Kinjal cant work same in few days but respect should be in few days

She doesnt want to take any responsibility..she doesnt want to discuss that there is meeting she cant handle it.

She also wants to come across as superwoman , handling all.

When called out , she says its not possible in few days...100% correct.

But its not possible for Baa to show same warmth in few days logic ???

Anupama took initiative from her side and did the work...but if like any normal person if she also wanted Kavya to ask for it first...then i think rather than asking for it she would have broke down there as well..🥱

You make it sound like wives and Daughters-in-law should only ask for love and respect when they can give something in return, like expertise in housework? Didn't Anupamaa warm up to her on day 1? Did Kinjal have to prove her mettle for that?

Isn't Give and take is a part of professional work where employees get appraisal only after proving their worth?

And why exactly is Anupamaa comparing Leela's scolding with a boss' scolding?

Someone please educate her that the boss can be sued for unlawful harrasment of an employee. Bosses can no longer treat employees, especially female, as their personal punching bag, to vent frustrations even if the employee is not at fault, atleast in reputed companies.

And the way employees tolerate a scolding many times to avoid escalations, but also crack when the pressure is too much to bear, the exact same way Kinjal did.

She tolerated it till Leela didn't stop cribbing even when Kinjal informed her that she was on a work call.

All Leela had to do was wait till Kinjal's work-pressure reduced so that she could get better at learning cooking, or get a maid hired.

If this issue of too many things at once had occurred and was a temporary thing, Leela could have adjusted with Kinjal's substandard cooking for some time, instead of ordering her to concentrate on Anupamaa's instructions word by word, when she already had her office workload.

Kinjal didn't ask for respect, she just said that she cannot and should not be compared to Anupamaa everytime. She was covering for Anupamaa's absence like everyone else, but also had her own workload, which others in the family didn't.

Expecting Kinjal to concentrate on achieving culinary expertise of Anupamaa's level when she had other matters to attend to is insensitive, to say the least!!

why are dil supposed to automatically show respect and warmth for a whole new family but considered that u have to 'earn' it the other way round what baa did with Anupama wasn't right and she is shown to be regretful but still continues to act the same

Originally posted by: anon1234

why are dil supposed to automatically show respect and warmth for a whole new family but considered that u have to 'earn' it the other way round

this! 💯

So now, DILs are supposed to get basic respect and love only when they prove their “worth” in household chores and listening to constant comparisons and criticisms? But she is supposed to consider her husband’s family as her own from day 1?

Why double standards?
Comparing family elders with boss in office doesnt make any sense. We dont love our bosses or have any emotional investment / attachment to them. Whereas family is different.
everyone has a breaking point and I am glad Kinjal had her outburst. But looks like she’ll be the one “learning” a lesson.

I have already told ki yeh baa jaroorat se jyaada bolti hai aur faltu bolti. Jub baa aise faltu bolegi to saamne wala bhale hi chota hai woh bhi aise faltu baat mein chup nahin rahega except anupama. Bas ko yeh nahin samjhana chahiye anupama ne tolerate kar liya to har koi baa ki faltu taunt ko tolerate karega

Kinjaj ki aisi koi majboori nahin jo baa ki taunt ko bevajah sune

Baa expect karti hai unki respect ki jaaye but baa ko khud baa ko baat ko sahi tareeke seekhne ki jaroorat hai

Agar izzat chahte hai to doori ko bhi izzat dena sikhe

I could not hear clearly but I feel baa taunt anupama mayka when anupama said ki hamaare yahan chidiya itna khaana khaati thi when kinjal refuse to eat

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

You make it sound like wives and Daughters-in-law should only ask for love and respect when they can give something in return, like expertise in housework? Didn't Anupamaa warm up to her on day 1? Did Kinjal have to prove her mettle for that?

Isn't Give and take is a part of professional work where employees get appraisal only after proving their worth?

And why exactly is Anupamaa comparing Leela's scolding with a boss' scolding?

Someone please educate her that the boss can be sued for unlawful harrasment of an employee. Bosses can no longer treat employees, especially female, as their personal punching bag, to vent frustrations even if the employee is not at fault, atleast in reputed companies.

And the way employees tolerate a scolding many times to avoid escalations, but also crack when the pressure is too much to bear, the exact same way Kinjal did.

She tolerated it till Leela didn't stop cribbing even when Kinjal informed her that she was on a work call.

All Leela had to do was wait till Kinjal's work-pressure reduced so that she could get better at learning cooking, or get a maid hired.

If this issue of too many things at once had occurred and was a temporary thing, Leela could have adjusted with Kinjal's substandard cooking for some time, instead of ordering her to concentrate on Anupamaa's instructions word by word, when she already had her office workload.

Kinjal didn't ask for respect, she just said that she cannot and should not be compared to Anupamaa everytime. She was covering for Anupamaa's absence like everyone else, but also had her own workload, which others in the family didn't.

Expecting Kinjal to concentrate on achieving culinary expertise of Anupamaa's level when she had other matters to attend to is insensitive, to say the least!!

@red to me this seemed like Anupama telling Kinjal please learn doormat cum punching bag like myself in short Anupama 2.0 with zero self respect.

Originally posted by: Rein123

@red to me this seemed like Anupama telling Kinjal please learn doormat cum punching bag like myself in short Anupama 2.0 with zero self respect.

All anupama does this day is baa ki disrespect bardaash nahi karugi, bapuji ki disrespect bardash nahi karugi, baccho ke papa ki disrespect bardash nahi karugi !! ek he line 3 different people ke liye anupama already bol chuki hai last 1 week mai 😆Writer badly needs to write something new lines for anupama.

Kavya ki disrepect bardashat nahi karungi