Helping hands

Hello everyone,

I'm the silent member of this forum and want to share my view on the recent track. Household chores may seem too petty to talk about but in reality it can cause disturbance and issues/arguments/conflicts arise due to mismanagement , domestic duty vs financial duty and loading pressure on a single member can even break the family. so, everyone need to be in discipline and share household responsibility equally.

Few points :-

1. Everyone should be independent and do their own work (personal kaam to kar sakte hai na like dusting/cleaning of their own rooms etc.) once kavya also advocated the same thing to pakhi when she was living with her and there is nothing wrong in it.

2. What Pakhi does all day ? cant she help her mother ? Why only DIL need to do household work ? Alongwith Pakhi, samar and toshu should help. They all are grown up and need to learn basic cooking skills . They can distribute work responsibilities - ghar ka kaam, bahar ka kaam etc.

3. Both Kinjal and toshu are earning and contributing in family income so minor work can be done by ghar ke bacche Pakhi and samar like making tea, serving , market se ration lana etc.

4. Even baa babuji can also contribute, most of the elder people do like gardening, watering plants etc. In one episode when kinjal 's Mom came in the house, it was shown that both baa and babuji was helping in kitchen work.

In todays time almost everyone irrespective of gender knows cooking . eg. My brother works in different city and lives alone there and he does take care all of his household needs. he cook his own food. Similarly me and my sister we both are working and do share household duty with our mother . My father loves gardening and does home related outside work . sometime he cooks also 😊though my mother did not like it but he does.

Nowadays, men are doing work which were traditionally designed for women and its a welcoming change. I don't understand how can these people sit idle whole day doing nothing specially male member of the house . Jung lag jayega body ko😆

Thanks 😊

it is already been rusty what more can happen ,Samar is always romancing have nothing else to do or being ill mannered ,yes Toshu is working full time but can take some more responsibilities at home as well Pakhi is still studying yes but in the evening and at the weekend she can help but the problem is that they never been asked to do even take a small responsibilities ?

Totally agree with you 👍

Sab apne apne kamre ki safai khud kare, khud ke use kiye bartan clean kar le, sab ke liye alag alag khana na bane jaise aaj baa ki pasand to kal bapuji ki pasand isse time bhi bachega aur sab ko alag alag khana bhi milega...kapdo ke liye washing machine hai to ye bhi Anujal ke badle koe bhi kar le koe problem nahi hogi...

yes at the weekend they can make different types of gravers and freeze it for the coming week like the baa and bpujee helps to chop the vegetables it will make the life easier my younger daughter and daughter inlaw the youngest one they have never fed their kids ready made food every weekend they do that because now a days everyone have to work .

Kids don't need to do anything when Mahaan Anupamaa and her trusty pet Kinjal are all there to serve

plus they have to drop the kids to nursery or the school and in the evening have to collect them feed them give them bath and put them to bed even have to read a story in the bed as well . no ones life is the bed of rosses . once one of my auntie came to visit uk and when she went back she said to get your daughters out of the country the life they live even they have to clean their toilets by them self .i still laugh at that comment .

then who made them like that ?