Anupama needs makeover - Page 4

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I blame only anupama for her majduriwala life.

Divorce ke pehle samaj aata tha but after divorce bhi isko toh ussi ghar mai rehna hai , usi vanraj ko sath mai kam karne ka offer dena hai, usi vanraj ke cafe ke pamphlets baatne hai , usi vanraj se dosti karna hai , usi vanraj ke cafe ke liye burger banana hai toh who is responsible here?! Of course anupama herself! 🤢

Kisne bola tha anupama ko 4 baje ka alarm laga kar majduri karne ka that too after divorce?! Kon si ex-wife pagal jaise 4 baje uthti hai ex in-laws ki seva karne ke liye?! Uthaye sab apna apna responsibility! No one is bedridden!🤢

Kisne bola tha anupama ko Kavya ke sath khushi khushi rehne ka zindgi mere ghar aana song par day dreaming karne ka?! 🤢

Anupama khud ko lagta hai that she is majdur and only deserves majduri isiliye koi kuch nahi kar sakta jab tak anupama ka bhut ma utre!🤢

Bina ice cream ke swaad ke ice cream ko jaise koi nahi appreciate kar sakte ussi tarah without experience a life filled with love respect growth u will not know it's value...jab uss majdoori ki zindagi ki adat dali hai jisse pyaar ke jhoote kambal se lapeta ho toh ussi life ki kadar hogi na....is there anyone around to show her different path?NO..no one is there in her life...sab matlabi hai uski life mein...so will they want her to grow at the cost of their comfort ...again NO..only devika talked sense but woh bhi itne dino se gayab thi

Aur rahi baat woh kavya n mere ghar ana sequence was completely out of place from the show n puke worthy

IMHO - it is not only styling/look, it is character writing/sketch & direction too.

she deliberately acts (it is not coming out natural) as an totally illiterate maid...she has been in high school ... she is not that...illiterate....

copies sridevi (from english -vinglish) ...too much.

She should stop those hand gestures....

My Grand Mom is 10th fail (old SSC, I believe 11th std), she uses some of the English words with confidence , knows our trends/styles/preferences .....she changes herself per time.... takes no nonsense... never been that abala naari type... illiterate doormat.

Originally posted by: sushups

I somewhat agree to what u are saying but there is also one thih we need to understand when one person has been tortured mentally n emotionally for so many years that person will not try to disappoint one person who they thing has some sort affection for her ...warna tum hi batao divorce ke baad rehna toh durr ki baat hai which wife will stay with the husband after seeing him on her wedding bed with other woman and keep quiet...koi aur hota toh bol deti but yeh ussi Bapuji ki wajah se chup rahi aur ussi Bapuji ki wajah se ghar se nahi gayi....woh kehte hai one thing leads to another yaha bhi yahi hua ...mohh aise case mein nahi chut-ta hai .I m not saying anu is not to be blamed but uski galti zyada nahi hai....from teenage she lost one person who loved her the most n gave her wings ,her father.n when she married her wings were chopped off n she was trapped in that house for 26 years n she never stepped out of that home...just imagine being in a home for so many years ,humara toh 2 saal ke on n off lockdown ne mental health pe kya naach nachaya hai.jab ek insaan kabhi bahar gaya nahi log se mila nahi so how is it possible to grow amidst of the tana n demeaning words of the family members .

Bina ice cream ke swaad ke ice cream ko jaise koi nahi appreciate kar sakte ussi tarah without experience a life filled with love respect growth u will not know it's value...jab uss majdoori ki zindagi ki adat dali hai jisse pyaar ke jhoote kambal se lapeta ho toh ussi life ki kadar hogi na....is there anyone around to show her different path?NO..no one is there in her life...sab matlabi hai uski life mein...so will they want her to grow at the cost of their comfort ...again NO..only devika talked sense but woh bhi itne dino se gayab thi

Aur rahi baat woh kavya n mere ghar ana sequence was completely out of place from the show n puke worthy

Agar sahi mai usko majduriwala life se bahar nikalne ka dimag he nahi hota toh woh itna firm reh kar divorce le he nahi saki hoti!

In her case , just to glorify her character, writer crossed all the limits and made her doormat again.

Why is it like lead should be spineless? Why is it like lead should be brainless? Why is it like lead should not have have self worth?!

Originally posted by: A4Anjie

IMHO - it is not only styling/look, it is character writing/sketch & direction too.

she deliberately acts (it is not coming out natural) as an totally illiterate maid...she has been in high school ... she is not that...illiterate....

copies sridevi (from english -vinglish) ...too much.

She should stop those hand gestures....

My Grand Mom is 10th fail (old SSC, I believe 11th std), she uses some of the English words with confidence , knows our trends/styles/preferences .....she changes herself per time.... takes no nonsense... never been that abala naari type... illiterate doormat.

Omg ! Exactly! She copies Sridevi from English vinglish much. I felt it so many time that why she is copying Sridevi so hard?!

Her hand gestures are irritating to the core 😡

Who can believe that she has studied till 12 standard ?! I mean school mai 12 standard tak thik se “sorry” bolna bhi nahi sikhate aise school bhi hote hai?!

Who can believe she has friend circle like Devika and Anuj since she herself has portrayed that she is from the background where people can’t speak very basic word “Sorry” properly!

All these years she behaved like “illiterate maid” in front of her own children and always did soori soori nautanki so it’s definitely tough to digest that she has studied till 12th standard.

Yes I'm also finding Rupali acting too much these days...I HATE it when she starts doing her stupid sorri drama...irritating to the core

Initially her acting was natural but for some reason they have made Anu bhashan queen & hand dancer. She even acts like a 50 plus year old regardless of her styling

Now we wait for Kinjal to be aged 10 years as well...that's all SP seems to know..make FL into behen ji or Aunties

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Yes I'm also finding Rupali acting too much these days...I HATE it when she starts doing her stupid sorri drama...irritating to the core

Initially her acting was natural but for some reason they have made Anu bhashan queen & hand dancer. She even acts like a 50 plus year old regardless of her styling

Now we wait for Kinjal to be aged 10 years as well...that's all SP seems to know..make FL into behen ji or Aunties

Rupali is copying facial expression of Sridevi from English vinglish but she is unable to match up with Sridevi’s facial expressions then why to copy?!

Better she act naturally in place of copying Sridevi’s gestures!

Exactly, Rupali can pull off any look. But they are just stuck with that flashy heavy saree and makeup look. If they don't want to go all morden just give her simple kurta or suit. Is the budget for main lead that low?

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Everyday uniform jaise ek he look ko refreshing look nahi kehte.

Bichari anupama ko baa ki age jaise compare kar rahe hai. Baa toh itni badi hai unka samaj aata hai uniform look but anupama!!! Already majdoor jaise jidgi jiti ayi hai and uper se baa ne itne saal puri ki puri dressing unke jaise he allow ki anupama ko!

Kya dolly karti hai baa ke age ke jaisi dressing?! Nahi na! Then why anupama has to do dressing like baa's age?! jab baa ki apni beti dolly bhi baa jaisa look nahi rakhti hai then why anupama? pehle samaj aata tha vanraj forcefully anupama ko saree pehnata tha and baa bhi anupama ko unke jaisi age wali bana kar he rakhna chahti th! But now why? Ab to divorce ho gaya hai toh anupama kyun vanraj ki wajah se saree he pehne? Anupama kyun baa ki age jaise he dressing kare?!!

Anupama ko suits pasand the na! Toh usko woh pehnao na! kab tak anupama baa and vanraj ke comfort ke hisab se uniform dressing karti rahegi!!

I just read about the good news of you expecting soo congratulations for that firstly ma'am!!!! Hoping for the best for you as well as the baby.

I do understand where you are coming from about anupama being forced to wear sarees.

But theres more to her psychology in play than what we are currently able to see. Years of verbal and emotional and maybe physical abuse has conditioned anupama into thinking of herself exactly like vanraj and baa used to think of her. The mental block that the abuse has placed on her self esteem and confidence has crushed it into pieces.

It is in a way a lot like how a country gains independence but it takes years of struggles to break through from that slave mentality.

Anupama's self confidence has been crushed into shards and it will take much more than just a divorce for her to piece it back together and come out of all this stronger.

Her clothing choices at the moment makes the most sense to me considering how she hasnt even started healing from all the abuse she has been put through.

I agree with what you mean when you say that she needs a more refreshing look. But i think that should come gradually as she heals from the years of abuse step by step. Right now it is symbolic of her mental conditioning for the time being and i suppose giving her a makeover will be much more effective if her personality changes with it too

Originally posted by: chenjulia110

I just read about the good news of you expecting soo congratulations for that firstly ma'am!!!! Hoping for the best for you as well as the baby.

I do understand where you are coming from about anupama being forced to wear sarees.

But theres more to her psychology in play than what we are currently able to see. Years of verbal and emotional and maybe physical abuse has conditioned anupama into thinking of herself exactly like vanraj and baa used to think of her. The mental block that the abuse has placed on her self esteem and confidence has crushed it into pieces.

It is in a way a lot like how a country gains independence but it takes years of struggles to break through from that slave mentality.

Anupama's self confidence has been crushed into shards and it will take much more than just a divorce for her to piece it back together and come out of all this stronger.

Her clothing choices at the moment makes the most sense to me considering how she hasnt even started healing from all the abuse she has been put through.

I agree with what you mean when you say that she needs a more refreshing look. But i think that should come gradually as she heals from the years of abuse step by step. Right now it is symbolic of her mental conditioning for the time being and i suppose giving her a makeover will be much more effective if her personality changes with it too

Thank you ❤️

Since she is living in the same house with same nuisance , how she will heal? How she will gain her confidence and independence back??! Surrounding is still same!

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Thank you ❤️

Since she is living in the same house with same nuisance , how she will heal? How she will gain her confidence and independence back??! Surrounding is still same!

True enough.

She hasnt given herself a lot of opportunities to heal from her past and we can just hope for the best and pray that anuj's entry will force her to deal with her unresolved issues and border line stockholm syndrome and finally move on both from the toxic environment that is the shah house and the mental blocks that has been placed on her that she is unwilling to remove