I AM DANCING!!

Yessssss, finally the trps are down (deserving-ly down) and the mass agrees that the storyline has started descending from the time the Writers decided to experiment with MUkku and thereby ANUJ!!

I am super duper happy today but i also know that the Prod House is so thick skinned that they will not be too much effected by this as they are much used to the ups and downs of this TRP game!!

However, as a quality content viewer, i am honestly glad that the audience has shown once again that STORY MATTERS!! CHARACTERS MATTER.

I might be singing the same song (almost), and even if i talk about the characters in a non-judgemental way - let me just take the characters as they have been portrayed - I have few questions. Consider them as rhetorical as we know that we are not going to get answers from the PH or from the SHOW.

1. Who is his sane mind leaves his sister? There is a difference between giving space and leaving. Right? Anuj leaving the business to his sister - chalo agreed, he did this as he might have thought that I am unable to get through her thick brain..but leaving the house too?? Is this not abandoning your sister who is a depression patient, who takes MEDS, and who also apparently goes for Consultations??? Which Brother will do this??? And what do we name this -- sacrifice!!!!!!!!!!! My foot!! This is not sacrifice, this is just a means to running away from a problem or a situation as you dont know how to deal with it!! If we do this in reality, let me tell you that a country will have many more mental hospitals!! So writers, what were you advocating here by making a BROTHER ABANDON HIS SISTER?? I have no justification for this act of his, none. Do you??

2. A man is defined or shaped or respected for various aspects. - a son, a brother, a lover, a husband, a friend, a motivator, a game changer. Anuj only and only got flying colors as a friend and a lover. Where is that son who promised always to take care of family??? Where is that brother for whom his sister was the most imp person?? Where is that responsible businessman to had promised or rather shown hope to middle class women by giving them Jobs?? Where is that motivator who had stood and paved way for so many women??? All these shades went down the drain and only the LOVER remained and you guys thought that will bring him all the respect???? THINK AGAIN PLS.

3. I completely understand the 26 years wait, but was that choice not Anuj's??? Then why this sympathy and empathy that OMG he waited for 26 years and now he should get his due???? The story itself got so screwed that this man lost all his substance and that wait of his hyped and hyped and hyped!!! If a man does not have a substance, even if gets the most precious thing, it will seem as if - ok well he got it, big deal!! The confession frankly did not even raise an ounce of connect for me. Looks like it did not for many.

4. For a woman who has never ever got respect, this is utmost for her. The urge to stand on her feet and earn that respect becomes the most imp goal. Along with this comes - getting back the confidence, fighting her ground, learning new things even in small pockets, facing the world in diff ways, and finally understanding that she is worth it and she deserves every bit of praise, love, respect. AND what do you guys show???? - same preaching, same tangling with the ex-family, same thought process of forgiving and forgetting and then again getting hurt (even in a small way). This is not progression, writers!!!! You guys then have not understood the mental state of a women who has lost her self worth and what all she needs to do to get it back. And she is getting into marriage, i mean WOW. Two people are shown to spread the message that JUST LOVE is enough!! Amazing and i wish this worked in reality too!!!

5. Last but not the least, you completely mocked a very serious issue - depression!! I will not get into this as it is very sensitive. This was the biggest blinder and sadly you cannot absolve this!!

Originally posted by: RainFire125

Yessssss, finally the trps are down (deserving-ly down) and the mass agrees that the storyline has started descending from the time the Writers decided to experiment with MUkku and thereby ANUJ!!

I am super duper happy today but i also know that the Prod House is so thick skinned that they will not be too much effected by this as they are much used to the ups and downs of this TRP game!!

However, as a quality content viewer, i am honestly glad that the audience has shown once again that STORY MATTERS!! CHARACTERS MATTER.

I might be singing the same song (almost), and even if i talk about the characters in a non-judgemental way - let me just take the characters as they have been portrayed - I have few questions. Consider them as rhetorical as we know that we are not going to get answers from the PH or from the SHOW.

1. Who is his sane mind leaves his sister? There is a difference between giving space and leaving. Right? Anuj leaving the business to his sister - chalo agreed, he did this as he might have thought that I am unable to get through her thick brain..but leaving the house too?? Is this not abandoning your sister who is a depression patient, who takes MEDS, and who also apparently goes for Consultations??? Which Brother will do this??? And what do we name this -- sacrifice!!!!!!!!!!! My foot!! This is not sacrifice, this is just a means to running away from a problem or a situation as you dont know how to deal with it!! If we do this in reality, let me tell you that a country will have many more mental hospitals!! So writers, what were you advocating here by making a BROTHER ABANDON HIS SISTER?? I have no justification for this act of his, none. Do you??

2. A man is defined or shaped or respected for various aspects. - a son, a brother, a lover, a husband, a friend, a motivator, a game changer. Anuj only and only got flying colors as a friend and a lover. Where is that son who promised always to take care of family??? Where is that brother for whom his sister was the most imp person?? Where is that responsible businessman to had promised or rather shown hope to middle class women by giving them Jobs?? Where is that motivator who had stood and paved way for so many women??? All these shades went down the drain and only the LOVER remained and you guys thought that will bring him all the respect???? THINK AGAIN PLS.

3. I completely understand the 26 years wait, but was that choice not Anuj's??? Then why this sympathy and empathy that OMG he waited for 26 years and now he should get his due???? The story itself got so screwed that this man lost all his substance and that wait of his hyped and hyped and hyped!!! If a man does not have a substance, even if gets the most precious thing, it will seem as if - ok well he got it, big deal!! The confession frankly did not even raise an ounce of connect for me. Looks like it did not for many.

4. For a woman who has never ever got respect, this is utmost for her. The urge to stand on her feet and earn that respect becomes the most imp goal. Along with this comes - getting back the confidence, fighting her ground, learning new things even in small pockets, facing the world in diff ways, and finally understanding that she is worth it and she deserves every bit of praise, love, respect. AND what do you guys show???? - same preaching, same tangling with the ex-family, same thought process of forgiving and forgetting and then again getting hurt (even in a small way). This is not progression, writers!!!! You guys then have not understood the mental state of a women who has lost her self worth and what all she needs to do to get it back. And she is getting into marriage, i mean WOW. Two people are shown to spread the message that JUST LOVE is enough!! Amazing and i wish this worked in reality too!!!

5. Last but not the least, you completely mocked a very serious issue - depression!! I will not get into this as it is very sensitive. This was the biggest blinder and sadly you cannot absolve this!!

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So well said G..

Glad to see you back. You are right on every point and also that PH is thick skinned.

There is a saying "everyone should love once in their life because love makes you a better person".

In case of Anuj, getting his love had the exact opposite effect. No point in saying much, they won't learn they are bend on ruining further by this rushed marriage.

Regardless of the trps, confession, valentine's fluff, I cannot deny that depression, DV, was very poorly implemented. Sudden introduction and vanishing of chars overnight is silly at its best!.

Happy to see your post dear! 🤗

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

Regardless of the trps, confession, valentine's fluff, I cannot deny that depression, DV, was very poorly implemented. Sudden introduction and vanishing of chars overnight is silly at its best!.

Happy to see your post dear! 🤗

you never abandon people who suffer from depression yaar! They are so sensitive. Whatever they may do, however they may behave, they need that emotional support or else they will end up in a hospital. I mean what the f*** are these writers thinking??? Making a brother leaving his sister!!

Hi G,

Came to forum after long time. Good to see your post.

Can understand your frustration. All i can say is that I am disappointed with the way they played with their best creation The Anuj Kapadiya. I lost connect with the show completely and just watching bits and pieces that too for this guy.

I agree with you on most of points except the first one. From my POV, it's needed and he did not abandon her, he left her under the care of GK. All this while she took him for granted and now she is not in a state to listen and more over his presence and words will only trigger her towards more unreasonable behaviour.

I didn't like his property transfer decision. They want to make some one bada aadmi and Anu mahaan by making her prapose to Anuj who is roadpati. So overnight they brought Anuj Kapadiya to the road, it's so silly to see, logic dies slow death.

I was not able to connect with Anu's confession. Only his praposal today moved me that's it. Not at all interested in their marriage at this present moment. If they go ahead with the marriage track with out cleaning the current mess then it will be a great disaster for them because they will kill the Maan magic with their own hands.

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Hi G,

Came to forum after long time. Good to see your post.

Can understand your frustration. All i can say is that I am disappointed with the way they played with their best creation The Anuj Kapadiya. I lost connect with the show completely and just watching bits and pieces that too for this guy.

I agree with you on most of points except the first one. From my POV, it's needed and he did not abandon her, he left her under the care of GK. All this while she took him for granted and now she is not in a state to listen and more over his presence and words will only trigger her towards more unreasonable behaviour.

I didn't like his property transfer decision. They want to make some one bada aadmi and Anu mahaan by making her prapose to Anuj who is roadpati. So overnight they brought Anuj Kapadiya to the road, it's so silly to see, logic dies slow death.

I was not able to connect with Anu's confession. Only his praposal today moved me that's it. Not at all interested in their marriage at this present moment. If they go ahead with the marriage track with out cleaning the current mess then it will be a great disaster for them because they will kill the Maan magic with their own hands.

GK is an old man, how can we expect him to handle a roller coaster that is Mukku??? Infact i can even thiink a property transfer situation, accept it even, but leaving that house and those two people alone - this i cant forget nor accept!!

Originally posted by: RainFire125

GK is an old man, how can we expect him to handle a roller coaster that is Mukku??? Infact i can even thiink a property transfer situation, accept it even, but leaving that house and those two people alone - this i cant forget nor accept!!

Honestly speaking, till now I am not able to understand M's character sketch. Leave about her DV, depression etc., I am not able to understand whether she loves Anuj or hate him. They messed up big time that's all I can say.

The last episode which i was able to enjoy and connect was their mutual byes before going to M's & V's party. That's it, After that nothing made sense to me. I lost connect with the show so bid farewell. ❤️

Sorry for the double post. ❤️

Ufffffg, Merai dil ki baat Kah di.

These are the reason I completely lost my connection with the show and somewhat from Anuj too.

both anupama and anuj were witnessed to how vanraj manipulated malvika like it happened before their eyes and still anuj decided to walk away leaving her with vanraj, the guy who literally destroyed life of the woman he loved for 26 years, kuan karta hai Aisa. Disastrous move by the writers.

They make anuj say dialogues like he can’t leave both anu and mukku and can’t chose btw them but the way whole story is progressing it do feel like anuj has chosen one over the other, which I completely find out of character for a guy like anuj.

Anuj feels Bec of him three times her sister life was destroyed and once again when another disaster knocked on their door and he could have easily tackled the disaster they decided for anuj to walk away, Aisa nahi hota.

Writers really destroyed characters and storyline and the way they have tackled some sensitive issues seriously have no word for them, plain insensitivity.