Curious cases of Anupama ke bachche - Page 5

I will give u example my father has transferable job and when we shift to new city then new maid aasani se nahin milti tub mummy aur main and my Brother use to work

I was 13 at that time and my Brother is 2 year younger than me but my Brother marketing aur dusting ka kaam karta tha

I use wash utensil and clean cut And cook vegetable for dinner

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Point is that yahan pur main problem ke ghar ke kaam ki nahin yahan pur sirf daugher in law se kyon expect kiya jaata hai ki bus wohi kaam kare . Why not ask daugher who is going to 17 to do some work

Like baa claim ki ek do roti banane se koi naukar nahin ho jaata to pakhi se kyon nahin bolte ki roti banana seekho

Baa know that kinjal ko bahut bada project mila hai aur kinjal ka office ka kaam bahut bhad gaya hai aur kinjal ne baa ko kaan mein lage blue tooth device bhi dikhaya ki uski meeting chal rahi hai phir bhi baa taunt kinjal ko kar rahi thi.?

At least jub baa ko pata hai to kinjal ki meeting chal rahi hai

Aur kavya ne yeh bhi bola ki use aur kinjal ko kul ki new project ki meeting aur newPresentation prepare karni hai. Phir bhi baa ne bola kinjal se tum roti sek lo ?

At least jub baa ko pata hai ki kinjal subah ke liye presentation tayar karna hai to baa pakhi ko bula leti aur gas neeche rakh ke pakhi ko roti belna seekha deti aur khud bhi roti bel ke sek leti

Pakhi ka naam isliye bhi aaya jub pakhi ne kaha ki main coffee banati hoon

Kya bus coffee banane se ghar mein help ho jaati hai?

Exactly compare karna hai to dono karo.

I say even include samar and toshu in the comparison.

What kind of upbringing is this,,mother and wife struggles in the kitchen while you sit on the sofa like a potato !!

I would never be able to sit peacefully in my room knowing my mom is working in the kitchen .

Originally posted by: ..sur..

Haan toh Rakhi agar Baa ko sunati aur Kinjal chup rehti toh I would have understood but Rakhi was insulting Anupama and still Kinjal was quiet. Ho gaya uska mummy pyaar pura.

Ek jhagda hua aur wo mummy se tumhari mummy aur Anupama pe aa gayi

Rakhi should have berated Baa and shown her the mirror rather than threatening Anupama. I would have enjoyed it immensely

It is normal for people to get tired of all the drama. Kinjal might have been doin the same too. Every time she has gone against her mother and supported Shahs. And what did she get in return? Even Anupama didn't take her side first. So it is only natural that she kept quiet and let her mother speak. Also Kinjal didn't need to stop Rakhi. The entire household was jumping on Rakhi and Kinjal to support Anupama.

Rakhi was speaking to Anupama because it Anu who made a promise to Rakhi and not Baa. Rakhi knows very well not to expect anything from Baa. But with Anu it was different. So she might have lost it when she thought Anu couldn't keep her promise and protect Kinjal.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Kinjal ne kabhi enter nahin kiya hai but at least kinjal ne interest dikhaya kinjal ke kaam karne use seekhne ki ichha tgi

Kinjal ne kaam isliye nahi kiya kyonki uske mayke ka atmosphere waisa nahin tha

But pakhi to aise atmosphere phere paida hui jahaan pur kaam hota tha

How could pakhi could not try to learn and do work by hersef when she is seeing anupama working

Even my mother not always told me ki yeh karo woh karo. Hum log khuch kaam mummy ko dekh kur aisi hi karne lag jaate they

Like mother never told me to cook or clean wash basin. I was 11 age aur mere ander instict jaaga ki chalo aa khud se daal chaaval banate hai. Meri mummy pados ke yahan tuk gayi thi. Maine mummy se daal chaaval banane ka procedure phooch liya aur khud daal. Chawal banaya

Aisi hi wash basin mujhe woh ganda lag raha tha to maine khud use saaf kiya kisi ne mere ko kaha nahin aur woh bhi mere andar instint jaaga

Baa comoarison kar ti ki nahin if pakhi do work that I cant tell exactly jo abhi dikhaya jaa raha hai uski ki base pe maine opinion diya hai

Pakhi never wanted to be like Anupama. Infact I won't be wrong if I say, she hated her mother. She wanted to be like Kavya. Infact, she was embarrassed of Anupama and called her a loser. So, do you really think she would help her in household chores or would sympathise that my mother is working alone. Even now, the only reason Pakhi is sweet to Anupama just because Kavya was mean to her otherwise she would still consider her mother as a loser

This is all because she was brought up by Vanraj and his ideology. Yes, Pakhi was born in Shah's jahan kaam hota hai but what does she see: that only her mother works and no one else, not even Baa and her mother is made fun off not only by her father but her brother too and is taunted by her Baa. So why would she learn or help in something which she considers beneath her

All I'm trying to say that we can't compare Kinjal and Pakhi on any level

Originally posted by: janecastle

It is normal for people to get tired of all the drama. Kinjal might have been doin the same too. Every time she has gone against her mother and supported Shahs. And what did she get in return? Even Anupama didn't take her side first. So it is only natural that she kept quiet and let her mother speak. Also Kinjal didn't need to stop Rakhi. The entire household was jumping on Rakhi and Kinjal to support Anupama.

Rakhi was speaking to Anupama because it Anu who made a promise to Rakhi and not Baa. Rakhi knows very well not to expect anything from Baa. But with Anu it was different. So she might have lost it when she thought Anu couldn't keep her promise and protect Kinjal.

But don't you think Rakhi's insults and threats of sending to jail for torcher was excessive to what actually transpired?

Also if Kinjal can get tired of all the drama and how is it fair to insult a lady whose mother is not well and is already tensed.

On one hand Kinjal calls Anupama her mother but on the other that mother doesn't have the right to say or advice her anything. Yes, Anupama was wrong in taking sides and should have kept mum but how does this warrant the utter nonsense Rakhi was spewing and Kinjal stopping others from interfering.

Also the entire household will never be a match to Rakhi Dave when it comes to insulting others.

Originally posted by: neo7

Baa accepted na she was wrong she should have not scolded kinjal and has also agreed to try new approach. May be this track was to show that only that how old people need to change with time.

Also the type of character that Baa was shown from the start of show, she cannot be shown to change overnight, there has to be gradual progression, which is what they are showing, they are showing situations which leads to that change in Baa's character. Also we should accept that accepting changes at that age is not easy. My father is 65 and I know how much we struggle just to make him accept any change in lifestyle, even if it is the smallest change.

So this track is showing that thing, atleast that's my interpretation of this track.

I agree.

Accepting change isn't easy and takes time but one should be willingly enough. And I hardly ever saw baa willingly enough to accept change until unless some damage is done.

This show deals with the kind of issues that many of us have been through in our life.....some of those definitely if not every.

And i want to say we are not comparing kinjal and pakhi. We just want to say pakhi is 17 year old so some sort of doing house hold chore can be expect from pakhi

Originally posted by: Innocentlove96

I agree.

Accepting change isn't easy and takes time but one should be willingly enough. And I hardly ever saw baa willingly enough to accept change until unless some damage is done.

This show deals with the kind of issues that many of us have been through in our life.....some of those definitely if not every.

Yes, in reality also, many a times its actually when a damage is done or something drastic happens, is when we realise we were wrong and glad baa has now realised and after bapuji and anu explained her she has shown the willingness to accept the change and new approach with changing times, thats a good start.

Yes many things shown in this show someone or other must have experienced atleast one of the issue.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

I've been questioning that since day 1

Her kids are still useless

But hey at least Pakhi can make coffee!