Originally posted by: arya212002
As much as I disliked yesterday that Anu dismissed Anuj’s concerns as big bro…but after rewatching the scene again, I feel priorities of Anu and Anuj were totally different in that moment.
Anuj, as mentioned was a protective brother was wary about Vanika partnership given all the facts about V. His priority was to shield Mukku.
Whereas Anu’s priority was more about healing the broken relationships between siblings. Anuj n Mukku already have a strained relationship and any further lack of attention or slightest mistrust could break it altogether forever. Had she also chimed in with Anuj about the same apprehension like a protective sister, things could have gotten more worse like adding ghee to the fire of doubt Anuj is having. Probably best way was to appease him, calm him so that things can be handled smoothly. She stated that V was not behind women…that’s it. She also said he has 100s of other demerits. Just one better thing so that Anuj could be calmed…and her focus was more on building trust with Mukku. Mukku trusting Anuj is more important than Mukku failing…because if Mukku fails Anuj can definitely handle her but if the trust is lost, relationship will be in shatters no matter what success they achieve.
Anu further reiterated the same thing with the beach incident example - trust her and let her be the hero, if she falls then Anuj can help till then keep calm n nurture the relationship.
So with this perspective, I find it their relationship more beautiful… people usually support / heal on surface level issues but it takes more deeper understanding to help/ solve further deeper unsaid issues..Anu is doing it excellently ..Isn’t it?
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