Leela - Mirror of Society, A Parasite of the worst kind!! - Page 2

Yes exactly! And another thing I remembered while reading your reply is - growth and healing are NOT linear. Some days you have upset and someday you have downs. These ups and downs are not the situations but how you react to them. Anu first getting angry at Anujs confession makes sense - that would be her default response. But if while thinking clearly, she would still have been angry then it would be going backwards. She considered everyhting and dealt with everything very rationally and true to her self. I hope they continue to highlight this approach of hers since her goodness is her biggest strength (and also her weakness at times)

I feel like we as a group can get frustrated with her - but I'm sure with time we can see how she started growing and healing

Originally posted by: cherry1111

Yes exactly! And another thing I remembered while reading your reply is - growth and healing are NOT linear. Some days you have upset and someday you have downs. These ups and downs are not the situations but how you react to them. Anu first getting angry at Anujs confession makes sense - that would be her default response. But if while thinking clearly, she would still have been angry then it would be going backwards. She considered everyhting and dealt with everything very rationally and true to her self. I hope they continue to highlight this approach of hers since her goodness is her biggest strength (and also her weakness at times)

I feel like we as a group can get frustrated with her - but I'm sure with time we can see how she started growing and healing

goodness is frustrating at times yaar, but its all perspective. The situation demands diff thinking and we have to see how is she behaving in each situations. Right said, her first response as anger and how could he do this is very valid. But the best part is she listened to Samar and then she processed. This is growth for her. And her reactions was very well shown. We will respect her more now. Even today i respected her a lot when she was stopping Leela again and again and when she looked at Anuj with utmost respect and admiration. This is growth that she is unwilling to let him go even though she does not love him yet.

Originally posted by: -FreeLancer-

I really liked how Anuj replied to Baa - Baa knows she wont have anything further to say to Anuj..so she diverted all her anger and horrible hurtful words towards Bapuji..to insult Bapuji like this in front of the whole family was possibly the lowest of lows. I really hope Vanraj and Baa stay in hell and Kavya can give them company and the three of them just live in misery forever!

You forgot to mention toshu.. these 4 deserve each other.

Yaar you are right. Leela is that face of society which we call is backward in terms of their thinking, they could be rich or poor.

Well I don't want to say much for this lady as she has crossed all the damm line. Ek time tha jab I felt blood near my ears😆

See fighting between husband and wife is common and we all see that happening. But making it public is something I never liked. Even if you are newly wed or like Baa and Bapuji age.

See when Baa can make Anu sign papers in the mid of road then she can do what she did today but precap is scary. She has gone nuts now in rahe against Anu.

Are aap bol rahi hai ki Anu jaisi Bahu laake dedi, nahi lati to Anu ki life me kitni khushiyan hoti that no one think. And she is saying ki Anu ne khushiyan cheen li. Anu ki khushiyon ko fire laga ke yaha ye dhum ta na na kar rahi hai. Wo to Anu ke ache kaam they jo Anuj returned to her life as a blessing.

Thank you for the tag Rain

It will be a slow process and it’s necessary. At the same time we understand that Anupama is not the kinds to stoop to that level. Because if she did stoop that low or change drastically then there is no difference between her and Baa and also her inherent character/personality would change.

But. I ask for one thing. One. Anu needs to answer Baa without crying. Politely and elegantly but no crying. She can learn that from Anuj.

we have a long way to go. I’m ready for it. But a good role model approach like learning from Devika and Anuj - working - living your best life and understanding that some people cannot be won over and THAT IS OK approach will do well on ITV.

we need to move away from the approach that everyone should love us. Some people just don’t. But we have to be ok with that and not waste energy changing their minds unless we have done something wrong. ITV needs to stop romanticising sacrifice and everyone loving you mahanta

P. S : I try to keep it short but cannot! So much to say

Originally posted by: tintin0602

Yaar you are right. Leela is that face of society which we call is backward in terms of their thinking, they could be rich or poor.

Well I don't want to say much for this lady as she has crossed all the damm line. Ek time tha jab I felt blood near my ears😆

See fighting between husband and wife is common and we all see that happening. But making it public is something I never liked. Even if you are newly wed or like Baa and Bapuji age.

See when Baa can make Anu sign papers in the mid of road then she can do what she did today but precap is scary. She has gone nuts now in rahe against Anu.

Are aap bol rahi hai ki Anu jaisi Bahu laake dedi, nahi lati to Anu ki life me kitni khushiyan hoti that no one think. And she is saying ki Anu ne khushiyan cheen li. Anu ki khushiyon ko fire laga ke yaha ye dhum ta na na kar rahi hai. Wo to Anu ke ache kaam they jo Anuj returned to her life as a blessing.

Thank you for the tag Rain

true she is not redeemable now for me... nothing can redeem her

Originally posted by: bob-bob

It will be a slow process and it’s necessary. At the same time we understand that Anupama is not the kinds to stoop to that level. Because if she did stoop that low or change drastically then there is no difference between her and Baa and also her inherent character/personality would change.

But. I ask for one thing. One. Anu needs to answer Baa without crying. Politely and elegantly but no crying. She can learn that from Anuj.

we have a long way to go. I’m ready for it. But a good role model approach like learning from Devika and Anuj - working - living your best life and understanding that some people cannot be won over and THAT IS OK approach will do well on ITV.

we need to move away from the approach that everyone should love us. Some people just don’t. But we have to be ok with that and not waste energy changing their minds unless we have done something wrong. ITV needs to stop romanticising sacrifice and everyone loving you mahanta

P. S : I try to keep it short but cannot! So much to say

BOLD - 100%

One day she will. She will be factual without any emotions as she will detach herself from that woman. we just have to wait and watch.

Originally posted by: RainFire125

Bhai sahab this Leela surpassed all lines today!! I dont wish to call her BAA anymore as that will be an insult to a relation. She is a true mirror of society and of the worst kind!! Today she burst on all, she will again find excuses to burst. She has to be cut off totally so that positive people's lives can be saved from this torture. There are numerous people in our so called Society who make and break rules as per their convenience, there are some people who add oil to the already lit fire as that gives them a high, there are people who can never ever accept failure of any kind and this is how they react. They will blame others conveniently and always will keep on blaming until Karma or Kanji slaps them with the hardest blow and that blow for Leela is either Van or Kavya. So either of these two have to give her a taste of her own medicine!

Its good she spewed all that is inside her as Anu got to hear and see the real person. This has to be an eye opener that a person at times have to be given back at that instance, on the spot. Many a times elders are also wrong as they cant see it from a right perspective and this is why its said that if elders communicate regularly, become friends with their kids early on - the respect both ways stay.

Now coming to the best part - Anuj Kapadia, you are telling society how a person, an individual should behave, what his principles are at every point, in every moment, in every phase of life. I will agree that I was 2% in doubt as he is extremely emotional when it comes to his Anu. But boy, today he had the control too! Even though he was showing aggressiveness, he did have that apt control and he took the step just to shut Leela. I am proud and just like GK said - that's our boy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And Anu had the atmost respect for him in her gaze and these things will make her fall for him. In every step it matters a lot how one behaves, how one reacts, how one stands beside, how one supports -- all the future happenstances and nuances of MaAn are going to be in their favor to become a couple!!

Makers -- excellent dialog to Anuj!! Kudos --- am overwhelmed.❤️❤️

Opportunists like Leela may never change till life gives them a shattering blow. When the so called house built on sweat and blood is lost she will land on her face and then realise things can never be mended.

One respects or venerates another not for the strands of grey or the fact they were born decades ahead.

The reason Anuj becomes worthy of adulation is because of the dignity and decorum he maintains at all times. He told the shah's there should be dignity in hatred too.

Decibel level and expletives need not be used to reiterate your point of view as the idiots think.

Now coming to the best part - Anuj Kapadia, you are telling society how a person, an individual should behave, what his principles are at every point, in every moment, in every phase of life. I will agree that I was 2% in doubt as he is extremely emotional when it comes to his Anu. But boy, today he had the control too! Even though he was showing aggressiveness, he did have that apt control and he took the step just to shut Leela. I am proud and just like GK said - that's our boy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And Anu had the atmost respect for him in her gaze and these things will make her fall for him. In every step it matters a lot how one behaves, how one reacts, how one stands beside, how one supports -- all the future happenstances and nuances of MaAn are going to be in their favor to become a couple!!

Makers -- excellent dialog to Anuj!! Kudos --- am overwhelmed.

Yes the guy comes as a whiff of fresh air. Very respectful measured but precise in his responses. Ladla does not like Anuj becoming Hero in the eyes of his children. Anuj is dignified and it is no wonder that one cannot help falling in love with Anuj.

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Opportunists like Leela may never change till life gives them a shattering blow. When the so called house built on sweat and blood is lost she will land on her face and then realise things can never be mended.

One respects or venerates another not for the strands of grey or the fact they were born decades ahead.

The reason Anuj becomes worthy of adulation is because of the dignity and decorum he maintains at all times. He told the shah's there should be dignity in hatred too.

Decibel level and expletives need not be used to reiterate your point of view as the idiots think.

BOLD - and this is what people never understand!!