Lazy, Busy or Stressed?

Kavya enters the home from the office and she is tired. Generally every being gets tired after working in office. But the treatment is different when a man enters you have to offer water to him, but when a woman enters no one asks to her. What Kavya faced we all ladies face it everyday. The fact is that we all enjoy that Kavya is suffering, she deserves to suffer. But talking the real aspects. Someday we feel we dont wanna work today. Even Anupama has gone through this but she happily does the work. But Kavya needs to understand this, that she is a DIL, the whole whirlpool goes on until she gets the bed. Its not a story only of Kavya and Kinjal. But a story of every working married lady. To the husbands, If a wife can do some of your work then can't you do some of your wife work.

Both are working, both are stressed here. Here it is the fight of view points. Both expects other to heal them. But they are venting the frustrations on each other. Vanraj is again giving Anupama's example. Everyone is not like Anupama. Vanraj has egoistic nature and same is Kavya. If the two stones clash, then no will break. Kavya has lost her true self, when she was begging Vanraj, crossed all her limits with the family. She also said Vanraj that knowing that you are Besharam, I'm still marrying you. So Kavya is getting her own Karma back. If she had taken a wise decision then she would have been saved from this stress. She has invited all this mess by her own. Kavya is saying that they should hire a maid. Have much more to say on this maid thing but wont.

I dont know why there are fights in the families when the maid, servants go on a vacation. Dont the servants have a right to be free? If they are on a vacation, cant you work on your own for some days. In the lockdown, I did Jhadu Pocha, Bartan, Kapde everything with my mother. Why to fight unnecessarily. IT'S YOUR HOME ONLY, NOT YOUR SERVANTS. Kuchh kaam karoge to mar nahi jaaoge. In fact I took all the work as a form of activity, I enjoyed so much. Here the problem is only Anupama and Kinjal are working, rest all are sitting. I am not saying you should not keep a maid, but Kabhi to woh chhuti par jaati hai na. Aap insaan ho to kya woh insaan nahi? Rakhi's interference again in this family matter is unwelcomed here. Rakhi said Anupama a maid, Kuchh din ki to baat hai. I will add this servants have an association, if they dont wanna work for you they wont work. Anupama said for the maids was absolutely right. Servants ke nakhre zabardast hote hai. Unse Badtameezi nahi karte, Unko sir bethakar kaam karna padta hai

Kavya want to have a full time servant. I think she is right to hire a maid, but a full time maid is a bit questionable to me. My concern in the above paragraph was not to not hire servants. But they are behaving as if they dont like to work at all. You cannot be lazy and give orders. Maids should be limited to certain works only. Sab kaam karlegi to laziness ghusne mein time nahi lagta. Rakhi saying that her daughter wont work she wil pay for the salary. Har ek aurat ko kaam karna hi padta hai, its not only your Kinjal. Every middle class family has to work. But a stereotype has to broken that a man cant do a household work. I am waiting that this stereotype is broken. Kinjal should have a part time servant, thoda kaam bhi karegi to zyada khush rahegi.

Everyone is lazy to do work, paise de kar chhute ho jaao. The more you work, the more healthy you become. Think positively sometimes. In the 365 days, I say agar 60 din bhi ghar ka kaam khud karna pad jaaye to paseene chhut jaate hai. But servants ko aisa nahi hota hoga?. The servants have become more healthier because of us. Work for 60 days for own and get healthy. Un servants ko bhi chhuti de do kabhi. Be kind to them for somedays. They are also humans at the end of the day.

In my home there are 3 servants, but they dont do furniture cleaning, they dont clean our Washrooms, they dont apply water to my plants on anytime needed. They dont clean the mess in my home, when my niece spoils the home. They dont cook food in my home, they dont do Diwali work in my home, they dont clean the sofas, they dont clean our cars, they dont clean my temple. Here in Anupama, hiring a maid means no one is gonna work. That's not the reality. If they work for you all the time, they you are inviting yourself to be unhealthy. Learn to divide house work

REST ALL THE MEMBERS ARE LAZY, KINJAL AND ANUPAMA ARE BUSY, KAVYA IS STRESSED (NO SHE IS THE STRESS CREATOR

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Kya kar rahi hai Surabhi 🤣

Maid pe hot discussion chal raha hai

WHat you said is true, lazy ho jaate hai log, even I agree. Jab lockdwon hua tha and maid nahi aati thi toh kaam karna padta tha toh starting main bohot problem hoti thi, but then 1-2 week main aadat pad gayi and kuch difference nahi laga then after getting used to.

Aaj Anupamaa ne kavya ur kinjal pe decision chhor diya of keeping a maid or not, infact baa ko bhi jaake kavya ka point of view samjhaya and how she has right to decide if she wants to work at home or not. And what did kavya do, she was smirking when Rakhi called anu as maid. Thats the difference. And anupamaa was right maid se kaam karvana ek bada task hai, my mom also sometimes feels that ki maid ko samjhane se acha hai main khud hi kaam kar lu. She just said the real practical thing. What's wrong in that. She didn't tell kavya not to hire a maid for herself.

We are family of 5 and 4 members earn in my family, even after that we don't have full time maid. Bcoz they charge too much. Maid comes for cleaning rooms and washing utensils once in day time and once at night and then leaves. Even if you hire maid for cooking they also cook and leave.

And in mumbai a maid who cooks charges 5k to 7k based on no of people in house and for cleaning and washing they charge 2k to 3k. So all in all 8k to 10k if you keep maid for all work who work and leave. But a whole time maid charges 17k to 20k, so there is a difference of almost 7k to 10k which according to me its too high. And whats imp is saving, doesn't matter how much you save, small small savings only help later, even our moms do the same.

Full time maid ka koi matlab hi nahi hai for 2 people, I feel its waste of money. For kavya and V she has to just cook breakfast and at the same time prepare their lunch and after that clean their room and leave. And for dinner she can come in evening and make food and wash utensils and go. It saves lot of money and since Vanraj is not earning shouldn't she be thinking of saving money? A full time maid are costly. I am not saying she is wrong in hiring maid, I am saying hiring full time maid for 2 people is waste of money. And kavya ke khud ke ghar pe bhi jo maid thi woh full time nahi thi, she used work and go. Also like toshu and pakhi said your privacy gets affected and also staying with maid whom you don't know at all.

And if Anupamaa wants to work no on should have an issue, she is not forcing anyone to work na. Many people like and prefer doing home work khud and she said jhilmil will be back so till that time she doesn't want to again put time and energy in teaching new maid everything, she prefers instead doing the job khud. She is not stopping kavya from hiring the maid, Woh apne liye decision le rahi hai that she is fine doing ghar ka kaam, jaise kavya apne liye decision le rahi hai that she is not fine doing ghar ka kaam.

I don't know why here everyone is making this an issue if Anupamaa wants to work at her own will.

I liked how Anupamaa explained baa Kavya's pov and how she cannot expect one way acceptance, if she doesn't consider her bahu then she should not expect her to ask her everything. But here the issue is Kavya is not even making any efforts that they start accepting her. That scene of Anu and Baa was cute.

ANu and Samar dancing was also kinda nice, Anu apni masti main mast hai, she preparing chocolates for kids was so sweet.

Rakhi was so rude to say she will pay the salary of servant, how was Vanraj silently listening I don't understand.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

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Originally posted by: neo7

WHat you said is true, lazy ho jaate hai log, even I agree. Jab lockdwon hua tha and maid nahi aati thi toh kaam karna padta tha toh starting main bohot problem hoti thi, but then 1-2 week main aadat pad gayi and kuch difference nahi laga then after getting used to.

Aaj Anupamaa ne kavya ur kinjal pe decision chhor diya of keeping a maid or not, infact baa ko bhi jaake kavya ka point of view samjhaya and how she has right to decide if she wants to work at home or not. And what did kavya do, she was smirking when Rakhi called anu as maid. Thats the difference. And anupamaa was right maid se kaam karvana ek bada task hai, my mom also sometimes feels that ki maid ko samjhane se acha hai main khud hi kaam kar lu. She just said the real practical thing. What's wrong in that. She didn't tell kavya not to hire a maid for herself.

We are family of 5 and 4 members earn in my family, even after that we don't have full time maid. Bcoz they charge too much. Maid comes for cleaning rooms and washing utensils once in day time and once at night and then leaves. Even if you hire maid for cooking they also cook and leave.

And in mumbai a maid who cooks charges 5k to 7k based on no of people in house and for cleaning and washing they charge 2k to 3k. So all in all 8k to 10k if you keep maid for all work who work and leave. But a whole time maid charges 17k to 20k, so there is a difference of almost 7k to 10k which according to me its too high. And whats imp is saving, doesn't matter how much you save, small small savings only help later, even our moms do the same.

Full time maid ka koi matlab hi nahi hai for 2 people, I feel its waste of money. For kavya and V she has to just cook breakfast and at the same time prepare their lunch and after that clean their room and leave. And for dinner she can come in evening and make food and wash utensils and go. It saves lot of money and since Vanraj is not earning shouldn't she be thinking of saving money? A full time maid are costly. I am not saying she is wrong in hiring maid, I am saying hiring full time maid for 2 people is waste of money. And kavya ke khud ke ghar pe bhi jo maid thi woh full time nahi thi, she used work and go. Also like toshu and pakhi said your privacy gets affected and also staying with maid whom you don't know at all.

And if Anupamaa wants to work no on should have an issue, she is not forcing anyone to work na. Many people like and prefer doing home work khud and she said jhilmil will be back so till that time she doesn't want to again put time and energy in teaching new maid everything, she prefers instead doing the job khud. She is not stopping kavya from hiring the maid, Woh apne liye decision le rahi hai that she is fine doing ghar ka kaam, jaise kavya apne liye decision le rahi hai that she is not fine doing ghar ka kaam.

I don't know why here everyone is making this an issue if Anupamaa wants to work at her own will.

I liked how Anupamaa explained baa Kavya's pov and how she cannot expect one way acceptance, if she doesn't consider her bahu then she should not expect her to ask her everything. But here the issue is Kavya is not even making any efforts that they start accepting her. That scene of Anu and Baa was cute.

ANu and Samar dancing was also kinda nice, Anu apni masti main mast hai, she preparing chocolates for kids was so sweet.

Rakhi was so rude to say she will pay the salary of servant, how was Vanraj silently listening I don't understand.

Agar maid full time sab ke liye hoti to bhi I will be like what is this? Mere ghar par mein servant ko tolerate nahi kar sakti. Some are gossip aunties you know.

You staying in Mumbai is definitely costlier to have a servant. Here in Ahmedabad they charge heavily and even they charge the same in Mehsana my home town. Mehsana is less modern than Ahmedabad and Mumbai both.

Kavya was talking as if paise ka ped laga hai