Maid or no maid - Page 2

frozen vegetables only use the peoples like me other than that everyone makes the fresh roties and uses fresh vegetables and every thing i used to do the same and had trained all my boys and girls the same as well .

Btw foreign mein bhi house keeper hoti hai

i dont understand some people just because Anupama is working all house chores people label her as maid ? apne ghar ke kam karne se koi maid ban jata han mean our mothers are maid ??

apne ghar ka aur apne family ka kaam karne se koi maid nahi ban jata han agar anupama rakhi ke ghar kam karte in that cases you call her as maid not in this situation

iam living in UAE after pandemic start we dont have any maid in the house and we didnt bring new one yet because my mother and we all happily doing all works

Yes we have maid

Aur waise bhi wahaan Canada mein ur family help in doing house hold chote se once in a Week

Agar aise anupama ki help uske bachhe anupama ki house hold chores kar rahe hote to baat hi kya thi

But yahan anupama ki help uske bache to kar nahin rahe to yeh bilkul totally in practical hai anupama saara kaam akele woh bhi saat 7 member kar legi

Do u think it is really possible for anupama to do all house hold chores of 7 member all alone wiithout help of maid or with out taking help family member

Yes anupama working like maid or cvs just showing totally unrealistic thing ghat sher can cook all alone for 7 member

Anupama can teach can Even teach dance and can cook for 7 member and still Dont get tired this is totally unrealistic

Yes kinjal is helping but only kinjal is not sufficient. Anupama ko aur men power ki jaroorat hai to do house hold chores

But to be surprise yahan pur anupama ko super woman ki tarah dikha rahe hain that sher can cook for 7 member she can wash utensil for 7 member she can cook for 7 member plus she can teach in school she can run online as well as i that too allmost all alone and never get tired. So filmy

Jub koi intne saare member ka kaam almost akele karna pade aur use apne liye thoda sa bhi time nahi mile to aisi to aise mein uski position maid jaise hui yahi anupama ka haal hai

Originally posted by: LoveSana

yes you will be surprised. Women actually go to work, make food, clean the house, drive their kids to school, dishes, and some of them even go to college in the evening because they want to get a better job for their kids. Indian society is more privileged, fir kahengay ke foreign mein to paisa hi paisa hai. Paisa hai nahi bachaya hai yaar.

Anupama couldn't do all of this on her own, go back to when she started working again. Even she had to hire a maid. If you hire a maid, you have to understand they also have a life and may have to manage. I personally wouldnt trust a maid in my house 24 hours. What if koi churi karjae. It is good to know how much what costs, she can charge you extra and keep the money for herself.

Hi Canadian 🤗 I live in Toronto and I used to work 16 hours a day including job, my catering business and my MLM business and I am single mom so you can understand how hard to manage and some of my relatives asked money for renters home repair ( they don't like wall colors ) so when I said no they think I am egotistic but how we lives here they don't understand.. for us house maid 24×7 is luxury but then Indian situation is different they wants to eat 2 full meals full breakfast and countless times tea or coffee 😁 so itne sare bartan to clean each and every time you use it it's hard work and here guests only weekend pe phone karke ate hai India mai to koe bhi kabhi bhi tapak padta hai 😆 so some time I prefer 24 hours or atlast cooking lady 😉

What I don't understand is why can't everyone do their own work in the house? There are 7 members, ok fine minus baa and bapuji, there are 5 adults who are completely capable of doing household work. Why don't they make schedules on cooking, cleaning etc etc? One day, say Anupama makes food, Kinjal helps around, next day say Samar and Toshu can do it.. next day kavya and vanraj, pakhi etc. For cleaning dishes and other errands, they can bring a maid. Why are they making this such a big deal??

Its true that in abroad we don't have maids because maids are expensive and we do all our work ourselves, go to work, cook, clean, wash dishes, do laundry etc etc...Its just that we don't live in such a big joint family...

Men in the shah household need to start helping around. They can definitely keep a maid as its affordable to do so in India unlike here in US, Canada etc where having a maid is a privilege... but everyone needs to contribute if they all wanna live in a joint family efficiently without any stress.. or else everyone move out and live on their own 🤪🤪

Originally posted by: kooki07

frozen vegetables only use the peoples like me other than that everyone makes the fresh roties and uses fresh vegetables and every thing i used to do the same and had trained all my boys and girls the same as well .

We don't make rotis and sabjis everyday... You can eat different food too. We maybe eat our food once a week like rice, daal, sabji, meat curry etc... Rotis only sometimes. Other times, I make salmon & asparagus, Salads, rice bowls etc. which are a lot easier to make and also healthy.

But I understand in india, people will mostly only eat indian food.. but still you can make it efficient if everyone contributes to cooking.. Anupama's kids don't contribute to household chores, Vanraj doesn't do shit at home and Kavya, forget her .... Why should only Anupmaa and Kinjal take responsibility of making food and cleaning for everyone? Everyone needs to contribute, barring baa and bapuji as they are old. However Baa can still hep around with small things like sabji katna etc.

And Rakhi is absolutely right, whatever she said.

Originally posted by: dipali13

Hi Canadian 🤗 I live in Toronto and I used to work 16 hours a day including job, my catering business and my MLM business and I am single mom so you can understand how hard to manage and some of my relatives asked money for renters home repair ( they don't like wall colors ) so when I said no they think I am egotistic but how we lives here they don't understand.. for us house maid 24×7 is luxury but then Indian situation is different they wants to eat 2 full meals full breakfast and countless times tea or coffee 😁 so itne sare bartan to clean each and every time you use it it's hard work and here guests only weekend pe phone karke ate hai India mai to koe bhi kabhi bhi tapak padta hai 😆 so some time I prefer 24 hours or atlast cooking lady 😉

Exactly. Its like in india and back home, everyone just wants to eat like 5 times a day 😆 ... Hamare yahan USA main toh aisa nahi hota lol.. We legit eat only 3 times.. that also I don't eat breakfast as I am currently doing Intermittent fasting so technically I only eat twice a day and maybe a snack and coffee, tea sometimes. I know how we live here, people back home don't understand and how they live back home, we won't understand i guess lol.. In fact I don't even understand how people live in a joint family, like 7 members. It just seems very exhausting... but ig its common in India...

As shah family daily eat sabji parantha in break fast and paratha banne mein time lagta hai. It took about 5 minute to cook 1 paratha

Then jahaan 7 member sabke liye chaar parathey bane to subah naashte mein

To 1 paratha banane mein 5 minute to 28 paratha banne mein around 2 ghante plus saji bhi banani to aadjha ghante sabji banne mein time nikal gaya

To saat member ke liye 2 and hrs to sabji paratha as break fast banane mein nikal gaye

Phir break ke baad kitchen table aur khuch naashta ke bartan maanjhne iske liye around 30 minute chahiye to subah ke 3 ghante aisi hi nikal gaye

Phir lunch aur dinner ke liye 3 hrs nikal gaye to khane banne ka total hrs around 5 hrs to aisi hi nikal gaya

Phir ghar ki saath

Like dusting it took at laash 30 minute

Phir jhaadu pochha 1 hrs

Cleanining bathroom around 1 hr

2 hr for utensil

1 hrs for washing cloth

To basic saaf safaai mein 5 hr 30 minute lag gaye

So saara ghar ka kaam karne mein 10 se 11 ghante lag gaye aur job bhi karni hai to for 8 hrs

To 18 hrs nikal gaye ghar ka kaam karna plus job karne mein to anupama ko apne liye time kahan mila aur propely at leasy 1 0 hr sone ka time kaha mila. She is only getting 6 hrs sleep when there is surgery . Is 6 hrs sleep is sufficient after surgery.

Aur pata nahin anupama ko dance academy ke liye time kahan se milega

I just saw the precap. Lol Kavya has hired full time maid for 2 people.😂😂😂

2 logon ke liye toh full time maid India main bhi nahi rakhte. 😂😂😂 Its such a waste of money

Infact middle class or even upper middle class people cannot afford full time maid in India even if the family is of more than 4. They charge too much.

Lagta hai ye maid kavya ko lori gaa ke sulaegi bhi 😂😂