Anupama needs to wake up already

I think its total BS how entitled that shah family are.... especially that khusat buddhi baa and her creepy golden boy. Her son can do whatever he wants no matter how old he is, but this buddhi baa thinks that she has a right to hold her ex-bahu back from trying to move on in life and make an independent life for herself outside a family that are neither her in-laws or her maternal family.

Anupama needs to get a job so that she can afford to live separately on rent. Let the actual bahus of shah family, i.e., buddhi baa and her witch bahu (I'm new to this show but I believe baa's actual daughter lives there too with them too?). With these 3 women in the house, anupama is not required to be the only woman upon whom they can rely to get household chores done.

The moment anupama realises this baa and babuji are using her as muft-ki-naukrani and don't actually have her interest in heart, she will realise she's not obliged to look after that family and only should be concerned with her own life and her children. She will then hopefully have sense to pack her bags and leave.

Hypocrisy ki hadh hota hai .

Baa and Vanraj should be slapped with AnuAnuj love affair and marriage right in front of their eyes ..

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

Hypocrisy ki hadh hota hai .

Baa and Vanraj should be slapped with AnuAnuj love affair and marriage right in front of their eyes ..

Baa and Vanraj are too ungrateful to accept that anupama's existence in their life has always been needed to make sure their life runs smoothly and easily, that's why they use such tactics to hold her back in their lives so they can ensure that vanraj's remarriage doesn't disturb the smooth running of the household that anupama's presence has always maintained. 🤢

Just a question? How old is kavya? Is she much younger than anupama and vanraj?

Kavya has to be around 30ish. I can’t quite remember now. It was mentioned and VanYa affair been going on for 8 yrs or so

Originally posted by: Lennie

Kavya has to be around 30ish. I can’t quite remember now. It was mentioned and VanYa affair been going on for 8 yrs or so

I thought she would be same age as vanraj or at least 5 years younger.

anuj is going to put some sense in her i guess its not easy for a victim of constant abuse to move on so easily anuraj s divorce was just not divorce it included cheating mental abuse for past 26 years so i think part of anupamaa is still attached to shah family her abusers a part of her still thinks she deserved it divorce was just the start of this long journey of healing breaking free from her abusers

Originally posted by: Krishnapanchali

anuj is going to put some sense in her i guess its not easy for a victim of constant abuse to move on so easily anuraj s divorce was just not divorce it included cheating mental abuse for past 26 years so i think part of anupamaa is still attached to shah family her abusers a part of her still thinks she deserved it divorce was just the start of this long journey of healing breaking free from her abusers

I really hope sense prevails in at least babuji going down the line that it is injustice for his family to hold anupama back from rebuilding herself a new life with a new man when his son has been given the freedom to do so even after cheating on anupama and betraying the family.

Ur so right in fact her divorcing her husband make no sense because she was first in his control was living for him & now in her in-laws control & living for them it's clear tht she is kept in tht house for their selfish motive. Hope she move on with her children soon but tht also with Samar only bcos baki ke do bache toh uske baap par Gaye Hain selfish change colour like chamelon.

Originally posted by: mayavi_26

Ur so right in fact her divorcing her husband make no sense because she was first in his control was living for him & now in her in-laws control & living for them it's clear tht she is kept in tht house for their selfish motive. Hope she move on with her children soon but tht also with Samar only bcos baki ke do bache toh uske baap par Gaye Hain selfish change colour like chamelon.

Yeah besides samar her other children are unbearable to me. They care a damn for their mother and only really care about themselves or their dad.

I think for baa, anupama is like her comfort zone. Even if tomorrow, Anu stop working in kitchen, baa will still want Anu around. Same goes for anu. Good or bad whatever kind of experiences, anu had in Shah family has made her comfortable to such an extent that she doesn't realises that she has limited herself and has to explore the world.

Also, baa by default opposes anything which is against her old thinking...vanraj-anu divorce, Vanya marriage and now anu's remarriage.