Originally posted by: moonwearer
I will respond in two parts.
A daughter can speak her mind to her mother. But it is only to a mother in law like Anupama can daughters in law open their mind. Leela is old school. Anupama has decided to rescript the mother in law definition.
Anupama has become so immune to the torture that she doesn't even see she is hurting or realise what is hurting.
Remember Bapuji telling her about the kitchen scars and how in time women get so used to it and hardly notice it.... Anupama has chosen not to mind Baa Baghwans words so she fails to see her meanness to her as avoidable. She must understand what needs to be endured and what not.