone wind up a flourishing business?

When none doubted his intentions, why is he doubting others?

4. Adapting, Accent, Speeches and Stereotyping:

When people stay and constantly converse with people, it is natural to pick up their accent, traits etc. It is a side effect of adaptability.

But here, guess ALL are expected to adapt to Anupama and she doesn't let others converse in lieu of her 5 page bhashan and undercurrent of threats. Her accent is now getting irritable and stereotypical.

5. Bahu/Bhabhi, baharwali?

Have they shown that as long as you have a "Bahu" tag on you, your opinion does NOT matter, much less your existence?

Kavya faces it, Barkha potentially (reference to her discussion with Ankush and subsequently expressing that Bahu/Bhabhi baharwali hi hoti hain), Anupama did when she was the Bahu of the erstwhile Kapadia household, Kinjal, well where is she, one wonders.

Wonder how Anupama would have been with Kapadia Saas-Sasur.

6. Anuj bolta bhi hain?

Anuj....... jitna mooh apni Bhabhi ko sunane/dhamkane me kholta hain uska aadha bhi Shahs ke samne majaal hain ki khule? This in itself is hypocritical.

On the side notes:

3. Anuj's return after 26 years:

Kapadia Industries apparently always existed.

Who took care of it?

Malavika was globe trotting, Anuj and GK stayed there since had a business in US. Anuj returned to India after 26 years for good. Why?

Did he wind up his US business? Same Ankush-like situation, losses? Why would anyone wind up a flourishing business?

When none doubted his intentions, why is he doubting others?

Regarding this pt

Bill gates has company all over world but he stays in seattle usa

Narayan murthyy has highest business in USA but lives in bangalore

same for azim premji etc

most business man stay put at one place called home

they travel from time to time to other company locations

anuj was head quartered in USa now is in india

so whats issue?

Many humans go back to native after 40s or 50s but handle businesses all over

Mukku stayed in USA while handling company in anuj absence

She prefers USa and anuj ahmedabad as owners

In todays time you can have business in 200 country but live in one city all life

I mean these ppl have parents wife kids to take care off too so they have one home where they live permanently mostly

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

5. Bahu/Bhabhi, baharwali?

Have they shown that as long as you have a "Bahu" tag on you, your opinion does NOT matter, much less your existence?

Kavya faces it, Barkha potentially (reference to her discussion with Ankush and subsequently expressing that Bahu/Bhabhi baharwali hi hoti hain), Anupama did when she was the Bahu of the erstwhile Kapadia household, Kinjal, well where is she, one wonders.

Wonder how Anupama would have been with Kapadia Saas-Sasur.

6. Anuj bolta bhi hain?

Anuj....... jitna mooh apni Bhabhi ko sunane/dhamkane me kholta hain uska aadha bhi Shahs ke samne majaal hain ki khule? This in itself is hypocritical.

This point is very correct - barkha has not done much like vanraj baa and toshu to shout at her or warn her

Vanraj has damaged mukku and anuj or kapdai empire more yet he has no braveness to say

This is why they say love is blind - husbands usually do not like displeasing wife by pointing how bad her mayka is in real life too but their own parents and siblings they will shout at or leave first opportunity like anuj did to mukku. Wifes are better they never humiliate their parents and mayka no matter what provocations they never displease their parents or siblings to please hubby. Thats why they say daughter for life and son is son till he marries may be. Girls remain loyal and greatful to family parents and siblings for life usually unlike hubbys

But shahs and vanraj have crossed all decency long back even most hen pecked hubby will not keep quiet if wife mayka targets their sisters or business etc which anuj is doing

Originally posted by: myviewprem

On the side notes:

3. Anuj's return after 26 years:

Kapadia Industries apparently always existed.

Who took care of it?

Malavika was globe trotting, Anuj and GK stayed there since had a business in US. Anuj returned to India after 26 years for good. Why?

Did he wind up his US business? Same Ankush-like situation, losses? Why would anyone wind up a flourishing business?

When none doubted his intentions, why is he doubting others?

Regarding this pt

Bill gates has company all over world but he stays in seattle usa

Narayan murthyy has highest business in USA but lives in bangalore

same for azim premji etc

most business man stay put at one place called home

they travel from time to time to other company locations

anuj was head quartered in USa now is in india

so whats issue?

Many humans go back to native after 40s or 50s but handle businesses all over

Mukku stayed in USA while handling company in anuj absence

She prefers USa and anuj ahmedabad as owners

In todays time you can have business in 200 country but live in one city all life

I mean these ppl have parents wife kids to take care off too so they have one home where they live permanently mostly

Ofcourse they do.

2 points here:

1.) they mentioned he "wound up in US" to come here for good. It was also mentioned that Malavika had her own set-up unrelated to Anuj. Malavika's Introduction track where he mentioned he has no clue of Malavika's enterprises.

2.) There is toggling between "Kapadia's" business and Anuj's business which is interchangeably used per convenience.

a. In his initial track, he came to "set-up" business here etc. (was it called AK?) for convenience we can call it Anuj's business which Anupama joined as Partner.

Now whatever happened to Anuj's business. Never mind that.

b. Then there is Kapadia properties (which I am assuming includes companies) which was always present which Malavika was a shareholder and transferred everything to Anuj which by his own admission, he was only a "caretaker".

So, effectively, when he returned, he had "wound up" his US business, was a "caretaker" of the Kapadia properties (including business) and had not set-up "AK".

When Anupama said, "Mere aur mere pariwaar ke beech matt boliye" 🤦🏻‍♀️ that was a "Look who's talking" moment.

I can go around interfering in everyone's business but dare if anyone else does!

First she was Maa of Shah kids and now she has a Kapadia child, so effectively her attention is divided, to that extent, Vanraj is right and Anuj's argument that Vanraj has 3 kids, has no ground since they were ALL together under the same roof and grew up together.

Having said that, the Shah kids are grown-up and should be more independent and mature. Infact, they should have suggested adoption to Kavya too.

Kinjal's expression of insecurity for her child is beyond my understanding. So ALL this Maa - Maa chant was to ensure her child is taken care of? And she blamed Rakhi for lack of attention and care, growing up? Heights!

Why is there so much division between parents & step parents? Everytime Kavya & Anuj will be like - mera koi haq nahi banata - when it comes to Shah kids. Why not? Step parents are parents too. This show passes off some really sneaky regressive messages along with the progressive ones.

I would also like clarity on Ankush. Is it that he has squandered away his business share or does he still have some stake in the Kapadia empire? If its the latter, then Barkha's fear is not misplaced. Anuj's logic of giving Anu everything is questionable.