Hypocrisy or Delusion?

I can't decide which of the two Anupama suffers with.

On one hand she can't hear a word against Baa, who has nothing but belittled her actions and her entire being if I'm honest...how can Anupama be so delusional and not see what Baa is doing to her?...her undying love and respect for Baa is just baffling...why does Anupama think she owes Baa anything when all Baa has done is taunt, curse and trash her all her life when she was the bahu and now when she isn't.

Anu's latest bhashan on how a saas should treat her bahu is so hypocritical to say the least. She gives gyaan to the neighbour kaaki on how not to treat her bahu while she stands there being treated the same?

What do the makers want us to think? think they can get away with dishing out rubbish in the name of gender equality? Anu says she's been questioned because she's a woman while Vanraj got away with everything cause he is a man...and we're supposed to applaud her for her speech? hell no!

I like Anupama as a person but her beliefs cheese me off...I really thought I would enjoy her sticking up for Anuj but the reasons she did have left a bad taste...Anu you've disappointed me!

If anyone needs redeeming now, its Anupama...sorry if I've burst the bubble

https://youtu.be/NOxw1jOtSTA

check 4.35 onwards

It can be delusion or denial mood of anupama means with rigid mentality that elder is always right like i heard many time ki boss is always right

Bade jo khuch kehte hain woh bhale ke liye bolte hai yahi baat shayad anupama ke dimaag mein ghar karke rakh liya hai

But i feel. Ab shaayad yeh anupama rigid mentality se baahar aa rahi hai ki elder/ boss is always right aur bade jo daante hai tokte hai woh bhale hi tokte ya scold karte hai ya phir bade jyaada experience hote hain unhe zindagi ka jyaada anubhav hota hai

Hey hinz, I didn't quite get what you meant. Is this about Anu dispecting pados ki kaki?

Originally posted by: hinz

I can't decide which of the two Anupama is.

On one hand she can't hear a word against Baa, who has nothing but belittled her actions and her entire being if I'm honest...how can she be so delusional and not see what Baa is doing to her?...her undying love for Baa is just mind-boggling...why does Anupama think she owes Baa anything when all Baa has done is taunt, curse and trash her all her life when she was the bahu and now when she isn't.

Anu's latest bhashan on how a saas should treat her bahu is so hypocritical to say the least. She gives gyaan to the neighbour kaaki on how not to treat her bahu while she stands there being treated the same?

What do the makers want us to think? think they can get away with dishing out rubbish in the name of gender equality? Anu says she's been questioned because she's a woman while Vanraj got away with everything cause he is a man...and we're supposed to applaud her for her speech? hell no!

I like Anupama as a person but her beliefs cheese me off...I really thought I would enjoy her sticking up for Anuj but the reasons she did have left a bad taste...Anu you've disappointed me!

If anyone needs redeeming now, its Anupama...sorry if I've burst the bubble

Sorry but this segment has made me so happy and i dont want to comment on delusions now. Anupama ne itna kuch kaha wo bhi poori colony ke samne kya wo kam hai i don't think soItna sab kuch kehne ke liye guts chahiye jo aaj Anu ne dikhaya. This segment has made me happy not disappointed😛

Originally posted by: nish_vir

Hey hinz, I didn't quite get what you meant. Is this about Anu dispecting pados ki kaki?

yeah,,, in that video Anu is lecturing some neighbour kaki who tells Anu not to set a bad example for her bahu. She tells off the kaki saying its you who should learn how to treat your bahu and not treat her like a doormat when Anu has been treated the same by Baa all her life?...the speech was super cringe and reeked of hypocrisy tbh

Anupama ne jo bhi Vanya ko lekar kaha usme galat kya hai sahi to kaha jab Kavya aati thi to poori colony ko koi problem nahi thi . And the way Baa is talking to Anuj i feel like smacking her face right now😡

I love Anupama speech in this segment, She said wo apni insult seh legi par ab Anuj ke khilaf ek word nahi sunegi U go girl👏She said wo kabhi bhi aaye der raat chodne aaye please note this der raat chodne aaye in front of whole colony even Devika is shocked to see this fierce Anu🤗

And in the end she takes selfie with Anuj that is something😈

Originally posted by: hinz

yeah,,, in that video Anu is lecturing some neighbour kaki who tells Anu not to set a bad example for her bahu. She tells off the kaki saying its you who should learn how to treat your bahu and not treat her like a doormat when Anu has been treated the same by Baa all her life?...the speech was super cringe and reeked of hypocrisy tbh

Ah so that's what you are talking about. That may be hypocrisy but usually it is easier to answer those who are not related to you. Anu could say everything to kaki because anu doesn't really care about society, but her fam only. And inspite of that, her speaking against baa is a big step. And also as far as i think, anu doesn't think she and kaki's bahu are on the same level. She has moved forward by leaps and bounds compared to what she once was and what she suspects kaki's bahu still is. And anu most probably does not in the slightest think that baa's behaviour towards her is sooo worse that it cant be tolerated. She probably thinks that minus the anuj scenario, baa had always loved her (she suppported her against kavya once upon a time).

Baki, i loved the segment personally.

Some times the story line samaj mein hi nahi ATI its shown anuj is a smart businessman but even before anupama thing he tried to involve kavya in the woman empowerment project like I thought is this guy even for real!! Does a great buisness tycoon recruits such crappy person in project like this !! C'mon just give me a break that's why I have stopped concentrating on this show for my mental health kitni toxicity or dumbness hai is show mein that I can literally 5 to 10 pages on it. What the hell even markers trying to show AJ stand lene ke bad e fhir see ghar jaakar surry bolegi baa ko if she taunts and then again baa baa black sheep 🐷🤢 Sorry if I'm ranting a lot but this is my frustration regarding this serial.

Originally posted by: magicalM

Sorry but this segment has made me so happy and i dont want to comment on delusions now. Anupama ne itna kuch kaha wo bhi poori colony ke samne kya wo kam hai i don't think soItna sab kuch kehne ke liye guts chahiye jo aaj Anu ne dikhaya. This segment has made me happy not disappointed😛

well we can agree to disagree...not questioning Anu's guts here. I will appreciate Anu for speaking in front of the whole mohalla about why the society is questioning her relationship with Anuj and turned a blind eye when Vanraj got kavya to all the community celebrations, well done for that and I also liked how she stood up to Baa for Anuj but thats it...what she said next ticked me off quite a bit.

Anupama is both delusional and a hypocrite 🤔 What was so bad in what Devika said that she kept saying baa me barein mein nahi? Devika is absolutely right. Baa has serious issues.

Who in the right mind chases away people from celebration?😈 Not one person spoke up assist Baa's batameezi? Bunch of thankless morons these shah family is!! 💔

If the garba was only for colony residents, then why didn't she ask Devika to leave?

If she had told Devika, she would have given her a fitting reply surely.