Mujse dosti karoge scene of anupama vanraj - Page 2

I have absolutely lost the stamina to even want to comment on Anupamaa's behaviour.

She still believes that her marriage broke because she was "not-the-kind-of-wife-Vanraj-wanted" and her constant pressure on Vanraj to not cheat Kavya and make this marriage work, while also justifying that even if he cheated, he is still a nice husband and father!!

O hello??

You are exactly the kind of wife he wanted! A doormat! Which was why he didn't want you to leave and which is why he is constantly pissed with Kavya.

This is also a horrible message to give to men and women who cheat. They assume they will be forgiven and will end up happy happy with no baggage.

And.. Okay let's assume she is right that AnuRaj split purely because of incompatibility. She broke her own marriage because of incompatibility but also constantly pressures Vanraj and Kinjal to keep their marriages running. The way her son constantly demeans his own wife's wishes and aspirations just to be a bootlicker for his rich MIL, she wants Kinjal to keep compromising. Hypocrisy much??

Even going about fixing their marriages.

How long will she do that?

Once she leaves or dies, their marriages will shatter to dust.

Originally posted by: SanchiIndu

Agreed any sane married or divorced women can't be so comfortable with her husband who cheated her for 8 years untill she never loved him betrayed be any kind of from any one friends family hurts more than anyone imagine

I have been betrayed by my friends and I still feel that ping I couldn't reconnect with them after some incidents even if I talked I could never trust them again and insult behind my back or jokes in front of me even if I wasn't able to voice out firm disaagreement I definitely could not see them in same light

Here they are showing a women who was constantly ridiculed by her husband in laws and children also sambndhan and gf of her husband has no grudges for anyone and for me this is not great Ness this is highest level of self harm and what they want to show if you tolerate shit from in laws and husband one day they are going to respect your efforts be a victim of domestic violence untill and unless your in laws and husband accept you as good women and worthy.

Yes I definitely wanted Anupama to move on from Vanraj and not scheme against him or his family for the sake of revenge she must focus on her self . If she wanted to get even with him she could have filed mental harrasment case against Vanraj and his mother also Kavya and of she wanted Rakhi also .

Not backbiting legal way to fight for once they could have shown a women who raised voice for herself and moved on in her life at mid 40

Or simply moved focusing on her own life and her children

But more than herself she is concerned about Kavya and V do not fight with each other don't hurt each other have a family and make sure both are happy and make them comfortable in home guiding Kavya in house matter being her shield against taunt of her mother in law or children Height of stupidity

Can watch for entertainment but in no way Anupama is heroine or the show has any positive message

One more thing I always liked about Anupama that she does not shout unnecessary and try to diffuse situation rather than getting angry and making things worse but she must have mind to apply her good qualities as to where she should show her good Ness

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Absolutely! can watch it for entertainment but in no way anupama is heroine or setting up any standards or inspirational character or shaw has any positive message.

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I am so sorry you faced betrayal by some people!.

For me kavya comes later in the picture. The way writer is showing vanraj's betrayal as done and dusted and forgive and forget is awful seeing anupama's behavior with him.

Once in a while anupama 's line "Jo mere sath kiya woh kavya ke sath matt karna" is nothing when writer is busy showing it's easy for any ex- wife to stay with ex-husband and his new wife. It's easy for wife to forgive and forget 8 long years of betrayal like there was nothing bad happen ever with ex-husband.

It is not just unrealistic but utter fake to see anupama's behavior with vanraj on daily basis . In process of showing anupama 's greatness they are making her character more and more fake.

Writers needs to meet those wives who have faced husband's betrayal and are leading solo life today .Those women's pain can make you cry and you can feel the trauma of betrayal in their behavior.Those all ladies are definitely NOT SAD but not at all behaving like anupama with their ex-husband. They all are progressing with NO BAD BLOOD FOR EX-HUSBAND but nobody is acting like anupama done /dusted/fogive/forget🤢

Originally posted by: kooki07

i loved it sisal 1 but they were trying to copy Anupama it is 0 out off 100 .

Anupama is nothing in front of my darling mauli character.

Mauli's pain/ Mauli's move on journey/mauli's attitude /mauli's journey as single parent is way way way more inspirational than fake human behavior writing for anupama.

Mauli was way more strong and real character than this anupama. Now again watching silsila 1 on voot only for mauli❤️

Definitely writer needs to see silsila 1 to understand how betrayal can tore woman's heart in pieces and how woman feels for years after divorce and how strongly woman leads solo life without being around ex-husband and his new wife.

The writers have really run out of ideas even before starting the actual storyline.

Its sad that the actors have to justify in the media that they are nothing like their characters. Rupali did that and now also Pakhi actor did that. They also know things dont make sense.

feel bad for them.

What I don't get is how ratings are so high for this show?

The story has gone awry and u can see the actors are struggling...some,of them their heart isn't in it

I can see SP leaving as Vanraj no longer has any decent scenes or lines...he is sidelined to Anu

Kinjal & Toshu will not be moving out...as per spoilers

What's left to see now aside from Anupamaa having the solution to every problem

Originally posted by: psforums

The writers have really run out of ideas even before starting the actual storyline.

Its sad that the actors have to justify in the media that they are nothing like their characters. Rupali did that and now also Pakhi actor did that. They also know things dont make sense.

feel bad for them.

yes i saw it. Rupali did that and recently muskan bamne(pakhi) also gave interview about she is nothing like pakhi in real life.

Writer is definitely running out of ideas that's why recycling rakhi-pakhi negative tracks . In place of showing rakhi-pakhi tracks, better they bring love interest on anupama in the show.This is only possible way to show anupama's exit from vanraj,leela,hasmukh,kavya's life otherwise anupama will never going to leave these people and everyday we audiences have to see how much anupama adores vanraj/his cafe/his respect etc 🤢

Pata nahi kaun sa sasta nasha karti hai Ms.writer jo ex-husband ex-wife current wife ka hum saath saath hai dikhana chahti hai🤢

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

What I don't get is how ratings are so high for this show?

The story has gone awry and u can see the actors are struggling...some,of them their heart isn't in it

I can see SP leaving as Vanraj no longer has any decent scenes or lines...he is sidelined to Anu

Kinjal & Toshu will not be moving out...as per spoilers

What's left to see now aside from Anupamaa having the solution to every problem

Ratings gaye tel lene, story toh ekdum kachra hai 🤢

Kinjal/Toshu ka toh pata he tha kahi nahi jaane wale hai, sab side tracks the like filler episode.Lol jis penthouse ki badi badi baate kar rahe the usko kinjal-toshu dekhne gaye but audiences ko nahi dikhaya penthouse because they have no budget of showing penthouse since day 1😆😆

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

I have absolutely lost the stamina to even want to comment on Anupamaa's behaviour.

This is also a horrible message to give to men and women who cheat. They assume they will be forgiven and will end up happy happy with no baggage.

@bold : Lol horrible/unrealistic message that men can betrayed for long years and he can be not just forgiven but his deeds can be forgotten and ex-wife can act like anupama behaves daily .

They are ridiculing those women's pain who faced heart wrenching betrayal because of husband's extra marital affair.It took years in such cases.One can forgive but no wife can behave like anupama .

I can not wait for Ronit Roy’s character to enter and play dosti dosti with Anupama in front of Vanraj!!😝

Jokes apart, I hated Anupama being friends with Vanraj. But I guess the direction they are going it was the next step.

I just want Anupama to grow some spine and self respect and just stay away from Vanraj and Kavya and their matters. She has no place there. I do love Kavya’s insecurities. I want to see her so miserable that I can not even explain. I TOTALLY hate her. Call me sadist or whatever but I love it whenever Anupama snaps on her and shuts her up.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I feel soooooo disgusted watching that scene and in the moment i feel like i should stop watching this disgustingly unrealistic show.

Is there any wife out there? I want to read opinion of real life wife on anupama-vanraj's mujse dosti karoge moment and anupama's cafe connection with vanraj.

I share the same feeling. Actually, the show started losing its charm since the day Anupama stayed back in the house after divorce. All under the same roof as one big happy family is so silly. It went downhill from there.

I used to love this show up until that point and would think that all women must be like Anupama's char.

Now, the way they are showing the cafe and academy etc Vanraj and Anu are bonding better now than they were before, that too he's married to another woman! What the freak is that supposed to be??!