Why are we not able to connect with anupama.. - Page 7

Originally posted by: DJ_3

Hi Sam, agreed I had alot of similar issues per my post on page 1 of this thread.

I mean especially marrying from Shah house and than living their till wedding. Like what is that.

Seems she wants back in that house with Vanraj. She is doing the same thing of emotionally cheating on Anuj with Vanraj and adding to Kavya's insecurities 😒

I know right! At this point I agree more with Kavya shooting truth bombs at Vanraj than Anupama behaving so illogically that there is no ounce of sanity left.

Originally posted by: Fighter03

I think no woman can EVER identify with Anupama because-

1. Agreeing to have wedding in EX’s house and staying there after staging a walkout just a few months ago. INSANE.

2. Keeps chanting baa baa black sheep when that vile woman would celebrate if she dies. Would probably dance around her grave. Unimaginable.

3. Hypocrisy ki dukaan. One day she wants a simple wedding, next day lavish wedding. Decide, woman. Also, idiotic dialogues like wedding in sooti saree and groom coming in rickshaw.

4. Never seen working. Only taling gujiyas, serving chai, kooting chutneys.

5. Doesn’t really care about fiance’s feelings. Says she does, but never acts like it. Uses him like a doormat.

6. Obviously still has feelings for Ex hubby. Keeps giving him jal while he is busy insulting her and destroying her life. Keeps interfering in his life when she should be running far far away. Severe stockholm syndrome.

I posted along same lines in two other topics.. if I sit and write again like I used to earlier, I can write pages on hypocrisy of Anupama and dumb lover boy Anuj...

There was a time we used to ask for Anuj for ourselves, myself included. Thanks makers for making it so easy, I don't want Anuj for myself, you know why, I deserve better...

And for heaven's sake, please no women should ever compare/relate/similar to Anupama.. trust me, women specially mother are God's best creation ever. Whereas, Anupama is the worst creation by same lazy, regressive minds...

Disclaimer : I have stopped watching and not looking forward to Shaadi.. infact I am prepared for maha balidaan by Anu for her Baa to marry her achcha pita as she is a Maa first, then Beti...and Anuj will understand her yet again and continue worship her to this mahaan tyaag.

Practical points, think of it, how difficult it will be keeping Anu in SH after marriage. Simple option one heart attack for Bapuji or suicide attempt from Vanraj or do Aansoo from Baa and make Anu stay in SH for ever....

Anu has dementia she denies ever being abused, forgot everything she said when she left SH earlier. Best was she will herself tie her pallu to SH, I have only seen cattles tied inside house, got it, Anu knows it's not her house, and her real position too.

Originally posted by: shriz

At this point trolling the show is more entertaining than watching the show🤣

You should say from 2022 new year onwards....

Originally posted by: Km181

I posted along same lines in two other topics.. if I sit and write again like I used to earlier, I can write pages on hypocrisy of Anupama and dumb lover boy Anuj...

There was a time we used to ask for Anuj for ourselves, myself included. Thanks makers for making it so easy, I don't want Anuj for myself, you know why, I deserve better...

And for heaven's sake, please no women should ever compare/relate/similar to Anupama.. trust me, women specially mother are God's best creation ever. Whereas, Anupama is the worst creation by same lazy, regressive minds...

Disclaimer : I have stopped watching and not looking forward to Shaadi.. infact I am prepared for maha balidaan by Anu for her Baa to marry her achcha pita as she is a Maa first, then Beti...and Anuj will understand her yet again and continue worship her to this mahaan tyaag.

Practical points, think of it, how difficult it will be keeping Anu in SH after marriage. Simple option one heart attack for Bapuji or suicide attempt from Vanraj or do Aansoo from Baa and make Anu stay in SH for ever....

Anu has dementia she denies ever being abused, forgot everything she said when she left SH earlier. Best was she will herself tie her pallu to SH, I have only seen cattles tied inside house, got it, Anu knows it's not her house, and her real position too.

Its such lazy writing isnt it.
Of course Anuj is the right choice we all know that. And she will choose Anuj we know that too. But they have made it so annoying and frustrating with her choosing SH over and over and over while claiming to be in love with Anuj.

That is the difference between writing characters who feel real and those that feel like carricatures. Yes, its a daily soap and those are not known for their quality. But there is a limit to testing the audience’s patience.

Even the carricatures have a behavioural pattern whereas Anupama, Anuj and Bapuji zone in and out of insanity on a daily basis.

Originally posted by: Km181

I posted along same lines in two other topics.. if I sit and write again like I used to earlier, I can write pages on hypocrisy of Anupama and dumb lover boy Anuj...

There was a time we used to ask for Anuj for ourselves, myself included. Thanks makers for making it so easy, I don't want Anuj for myself, you know why, I deserve better...

And for heaven's sake, please no women should ever compare/relate/similar to Anupama.. trust me, women specially mother are God's best creation ever. Whereas, Anupama is the worst creation by same lazy, regressive minds...

Disclaimer : I have stopped watching and not looking forward to Shaadi.. infact I am prepared for maha balidaan by Anu for her Baa to marry her achcha pita as she is a Maa first, then Beti...and Anuj will understand her yet again and continue worship her to this mahaan tyaag.

Practical points, think of it, how difficult it will be keeping Anu in SH after marriage. Simple option one heart attack for Bapuji or suicide attempt from Vanraj or do Aansoo from Baa and make Anu stay in SH for ever....

Anu has dementia she denies ever being abused, forgot everything she said when she left SH earlier. Best was she will herself tie her pallu to SH, I have only seen cattles tied inside house, got it, Anu knows it's not her house, and her real position too.

I cnt tell you km how much I want her to go back to that snake..because she is a gone case and she doesn't deserve someone like anuj at all..

See after her entry in his life what happened to the famous nri..he is nothing but a joker now who just wants to please anupama and her so called family..

I just cant relate or sympathize with this brainless lady because she herself is the root cause of everything she and others members around her are going through..she is an insane, and pakaau bandi who just doesn't know at the age of 45 what is right and what is wrong..

And yes expecting any logical/ sensible thing from her is like bhains ke aage been bajana..

Originally posted by: Km181

I posted along same lines in two other topics.. if I sit and write again like I used to earlier, I can write pages on hypocrisy of Anupama and dumb lover boy Anuj...

There was a time we used to ask for Anuj for ourselves, myself included. Thanks makers for making it so easy, I don't want Anuj for myself, you know why, I deserve better...

I am sad to see AK's char assasination. His char was one of the most well written, perfect male chars in ITV. How/why did they turn him into good for nothing, pallu obsessed moron!? Why would the makers ruin their own creation is beyond me.

Anupama's char was already going down the drain before AK's entry. Story & tracks, better left unsaid. 😳

Originally posted by: DJ_3

Hi Sam, agreed I had alot of similar issues per my post on page 1 of this thread.

I mean especially marrying from Shah house and than living their till wedding. Like what is that.

Seems she wants back in that house with Vanraj. She is doing the same thing of emotionally cheating on Anuj with Vanraj and adding to Kavya's insecurities 😒

Right! And she has been doing this from the day 1 Vanraj and Kavya married. Now Anuj is also involved.

If you really like Vanraj so much there was no need of divorce drama- they already had a open relationship. Fir jal ka 65 bhog pirosti raheti. emotional cheating is the right word.

This lady keeps preaching morals but she herself doesn't have any.

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

I am sad to see AK's char assasination. His char was one of the most well written, perfect male chars in ITV. How/why did they turn him into good for nothing, pallu obsessed moron!? Why would the makers ruin their own creation is beyond me.

Anupama's char was already going down the drain before AK's entry. Story & tracks, better left unsaid. 😳

There is one and only one reason for this. They still think vanraj is the main character and have connections with the actor. Anuj character was eclipsing him and becoming the focus so they had to dial him back for Vanraajs sake. The actor also throwing a fit and meddling doesn't help

This is also the reason vanraj was the one offering sympathy to Mukkus about her abuse (imagine an abuser pretending he understands the plight of abuse victims) and one who still gets everyone's sympathies despite being unrepentant

They will never sideline Vanraj and never let any other actor become bigger than him in the show

Originally posted by: shriz

Wait for a few days bro and she will say ki bachpan me ice cream khaane k liye bhi maa k gehne bechne pade they🤡

They are situational gareebs bro..jab man Kiya bhikari ban jaate hai aur jab man Kiya Ambani k chacha

Nahi nahi bachpan mein kabhi ice cream khayi nahi.Humesha door se dekha karti thi yeh ice cream kaisa hota hai !! Itne paise hi nahi hote they !

Matlab melodrama ke hadh hai