Why the heck is Anupama interfering with Kavya and Vanraj??? - Page 2

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

That going to Van when he has something was unnecessary unless it was life threatening which it was not. I have a nephew who if he Ingests even little bit of gluten it makes him itch and sometimes breathless and he needs a injection asap.

Plus why interfere let them fight and do what not it is baa and bapuji who must tell Vanya

Even y stop Kinju or others they are all adults and can use their whatever little brains

Y Anupama even talks to Vanya unless necessary

I find it uncomfortable when people don't draw boundaries.

Being civil is different from over mahan

True that….. I even don’t like people who poke their nose unnecessarily in others matters and faltu ka gyan dete hai….. apna relation kharab ho gaya…. Why toh affect others by doing such things….🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

Originally posted by: Rein123

For someone that claims to have self respect she lives in the same house as her ex just because his family asked her to do so and she gladly did and continued serving them, taking their shit and what not.

For someone who claims to no longer give a shit about Vanraj and Kavya she constantly goes and interferes with them, purposely goes speaks to Vanraj when she knows Kavya minds, purposely goes and picks fights moral polices Kavya once again, tries to interfere in Kavya’s matters by interfering with the maid. What the hell does she want? Kavya may be a rude, self entitled, contentious and vindictive woman but that is who she is and that is how she presents herself in short Kavya is very direct and clear about herself but Anupama is now coming off as a two faced person. Everything she does seems to have an agenda behind it as if she is doing everything on purpose for someone who claims to be all pious, loving and caring. Maybe Kavya is actually not wrong about her. Why the hell does she care about how Vanraj is doing? Why the hell does she care if Kavya’s maid has trouble finding things or even bother to offer her a coffee? That makes her come across as very manipulative, tomorrow Kavya will say that Anupama is manipulating her own maid against her. The smirk or grin on Anupama’s face whenever she intentionally goes and pokes Kavya, lecturing her on how to become to another Anupama by submitting to a family that treats her like shit and hates her, like who the hell has given her that authority? It's Vanraj's problem and only he can lecture her or make her understand.

Anupama clearly knows Kavya hates it when she interferes in her matters still she is doing it and takes great pleasure in taunting her as well. Why can't she just focus on her own "family" instead?

Exactly my point if baa taunts or interfere in k vV matter it's okay but why Anupama she has no right and anybody will get irritated if ex wife lives in same house and daily tries to prove herself as someone so great and better bahu than her Anupama was never strict with Kavya untill she saw V and K together still after that she was so good with her so many times I don't think it's great news it's either sheer stupidity or she doesn't have feelings for V

No same women would live with her ex husband and sautan and if she had too under no circumstances she would interfere in there matter how they deal with problems it's none of her concern be it K behaviour with V or baa or maid it's IKavya personal matter

If she intereferes it does look like she has some ulterior motive seems like she want to prove herself as best bahu but it's not what was promoted in the show befor launch

Originally posted by: Rohil.ban12

I too agree with this…. Chahe Anupama sahi hi keh rahe ho vanraj ya kavya ko ya motivate kar rahe ho unhe… but ab usko relation dekhna chaiye ki ab Vanya aur uska kya relation and uske according avoid karna chaiye…. Still serial main pati biwi aur ex biwi chal raha hai…. Dheere dheere aise toh yeh threes*** tak pahuncha denge 😝😝😝😅🙈

Baa karte rahe taunt ya motivate….

Mujhe toh yeh nahi samjh aata Baa ne bhi kamal ki kaldi ki smell ko guess kar liya tha but baa kyu nahi rok rahe…. Har jageh Anupama kyu…. Ab baa ka apne bete ke liye pyaar kahan gaya 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

Ab yeh sab zabardasti lagta hai writers ki taraf se…

And mujhe toh Anupama ke liye bhi painful lagta hai yeh sab… toh usko apna hi soch ke nahi padna chaiye inn sab cheezo se….

Yaa is vanraj child can't he himself be aware of smell of kamal kakdi but anu and baa who are sitting afar can smell Kamal kakdi why Anu cares so much baa could have gone or her children or Kavya could have given him water

Also why Kavya is shown as villain no one can know what kind of allergy other person has if he can't tell himself how can Kavya tell she would do whatever she wants who is Anu to tell remember or write down baa has all the right

Originally posted by: Rein123

Woh pad hi kyun rahi hai unke beech? VanYa is not her problem at all, she has no right to tell Kavya what to do or what she cannot do especially when it comes to Vanraj. VanYa ko sirf Baa Bapuji se matlab hai, Baa should have been the one who got to Vanraj when he swallowed the allergen not Anupama, why the hell is she acting like she is still his wife that even infront of Kavya, no wonder Kavya has a problem with her. Ussne khud hi Vanraj ko talaaq diya tha, so behave like a divorcee. Whether Kavya answers Baa back or not its either Vanraj’s problem or Baa's herself.

For Anupama Baa is like her mother. I don't know about you but I won't tolerate someone saying shit to my mother. At the same time she is cautioning Baa as to not say things which might lead to her insult by Kavya. Also if someone has consumed an allergen every single person is well within their rights to help them. It's a reflex reaction and there is hardly anything wrong with offering someone water. Baa has arthritis and is not that swift. Now coming to why she is poking her nose, it is true that there is a certain way of behaving with parents in front of their kids. No kid can see constant humiliation of their parents by someone else. Anupama is right to call her out. If VanYa want to keep things private, they should better be in their bedroom and not make it a public spectacle.

i also didn't like anu's interfering, it's their personal matter,let them resolve

Originally posted by: Sanaya-hi-Rani

For Anupama Baa is like her mother. I don't know about you but I won't tolerate someone saying shit to my mother. At the same time she is cautioning Baa as to not say things which might lead to her insult by Kavya. Also if someone has consumed an allergen every single person is well within their rights to help them. It's a reflex reaction and there is hardly anything wrong with offering someone water. Baa has arthritis and is not that swift. Now coming to why she is poking her nose, it is true that there is a certain way of behaving with parents in front of their kids. No kid can see constant humiliation of their parents by someone else. Anupama is right to call her out. If VanYa want to keep things private, they should better be in their bedroom and not make it a public spectacle.

Baa is like her mother not her actual mother, the same woman who used to hate Anupama and discriminate against her, she was the same woman who had a problem if any of Anupama’s family members ever showed up to visit her, wouldn't let her serve them proper food citing inflation but at the same time serve Vanraj's family or friends food like there was no end to it, wouldn't leave an opportunity to berate her family members, if she can't watch her so called mother get called out by Kavya then she shouldn't have agreed to stay there at all. Vanraj is Baa's actual son so it is him only who can make Kavya understand. How can VanYa stay 24x7 in their bedroom? That's obviously not possible and this was when they were having breakfast and getting ready for work so obviously everything would happen infront of them, here toh phir bhi they were minding their own business. You see Kavya humiliate Baa however Baa does it too when it comes to Kavya, intentionally discriminating against her, saying she is not their bahu but expect her to follow their orders or bow before them as if she is their bahu, Baa was the same person who refused to welcome Kavya during the grih pravesh which is no less than any form of humiliation. On one hand she is very soft and blind towards Vanraj's mistakes but constantly berates Kavya whenever she finds the opportunity.

Every single person is well within their rights to help a person which is true but not infront of their spouse and Kavya was right there next to him that time, knowing that it was inappropriate for Anupama to butt in at that point. Leave that she was even butting in when the maid was about to begin her work, taunting Kavya that she is a poor home maker for what exactly? And why the hell is she even talking to Vanraj regarding his job hunt issues?? She cannot do that.

Originally posted by: Rein123

Baa is like her mother not her actual mother, the same woman who used to hate Anupama and discriminate against her, she was the same woman who had a problem if any of Anupama’s family members ever showed up to visit her, wouldn't let her serve them proper food citing inflation but at the same time serve Vanraj's family or friends food like there was no end to it, wouldn't leave an opportunity to berate her family members, if she can't watch her so called mother get called out by Kavya then she shouldn't have agreed to stay there at all. Vanraj is Baa's actual son so it is him only who can make Kavya understand. How can VanYa stay 24x7 in their bedroom? That's obviously not possible and this was when they were having breakfast and getting ready for work so obviously everything would happen infront of them, here toh phir bhi they were minding their own business. You see Kavya humiliate Baa however Baa does it too when it comes to Kavya, intentionally discriminating against her, saying she is not their bahu but expect her to follow their orders or bow before them as if she is their bahu, Baa was the same person who refused to welcome Kavya during the grih pravesh which is no less than any form of humiliation. On one hand she is very soft and blind towards Vanraj's mistakes but constantly berates Kavya whenever she finds the opportunity.

Every single person is well within their rights to help a person which is true but not infront of their spouse and Kavya was right there next to him that time, knowing that it was inappropriate for Anupama to butt in at that point. Leave that she was even butting in when the maid was about to begin her work, taunting Kavya that she is a poor home maker for what exactly? And why the hell is she even talking to Vanraj regarding his job hunt issues?? She cannot do that.

Totally Agree…. Baa ko sab kuch chaiye aur kabhi apne ya apne ladle Raja jaise bete Vanraj ki galti toh dikhte nahi… pehle modern bahu chaiye the ab voh aa gaye toh ab kaam karne vale bahu chaiye pata nahi kya chahte hai Baa finally 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤣😂

And same is with Vanraj…. Chahtaaaaaa Kya hai yeh insaann…. Yahi kavya abhi kisi aur ke saath khade bhi ho jayege toh jealous ho jata hai and similarly Anupama ko bhi kisi ke saath dekh ke jealous feel karta hai but jana kisi ek ke pass bhi nahi…. Anupama jab thi toh kavya chaiye the ab Kavya Hai toh Anupama chaiye…. Mujhe toh samjh nahi aata writers kiya dikhana chah rahe hai ki usko 2 jano se bhi satisfaction nahi ab teesre chaiye kya Anupama aur Kavya ka combined combination ya dono legally chaiye with their acceptance …. 🤣😂

Vanraj aur Baa sabse confused hai poore serial main… paltu kahi ke….

Anupama ne interfere kiya tha isliye kavya “despo” madam ki shaadi ho payi. Yaad kijiye.

Originally posted by: sunshine333

Anupama ne interfere kiya tha isliye kavya “despo” madam ki shaadi ho payi. Yaad kijiye.

Toh kisne kahaan tha usse Kavya ki baat maanne ke liye? Doormat toh woh thi hi ab Kavya ki baat maan kar maha doormat bann gayi upar se shameless bhi to pretend that she wants to move on in life but at the same time hold on to her sasural calling herself 'Beti' and not bahu. Kavya ne Jo bhi kiya, bola khule aam seena taan ke bola aur karti bhi hai, Anupama ki tarah do muhi nahi hai, dikhati kuch hai lekin karti hai kuch aur. Kavya uske baare Vanraj ke maamle Jo bhi sochti hai, theek hi sochti hai.

Anupama is a liar when she says that she doesn't wanna get involved in their matters, sorry dear but signed up to interfere in their matters the day she agreed to live under the same roof as them, and for this I call her shameless and a big fat liar.