Cut Anupama some slack

I know we all love anuj and there is a little bias to him, trust me I get it cuz its the same for me. But seriously some of the takes I have read since last episode on here and twitter is making my mind boggle. People who are annoyed with Anu being hurt and are jumping to Anuj's defence like calm down. For someone who claims that he loves you and you are a very important person in their life for him to hide a whole sister and claim he has nobody left in the world is WEIRD AF and its normal for her to be like "wtf is going on" And even if we take the love angle out even as friends its so damn weird to keep saying you are all alone in the world and then wow turns out I have a sister.

Both are right in their place, he never had a chance to say it and maybe he was never obligated to cuz he doesn't think she is that bothered about his life issues and its very normal for her to be feeling the way she is. And for everyone hounding her to confess like WHYY?? that woman was cheated on for EIGHT YEARS and yes she knows anuj is nothing like that trash but obviously she will be scared and have a little trust issues and over-think the slightest thing.

Y'all want Anuj to be human and make mistakes and have some flaws but get so angered with Anu behaving like a normal woman. Isn't it great that she feels comfortable in sharing her pov with Anuj? That's massive growth from her previous relationship.

Originally posted by: HereForTheDrama

I know we all love anuj and there is a little bias to him, trust me I get it cuz its the same for me. But seriously some of the takes I have read since last episode on here and twitter is making my mind boggle. People who are annoyed with Anu being hurt and are jumping to Anuj's defence like calm down. For someone who claims that he loves you and you are a very important person in their life for him to hide a whole sister and claim he has nobody left in the world is WEIRD AF and its normal for her to be like "wtf is going on" And even if we take the love angle out even as friends its so damn weird to keep saying you are all alone in the world and then wow turns out I have a sister.

Both are right in their place, he never had a chance to say it and maybe he was never obligated to cuz he doesn't think she is that bothered about his life issues and its very normal for her to be feeling the way she is. And for everyone hounding her to confess like WHYY?? that woman was cheated on for EIGHT YEARS and yes she knows anuj is nothing like that trash but obviously she will be scared and have a little trust issues and over-think the slightest thing.

Y'all want Anuj to be human and make mistakes and have some flaws but get so angered with Anu behaving like a normal woman. Isn't it great that she feels comfortable in sharing her pov with Anuj? That's massive growth from her previous relationship.

Circumstances wise both are wright in their place. Actually Anuj wanted to tell her but Vanraaj came and after that he wants to tell her after the party but party mein sab kaand ho gaya . I am actually happy that Anu came to him and demanded answers and voiced that she was hurt its good he should be clear also that his actions now effect Anu and he should be careful in future regarding that.

Cool anuj wanted to tell her but he was feeling dizzy than that toshu came

Than vanraaj came

He never thought he will meet anupama in his sisters party no

He just delayed telling not hide fact

Even if he hide i think some big mystery is there to not say so far

I agree, some people are intense about the whole thing. I mean I was swinging between who was right etc too but I think I'm just glad that she felt hurt - and she said it instead of bottling it up. That's all that matters to me for now. Moreover, if she had more time for it to sink in (like the confession) I'm sure she would have rationalized this situation too. Some of it was shock yes, but I'm glad she's feeling and not just shoving it all down just to not hurt anyone.

It’s not just bias but the fierce defence is coming from possessiveness that many fans have for Anuj…It is a testament to Gaurav’s wonderful portrayal of Anuj👍👍

If Anu haq se daant de it’s ok, haq se chocolate milk/ kadha pilae fudge khilaye that’s ok, haq se nurse kare it’s ok, she signed consent to operate on Anuj’s behalf that’s ok, Nashe ki halat me sambhale that’s ok, but agar haq se thoda naraz ho jae to phir Anu is just not considerable….guys relax, though Anu and Anuj are same in some ways they are different too in other ways, they both are separate humans so their expression of emotion will differ too, Anuj’s love gets expression in his letting her be while Anu’s is getting expressed in her chote chote gestures of care n concern with haq, I am in fact finding it a progress as you rightly said on Anu’s part that she chose to express that she is hurt and not just live with it without searching for any answers…..blind trust has brought her trauma of her life so now she will take time, let’s just be a bit patient…

Also this defensive reaction is mostly due to the expression that Anuj gave in response to Anu’s ‘I am human too n am hurt’ which could most probably be an editing gimmick and the actual scene may play out slightly different….so let’s sit back and enjoy how the sequences unfold after all it’s all heading for MaAn union only…sooner or later