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To me it looks like they got this formula where there is a bichari female lead who saves everyone with bhasan, and there is this another important "lead" which pushes the drama -Villian Vanraj. Makers can't think of the story where Vanraj isn't pushing buttons and Anupamaa isn't saving the day.

This issue has alway been there. All side characters are just there to support either of the "important" characters of the show. Sadly that is exactly what Anuj has become. A mere supporter and lover of Anupamaa.

Only if they were to develop -all character's life in their own ways...independent of Anupamaa and Vanraj. Small scale toh small scale hi sahi- give them characteristics of their own. Or atleast don't strip them like they did to Anuj.

Originally posted by: shriz

i agree with you g

I mean mukku does not really hate Anuj for him to leave her forever...she is quite insecure but it's not like she wants her brother to rot in hell

As far as they have shown in initial epsiodes, she also wants her brother to stay happy with anu and hence she herself asked baapu g for Anu's hand for marriage

He should have dealt with her more patiently and in a different way...he should have assured her that she is as important to him as anu and they both have their own respective places in his heart(like he explained this to anu in that chai ki tapri wala convo)

But did he ever try!!???

Hell NO

The question is that, If he can do this for anu then why not for his own sister!!??

It looked like he was already looking for some or the other reason to run away from mukku and boom he left at the first chance he got (without even trying )

Aree Bhai jab I take a wrong decision and don't listen to my mom to wo ghar chhor kar thore na chali jaati hai😕

There are times when I'm not even ready to listen to her pov but then she keeps on repeating daily "you are my daughter,i love you and i will never give you a wrong advice"

Although I don't listen to her instantly but then i get forced to think that this lady who keeps telling me i love you daily can never wish anything wrong for me

At the end of the day i understand her pov (sometimes it takes months and sometimes the realisation happens instantly)

So the thing is that did Anuj make mukku feel as confident about his love like my mother makes me feel

Ek to idk what these writers are trying to show...ek taraf anu is not leaving her Shah house wali girgit family even if they deserve it and doosri taraf they are glorifying Anuj leaving mukku even if she doesn't deserve it🤡

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

I am sometimes worried when team Anupama picks up social issues as story tracks. They end up making a joke out of the issue appearing very insensitive to the core. Along the way, they end up ruining chars who are the essential elements of a story!😲

TV/Film medium has the ability to reach masses in the deepest pockets of the country, and should hold themselves responsible for serving the right content.

Mukku's char was very sketchy right from the start and has very abrupt ending. 😕

hmmm, looks like they are not capable enough to handle such issues. They are good at sticking with tested stories - kitchen politics, good humans getting insulted, bhashans and so on!!

Originally posted by: RainFire125

Yessssss, finally the trps are down (deserving-ly down) and the mass agrees that the storyline has started descending from the time the Writers decided to experiment with MUkku and thereby ANUJ!!

I am super duper happy today but i also know that the Prod House is so thick skinned that they will not be too much effected by this as they are much used to the ups and downs of this TRP game!!

However, as a quality content viewer, i am honestly glad that the audience has shown once again that STORY MATTERS!! CHARACTERS MATTER.

I might be singing the same song (almost), and even if i talk about the characters in a non-judgemental way - let me just take the characters as they have been portrayed - I have few questions. Consider them as rhetorical as we know that we are not going to get answers from the PH or from the SHOW.

1. Who is his sane mind leaves his sister? There is a difference between giving space and leaving. Right? Anuj leaving the business to his sister - chalo agreed, he did this as he might have thought that I am unable to get through her thick brain..but leaving the house too?? Is this not abandoning your sister who is a depression patient, who takes MEDS, and who also apparently goes for Consultations??? Which Brother will do this??? And what do we name this -- sacrifice!!!!!!!!!!! My foot!! This is not sacrifice, this is just a means to running away from a problem or a situation as you dont know how to deal with it!! If we do this in reality, let me tell you that a country will have many more mental hospitals!! So writers, what were you advocating here by making a BROTHER ABANDON HIS SISTER?? I have no justification for this act of his, none. Do you??

2. A man is defined or shaped or respected for various aspects. - a son, a brother, a lover, a husband, a friend, a motivator, a game changer. Anuj only and only got flying colors as a friend and a lover. Where is that son who promised always to take care of family??? Where is that brother for whom his sister was the most imp person?? Where is that responsible businessman to had promised or rather shown hope to middle class women by giving them Jobs?? Where is that motivator who had stood and paved way for so many women??? All these shades went down the drain and only the LOVER remained and you guys thought that will bring him all the respect???? THINK AGAIN PLS.

3. I completely understand the 26 years wait, but was that choice not Anuj's??? Then why this sympathy and empathy that OMG he waited for 26 years and now he should get his due???? The story itself got so screwed that this man lost all his substance and that wait of his hyped and hyped and hyped!!! If a man does not have a substance, even if gets the most precious thing, it will seem as if - ok well he got it, big deal!! The confession frankly did not even raise an ounce of connect for me. Looks like it did not for many.

4. For a woman who has never ever got respect, this is utmost for her. The urge to stand on her feet and earn that respect becomes the most imp goal. Along with this comes - getting back the confidence, fighting her ground, learning new things even in small pockets, facing the world in diff ways, and finally understanding that she is worth it and she deserves every bit of praise, love, respect. AND what do you guys show???? - same preaching, same tangling with the ex-family, same thought process of forgiving and forgetting and then again getting hurt (even in a small way). This is not progression, writers!!!! You guys then have not understood the mental state of a women who has lost her self worth and what all she needs to do to get it back. And she is getting into marriage, i mean WOW. Two people are shown to spread the message that JUST LOVE is enough!! Amazing and i wish this worked in reality too!!!

5. Last but not the least, you completely mocked a very serious issue - depression!! I will not get into this as it is very sensitive. This was the biggest blinder and sadly you cannot absolve this!!

Anuj making Malvika CEO of Kapadia Empire is the biggest mistake and Vanraaj ka downfall na dikhana is another. I don't like this total lover boy Anuj I want savage Businessman Anuj Kapadia back now😎Sabko laga Malvika ya Anuj ka koi plan hoga par nahi bas Vanraaj ko win karte hue dikhaya its exactly opposite from that promo where Anuj ne Vanraaj ke nameplate throw ki thi. Even more than leaving his sister i am against his decision of leaving Kapadia Empire to his sister who is a depression patient. Audience want to see VANRAAJ downfall now and want to see strong Anuj back. Mukku ke character se i honestly is not that attached🥱Uske character se mein sympathasize nahi kar paarahi hoon. SORRY .

Look Audience want MaAn varna TRP for constant weeks above 4 nahi hoti when Anu realizes his love for Anuj. TRP tabse girni shuru hui jab Vanika ka behuda track dikhaya gaya and ANUJ ka Kapadia Empire Malvika ko dena honestly audience ko nahi pasand aaya including me. People want that Anuj back desperately even me. TRP tab tak 4 nahi hogi jabtak Anuj ko uska Empire wapas nahi milega. Vanraaj Toshu Kavya ka Empire ko takeover karne ka plan is just 🤢words hi nahi hai ab to Vanraaj , Toshu ke liye. Even BAA has lost all respect in my eyes. I hate that lady now to the core😡

Malvika needs ki Anuj ko uska Empire wapas kare mazaak hai kya . In today'e ep Vanraaj said Anuj nahi hai company mein to koi company se deal nahi karna chahta 👏look saare investors Anuj ko trust karte hai jo ki ek successful Businessman hai wo Vanraaj ko kyu trust karenge. Anuj leaving Kapadia Empire will destroy his company his 20 years ka hardwork. WHY WHY

Anuj Kapadia has become JAAN of this show now and kahi naa kahi now show is not only about Anupama its about Anuj and Anupama (MaAn). People want them together but makers need to show their professional growth desperately now and make Vanraaj loose now. Even my mother says Toshu, Samar and Pakhi tracks are side tracks SHOW is about Anupama so Anuj is a very very important character here. Jisne Anupama ko wings diye udne ke liye ussi ke wings kaatna chahte hai ye makers😡sirf apne Vanraaj ke liye pathetic.

Originally posted by: RainFire125

Yessssss, finally the trps are down (deserving-ly down) and the mass agrees that the storyline has started descending from the time the Writers decided to experiment with MUkku and thereby ANUJ!!

I am super duper happy today but i also know that the Prod House is so thick skinned that they will not be too much effected by this as they are much used to the ups and downs of this TRP game!!

However, as a quality content viewer, i am honestly glad that the audience has shown once again that STORY MATTERS!! CHARACTERS MATTER.

I might be singing the same song (almost), and even if i talk about the characters in a non-judgemental way - let me just take the characters as they have been portrayed - I have few questions. Consider them as rhetorical as we know that we are not going to get answers from the PH or from the SHOW.

1. Who is his sane mind leaves his sister? There is a difference between giving space and leaving. Right? Anuj leaving the business to his sister - chalo agreed, he did this as he might have thought that I am unable to get through her thick brain..but leaving the house too?? Is this not abandoning your sister who is a depression patient, who takes MEDS, and who also apparently goes for Consultations??? Which Brother will do this??? And what do we name this -- sacrifice!!!!!!!!!!! My foot!! This is not sacrifice, this is just a means to running away from a problem or a situation as you dont know how to deal with it!! If we do this in reality, let me tell you that a country will have many more mental hospitals!! So writers, what were you advocating here by making a BROTHER ABANDON HIS SISTER?? I have no justification for this act of his, none. Do you??

2. A man is defined or shaped or respected for various aspects. - a son, a brother, a lover, a husband, a friend, a motivator, a game changer. Anuj only and only got flying colors as a friend and a lover. Where is that son who promised always to take care of family??? Where is that brother for whom his sister was the most imp person?? Where is that responsible businessman to had promised or rather shown hope to middle class women by giving them Jobs?? Where is that motivator who had stood and paved way for so many women??? All these shades went down the drain and only the LOVER remained and you guys thought that will bring him all the respect???? THINK AGAIN PLS.

3. I completely understand the 26 years wait, but was that choice not Anuj's??? Then why this sympathy and empathy that OMG he waited for 26 years and now he should get his due???? The story itself got so screwed that this man lost all his substance and that wait of his hyped and hyped and hyped!!! If a man does not have a substance, even if gets the most precious thing, it will seem as if - ok well he got it, big deal!! The confession frankly did not even raise an ounce of connect for me. Looks like it did not for many.

4. For a woman who has never ever got respect, this is utmost for her. The urge to stand on her feet and earn that respect becomes the most imp goal. Along with this comes - getting back the confidence, fighting her ground, learning new things even in small pockets, facing the world in diff ways, and finally understanding that she is worth it and she deserves every bit of praise, love, respect. AND what do you guys show???? - same preaching, same tangling with the ex-family, same thought process of forgiving and forgetting and then again getting hurt (even in a small way). This is not progression, writers!!!! You guys then have not understood the mental state of a women who has lost her self worth and what all she needs to do to get it back. And she is getting into marriage, i mean WOW. Two people are shown to spread the message that JUST LOVE is enough!! Amazing and i wish this worked in reality too!!!

5. Last but not the least, you completely mocked a very serious issue - depression!! I will not get into this as it is very sensitive. This was the biggest blinder and sadly you cannot absolve this!!

The problem is that whole identity of anuj kapadia is and was revolving around anupama only..it looks like as if he has only 1 thing and 1 purpose in his life and that is to please anupama..which no doubt he is very good at..but when it comes to other things his character failed miserably ..so it's hard for me as an audience to connect with him..

Originally posted by: shriz

i agree with you g

I mean mukku does not really hate Anuj for him to leave her forever...she is quite insecure but it's not like she wants her brother to rot in hell

As far as they have shown in initial epsiodes, she also wants her brother to stay happy with anu and hence she herself asked baapu g for Anu's hand for marriage

He should have dealt with her more patiently and in a different way...he should have assured her that she is as important to him as anu and they both have their own respective places in his heart(like he explained this to anu in that chai ki tapri wala convo)

But did he ever try!!???

Hell NO

The question is that, If he can do this for anu then why not for his own sister!!??

It looked like he was already looking for some or the other reason to run away from mukku and boom he left at the first chance he got (without even trying )

Aree Bhai jab I take a wrong decision and don't listen to my mom to wo ghar chhor kar thore na chali jaati hai😕

There are times when I'm not even ready to listen to her pov but then she keeps on repeating daily "you are my daughter,i love you and i will never give you a wrong advice"

Although I don't listen to her instantly but then i get forced to think that this lady who keeps telling me i love you daily can never wish anything wrong for me

At the end of the day i understand her pov (sometimes it takes months and sometimes the realisation happens instantly)

So the thing is that did Anuj make mukku feel as confident about his love like my mother makes me feel

Ek to idk what these writers are trying to show...ek taraf anu is not leaving her Shah house wali girgit family even if they deserve it and doosri taraf they are glorifying Anuj leaving mukku even if she doesn't deserve it🤡

Very beautifully you explained this shriz..

Or jab se banda ghar chod kar gaya hai ek baar bhi use malvika se baat karte nahi dikhaya that's really sad..it looks like as if he is nothing but anupama ka chamcha..

Originally posted by: Priyankaa.jain

Very beautifully you explained this shriz..

Or jab se banda ghar chod kar gaya hai ek baar bhi use malvika se baat karte nahi dikhaya that's really sad..it looks like as if he is nothing but anupama ka chamcha..

Episode mein dikhaya tha uski Malvika se phone pe baat hoti hai aur ye baat usne Anupama ko batayi thi. Today he was with GK Kaka aisa nahi hai ki usne Malvika se saare rishtey tod liye hai. Kabhi Kabhi insaan ko shock treatment ki zaroorat hoti hai as GK kaka ne malvika se kaha wo bhi to 10 yrs ke liye bina bataye chali gayi thi. My Problem is Anuj ko apna Empire nahi chodna chahiye tha jo itni mehnat se usne khada kiya . I am hating Malvika character right now jo abhi tak Vanraaj ko nahi samjh rahi ki kitna ghatiya insaan hai wo.

Originally posted by: magicworld

Episode mein dikhaya tha uski Malvika se phone pe baat hoti hai aur ye baat usne Anupama ko batayi thi. Today he was with GK Kaka aisa nahi hai ki usne Malvika se saare rishtey tod liye hai. Kabhi Kabhi insaan ko shock treatment ki zaroorat hoti hai as GK kaka ne malvika se kaha wo bhi to 10 yrs ke liye bina bataye chali gayi thi. My Problem is Anuj ko apna Empire nahi chodna chahiye tha jo itni mehnat se usne khada kiya . I am hating Malvika character right now jo abhi tak Vanraaj ko nahi samjh rahi ki kitna ghatiya insaan hai wo.

Problem-

1)vanraaj aur mukku ki partnership

2)Potential khatra on mukku from vanraaj

Sequence of Events:

1)He wanted mukku to break partnership with vanraaj

2)She did not agree

3)She fought with him

His solution for the problem:

Give everything to mukku and leave

End result:

1)She is still vanraj's business partner

2)She still has potential threat from vanraaj

To bhai saab ye jo itna nautanki kiya janaab ne us ka faayda kya jab problem pehle bhi wahi thi aur end me bhi wahi k wahi hai😂😭😂😭😂

Is bande k khopdi me dimaag ki jagah bhi ek dil hi hai jo din raat anupama anupama bol k dharakta rehta hai 🤡

Smitha mera jeewan safal ho gaya😂😭😂😭

Tu ne laughing emoji react nhi kara finally😂😭😂