Why Anupama had to lecture Kavya about being mother!

Todays scene where Anu gives lecture to Kavya about what a mother feels...how good it is to be a mother...how kids become priority.....the whole lecture was out of place I feel. It was seriously not needed at that moment in time. It really felt like she was either coaxing Kavya or taunting her (though I know she was not). But Anu giving lectures at the drop of hat is so lame.

After this if Kavya plans to become mother then I feel Anu needs to be blamed for it. Not directly but indirectly she is responsible.

Previously I remember in the resort, Kavya had mentioned she doesn't want to become mother ever.

Women's wishes and desires can definitely change after marriage .I have so many friends around me who used to say i don't want kid but after marriage everyone goes to family way.

Those feelings of motherhood which you had never developed before getting married can come of surface after marriage. It's beautiful transition whether you are villain or heroin.

Sometimes you developed it seeing others after marriage, other time you developed it on your own .Desire to go to family way is natural process after marriage.

Lol before marriage one has not that desire doesn't mean it can't change after marriage. Being married woman i can understand this transition.

Regarding anupama's lecture time, must say it was nothing related to scene or sequence. Out of blue anupama had started talking about motherhood and mother. Seems like they wanted give anupama some dialogs so kuch bhi lines pakda diya bolne ke liye😆😆

Most of the time anupama character non relevant bhashan karti rehti hai because writers usko kuch bhi lines bolne ko pakda deta hai jisse anupama character par focus rahe!!😆😆

Yes its okay for one to change their mind about having child. No worries at all with that. Let them do it on their own pace.

Anu giving unnecessary lecture is the wrong thing here. Basically makers are somehow making Anu kind of Saas No.2 to Kavya 🤣

She is lecturing Kavya all the time. Not that I like Kavya....but why Anu has to interfere in her matters. Anu should just concentrate on her own life and what she had desired to be.

yes Tania they are paving a road for Kavia becoming a mother while mahan anu will take all the responsibilities to look after the the kid .

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Sometimes you developed it seeing others after marriage, other time you developed it on your own .Desire to go to family way is natural process after marriage.

@bold : These people have it the worst 🤢 I have seen so many people who had babies only because they were experiencing FOMO or they didn't give it a thought because That's what everyone does, it's natural.

And they end up silently regretting it (obviously no one says it out loud, lest they want to be called cold-hearted bit¢hes). So they either end up being bitter towards their own life or towards their kids (thus resulting in all the bad parents we see around us)

Anyone reading this, having kids mindlessly or because you're getting FOMO is dumb af. Please think hard & deep beforehand. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be childfree. Pregnancy and parenting aren't for everyone. It's normal. Better not procreate at all than wish there were an option to divorce kids too 😭

Originally posted by: usernameyrkkh

@bold : These people have it the worst 🤢 I have seen so many people who had babies only because they were experiencing FOMO or they didn't give it a thought because That's what everyone does, it's natural.

And they end up silently regretting it (obviously no one says it out loud, lest they want to be called cold-hearted bit¢hes). So they either end up being bitter towards their own life or towards their kids (thus resulting in all the bad parents we see around us)

Anyone reading this, having kids mindlessly or because you're getting FOMO is dumb af. Please think hard & deep beforehand. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be childfree. Pregnancy and parenting aren't for everyone. It's normal. Better not procreate at all than wish there were an option to divorce kids too 😭

Do you mean kavya wants child getting FOMO??Pata nahi kavya ka kya reason hai but agar baccha chahti hai to kare and nahi chahti toh na kare! Aise chizo par public opinion doesn't matter. It should be only couple's decision. Society ka toh aivey kaam hota hai judge ke chair par baithna🤢

Originally posted by: kooki07

yes Tania they are paving a road for Kavia becoming a mother while mahan anu will take all the responsibilities to look after the the kid .

Abhi agar anupama nanny banegi toh yeh jo precap mai dance academy dikhaya usme dance kaun karega???

Samar nandini ko dance aata nahi hai and dance samar nandini ke bas ki baat nahi hai.

No, may be Kavya wants a baby because she wants a family she can call her own. She was always shown to be craving one. Or may be she wants motherhood, to share a life with Vanraj, etc. There could be a million reasons that come from within her

I just hope that they don't show her wanting motherhood out of FOMO or because society says it 'completes' a woman (the same bhaashan they were giving Kinjal). IRL people already have children for those toxic reasons & regret it later. This superhit show reinforcing that would be cringe af

they might tell us or sometimes show us that mahaan atama anupma can do every thing .

They are not in good terms and when everyone in the family don't give a damn to her then why Anupama unnecessarily trying to be friendly with her. It wasn't required, she should stay away for vanya matters, . Atleast kavya is clear in her mind , if she doesn't like anybody she is vocal about it.

kavya wants to become mother and her desire gets stronger after confrontation with anupama . earlier it was her wish but now she is going in FOMO way and to compete with anupama.