Whats wrong in being human?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I haven't read all posts been busy but I see a lot of them are pissed off at Anu coz she is empathising with Baa as shown in precap.


Arre to kya raaste pe chod degi usko? She may not really love her, like or respect her even but come on she has to be human no? Being humane towards criminals is also most expected ye to 26 years se iske saath rahi hai, literally raised by baa irrespective of how she has treated her. Also simply because buzurg hai. No? 🤔 (Atleast I come from that generation 🙄)


Just because you break ties with the person doesn't mean you let them die atleast when you are aware of the situation. Nahi pata and you don't react is different.


Anupamaa ko to waise bhi bahut humane dikhaya hai pehle se and thats not mahanta its just her nature. I guess she had nursed Kavya to health when kavya was molested and at a time when she was very much breaking her house apart. Yet she remained human primarily. Then why not now? Why is that a problem?


I am sure you have difference of opinion. I respect each one of that. This post is simply to write down what I felt. No offence meant pls 😊

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I agree 💯❤ i just want the purpose of this track to be realisation of baa and her to stop taunting and blaming and defaming anu. 🤞🤞

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: yuvanaa

I agree 💯❤ i just want the purpose of this track to be realisation of baa and her to stop taunting and blaming and defaming anu. 🤞🤞


Some lessons are learnt hard.


Coming to baa, she is as fictional as Anupamaa. I guess her character graph has hit the top with the outburst, she will mellow down. Rise and fall is needed for grey characters. Tabhi to majha ayega. I trust writers to not spoil that now.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: iamcurious

I haven't read all posts been busy but I see a lot of them are pissed off at Anu coz she is empathising with Baa as shown in precap.


Arre to kya raaste pe chod degi usko? She may not really love her, like or respect her even but come on she has to be human no? Being humane towards criminals is also most expected ye to 26 years se iske saath rahi hai, literally raised by baa irrespective of how she has treated her. Also simply because buzurg hai. No? 🤔 (Atleast I come from that generation 🙄)


Just because you break ties with the person doesn't mean you let them die atleast when you are aware of the situation. Nahi pata and you don't react is different.


Anupamaa ko to waise bhi bahut humane dikhaya hai pehle se and thats not mahanta its just her nature. I guess she had nursed Kavya to health when kavya was molested and at a time when she was very much breaking her house apart. Yet she remained human primarily. Then why not now? Why is that a problem?


I am sure you have difference of opinion. I respect each one of that. This post is simply to write down what I felt. No offence meant pls 😊


true, and this is what i have been telling in my writeups ki bhai its her nature, it cant change very soon; If something has to change she needs constant situations to relook at things differently.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I'm completely ok da with her helping baa she might even help a stranger anu is like that.

In the moment comforting also ok .

But by God if she starts ranting mere baa nere bapuji to Anuj if she rants on their helpless state also is ok

If she praises bas or v in front of anuj especially I'd rather want Anuj to go back to USA or he deserves someone better.

U can be good kind merciful graceful.

But not to be stupid delusional blind

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Yup it is anupama nature. Woh cruel nahin ho sakti kabhi nahin ho sakti. Agar sub log humantty dikhana chod denge to yeh duniya do din mein hi khatm ho jaayegi

Humanty love ke basse pe hi duniya chal rahi hai not because of hatred and revenge

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Vanraj is disgusting for chucking out baa. Two wrongs dont make a right. And Anu cannot leave baa on the road too, i agree. I'd say everyone agrees. What I dread the most is what's to follow- her getting embroiled in shah drama as she helps baa-bapuji patch up. Patch up ho jae toh its fine and all but i don't think leela's character has a redemption arc. She will essentially go back to raja beta and nayi bahu jaap despite their trashy behaviour and will once again trash the ex-bahu for being the cause jiske kaaran this mess happened. I don't want to see anu's kindness get trampled over and over.

Its like she goes out of her way for everyone but in the end is blamed with the shit. And she doesn't even show tiniest bit of resentment. That is irksome on so many levels.

The point of this track is moot, if leela doesn't mend her ways.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Being human is not a problem but those who treated you as tissues don't respect you don't understand you and give you same treatment again and again then it becomes habit . Baa keeps blaming Anupama for each and every thing and then again expect her only to sort she should show what she did with them still will try but no she is there hugging her useless baa who only knows to blame everything on Anupama . There is a difference being good being used Anupama is being used because of her good and mahan nature and she didn't realise also . Frankly people who have went through such mental torture from there husband and inlaws they can't see there faces also but shayed Anupama ko mental torture ks matlab hi na pata tabhi uske liye aaj bhi v ache pita aur beta hain

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Posted: 3 years ago
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She didn't praise V as a good husband. He has been a good son and father thats not debatable (per her...meine nahi dekha pehle so dont know 🤣).

And Anuj knows Anupamaa can be independent but she will always remain connected to V and this family coz children. Wo agar ye expect kare (in future when they get together) ki Anu never speaks to or thinks of V then that is not possible.


In life everything cannot be in black or white. Some things remain grey and its impractical to expect it otherwise. Anu ke bache and unka baap are to stay in her life no matter what. Anuj has to accept that if he wants Anupamaa in life. And infact support her through it like a gentleman when need be. Complicated Pyaar kiya hai to nibhaya aise hi jata hai 🤭

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Posted: 3 years ago
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See thats what they are showing. Anupama ka nature hi wahi hai. Some people are like that. They will never wish ill for others no matter what.


And Anu bhi in logo jaisa behave karne lagegi to usmein and in sabmein difference kya reh jayega. Anu is a giver by nature. Simple.


I have seen people in real life with the same story up close and personal. And no you can't just let it be. No matter how ugly it looks you have to live with it.

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