What is wrong with what Kavya said? - Page 3

Originally posted by: desi-chai

Vanraj always had sense of entitlement that women around him make him feel like a king. No wonder Rakhi is so mad looking at Kinjal becoming another Anupama. pne ghar ke kaam karne mein there is no problem, but not at the cost of one's dreams and career.

I understand rakhis anxiety as well ,she never wanted to give her daughter there because of how vanraj is n how Anupama was treated.truely I don't like vanraj as a person ,kia hoga usne apne family ke liye bahut but he is a trash towards woman ,my only question to him would be will u let ur daughter marry in a household where men like him r there?

i still cant end my curiosity around why KAVYA CHOSE VANRAJ? She had already experienced what kind of MCP he is. She has seen him dominating over women in his life, including her. A sensible working woman who is financially independent....wudnt have done what Kavya did.

Trust me even I don't understand her love n obsession for vanraj,she knew he is MCP, egoistic n typical example of horrible men in relationship,khud ke do relationship hai par partner opposite sex se khul ke baat nahi kar sakti ,khud se paani bhi nahi peena hai woh bhi maharaj ko haat mein do ,yeh wahi hai jisse ghar mein Savitri aur bahar madona chahiye uski sahuliyat ke hisaab se..he is the flag bearer of the red flag ..she knows all this still she married himpata nahi kaunse heere moti jade hai ispar ya kaunse rang ki patti chadhi uske akal par ki yeh sab samne rehte hue bhi she married him.u r so right koi bhi independent n sensible working woman will never marry a man like him

Ab bhugto bas !!!! Sachi ab toh bhugatna hi hai usse, apni murakhta ka prasad milta rahega usse.

i think she could not digest it how Anupama type of woman got everything in life so she just wanted to snatch it away every thing from Anupama and now from the family as well lets see where she we end up into the mental assailum or can grab every thing from the family ,because she is not a normal person . i think .

Finally someone said it. Just because Kavya is a vamp doesn't mean what she said was not correct. What's the issue in having a maid. She is working full time and her job is way more difficult than Anupama's. And how can Vanraj expect her to serve tea as soon as he is home. I am loving this new couple. Vanraj also needs to learn that things won't go according to his wish. He can't command anyone at any time.

If a woman wishes to do house hold chores then it is her choice but expecting her to do that just because she is the woman is total bull crap. People say that it's 21st century and women and working but they forget that women are still supposed to cook and clean in addition to working. Why can't Vanraj help her with household stuff? Specially when he is jobless at the moment.

Baa and Bapuji are so cunning. They got a full time free of cost maid for themselves. Anupama just had a major surgery and she should be in bed recovering. Instead she is cooking, dancing and what not

Having a maid is not something to be ashamed of. Specially for a working woman. You can not expect her to do everything and that too when the husband is utterly useless. Of course it's ITV, any sensible female will be shown as the villain. Cause according to them woman is supposed to be self sacrificing, who slogs in the kitchen and makes lavish breakfast for 6 people after having cancer surgery few days ago. And none of her grown up kids help her in anyway. Just say 'yeh kaam toh bahu ka hota hai'.

The writers are hell bent on showing Anupamaa as always right and always mahaan

The show, writing & way of showing women is antiquated

They have made a mockery of what progressive means

The show should be called Shah Kitchen Wars now

Originally posted by: Rohil.ban12

Yes….. true that…. Log yeh toh bahut bol rahe haiAnupama ne pov samjhaya Baa ko lekin kavya aur rakhi ka yeh point nahi samjh rahe ki isse help hi hoge… chahe thode ho…. Makers pata nahi kyu operation ke baad zyada mahanta dikha rahe hai….

Main toh janan chaahunga konse ghar main log apne parents ke aise surgery ke baad unse kaam karvate hai joint family ka ko aise Anupama ke view points support kar rahe hai

Anupama pov rakhe toh aacha hai rakhi kavya ne rakha hai toh voh manipulate ya selfish ban jate hai wowww…. Jabki aaj ke episode main aisa kuch nahi dikhaya KI rakhi ne kinjal ko ya Kavya ne maid se Anupama ki help vala point deliberately ya manipulative way se bola tha….

But people don’t understand that…. Unko toh negative characters vamps hi lag rahe hai aur Anupama jaise kuch zyada hi aache…. Not thinking practically 😊😊😊😊

And that means you are fine ki Anupama baki sabka kaam karte rahe baa Bapuji Samar toshu pakhi and all and office bhi jaye academy bhi dekhe great 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 Awsmmmm and mahanta overloaded hote jaye

Rest maine generic comment bola tha if people are supporting such modernised thoughts of Anupama then voh bhi aise open minded ho… I never pointed on you but still if you are taking this on you then that’s not my problem…. Hope so tumhare family main aise kabhi koi problem na aaye… 😊😊🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

I just hope aap Anupama jaise viewpoints na rakhe 😂🤣😅 aur practical rahe 😝 and then realise kare what stupidity Anupama makers are showing

Originally posted by: dipali13

you know what but kitchen is my stress buster aap mujhe pagal bhi bol sakte ho par maina apne masalo se apne khane se apne dil ki baat bolti rehti hu ye mujhe apne lagte hai😳 mera apna catering ka business tha aur log kehte the ke meri eyes par patti lagado to bhi same test mileage..so I completely understand Anupama here..I used to live in joint family 12 people and guests to mano every day 3 4 to ate hi the so I know how hard to manage...I agree with kavya regarding maid but to cal some one maid it's unfair

Calling is wrong…. But treating her like a maid is different…. Sabne aate saar toh demands rakh do the even Samar kinjal ne ki hum coffee piyenge shake piyenge koi chai koi kuch

And moreover ghar ka 1/3rd hissa dekar bhi usko store room mila rehne ke liye…

And operation ke baad kon uske extra help karta dikhaya hai… sab apna kaam hi karva rahe hai,.. kabhi chai kabhi paranthe kabhi kuch,… baa bapuji ne aata goondha ya sabzi kare voh pehle bhi karte the… extra precaution ha help ke liye kon ageh aaya….

So that why mostly we think ki family usse maid ki tarah treat kar rahe hai,… and she is letting them treat har… Haq hota toh voh bolte main bhi rest karunga and all

Samar help karde Pakhi help karde maa apne bacho ko help ke liye bolte hai aise situations main but yahan 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

Originally posted by: Rohil.ban12

Calling is wrong…. But treating her like a maid is different…. Sabne aate saar toh demands rakh do the even Samar kinjal ne ki hum coffee piyenge shake piyenge koi chai koi kuch

And moreover ghar ka 1/3rd hissa dekar bhi usko store room mila rehne ke liye…

And operation ke baad kon uske extra help karta dikhaya hai… sab apna kaam hi karva rahe hai,.. kabhi chai kabhi paranthe kabhi kuch,… baa bapuji ne aata goondha ya sabzi kare voh pehle bhi karte the… extra precaution ha help ke liye kon ageh aaya….

So that why mostly we think ki family usse maid ki tarah treat kar rahe hai,… and she is letting them treat har… Haq hota toh voh bolte main bhi rest karunga and all

Samar help karde Pakhi help karde maa apne bacho ko help ke liye bolte hai aise situations main but yahan 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

Na baa ne vanraj ko sikhaya help karna, na anupamaa ne apne bacho sukhaya help karna. In this case both Anupamaa and Baa are wrong.

Originally posted by: neo7

Na baa ne vanraj ko sikhaya help karna, na anupamaa ne apne bacho sukhaya help karna. In this case both Anupamaa and Baa are wrong.

Yes, finally we agree on something 😂🤣🤣🤣😂 after such long day😅😝

But yahi sab cheeze mujhe mahanta lagte hai uske bas…. Hope they quickly introduce Anupamas friend track where Anuj will made everyone realise how they are treating her….

Originally posted by: Rohil.ban12

Yes, finally we agree on something 😂🤣🤣🤣😂 after such long day😅😝

But yahi sab cheeze mujhe mahanta lagte hai uske bas…. Hope they quickly introduce Anupamas friend track where Anuj will made everyone realise how they are treating her….

Its not mahanta, its the reality of india. Many families in India still think that its men's job to earn money and women's job to take care of house and kids. Many don't teach their sons basic cleaning and cooking. But they will start pestering the daughter to start learning cooking and household works.

Originally posted by: neo7

Its not mahanta, its the reality of india. Many families in India still think that its men's job to earn money and women's job to take care of house and kids. Many don't teach their sons basic cleaning and cooking. But they will start pestering the daughter to start learning cooking and household works.

Yes that is true for Our society… but yahan Anupama help le sakte the ya serial main Kinjal ne ya Pakhi tak ne ek baar bhi nahi bola ki hum help karenge ya bana denge aap baith jao… which was quite oddd…. Areh cancer ke operation se thik hokar she came back just like everyone and after lot of drama outside their house but Samar kinjal tak ne kuch nahi kaha ki rehne do bas hum pani pee lenge ya bahar se kuch aa jayega… sab apne demands dekar baith gay….

Chalo uthna bhi thik the irritating part was when she said Kavya yes for making her tea and told her to rest so 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️