Irritating lady

Why is anupama becoming so intefering now-a- days in Vanya lives?

The line in precap by kavya is very true-: one doesnt need to be a good cook but a smart person to manage house.

Not everyone is superwoman like you woman. Let some people be normal humans too who need help in multitasking. Hiring a full time maid is probably the best idea . office bhi sambhal jayega aur ghar bhi.

Ans whats with this "aate dal ka bhav to pata hai na"? Are you serious?

On one side she has awesome modern thoughts about children dating, dressing , parties and stuff and on the other side having regressive thoughts? Han nhi hoti hai sbki top priority aapki tarah family manage krna(24 hrs maid bnke rehna), So what?

Everyoe knows shahs are habituated for taking things for granted.

Rakhi's concerns are also not wrong. Shahs kinjal ko kb granted lena shuru kr denge nhi pta. Better be safe than sorry

Yes nothing wromg in keeping maid. Chalo baa bapuji ne apne age ke hisaab se kaam kar liya like sabji kaatna making dough but what about sare kamre ka jhadoo pochakhanvaala And dusting and all

Kya kinjal anupama ke paas itna time and energy hai jo khaana bhi banaye jhaadu pochha bhi kare dusting bhi kare kapde bhi dho yeh jub job kar rahi hon

. I know baa jhaadu pochha aur dusting jo nahin kar paayenge age Dont Permit theme . Anupama aur kinjal bhi nahin kar payenge kyonki agar subah subah sara kaam karenge to late honge office and school ke liye

To khane banane ke elawa jo saaf safaai ka kaam hai woh kaun karega. Uske liye maid lagani hi padegi

Originally posted by: shiva02

Why is anupama becoming so intefering now-a- days in Vanya lives?

The line in precap by kavya is very true-: one doesnt need to be a good cook but a smart person to manage house.

Not everyone is superwoman like you woman. Let some people be normal humans too who need help in multitasking. Hiring a full time maid is probably the best idea . office bhi sambhal jayega aur ghar bhi.

Ans whats with this "aate dal ka bhav to pata hai na"? Are you serious?

On one side she has awesome modern thoughts about children dating, dressing , parties and stuff and on the other side having regressive thoughts? Han nhi hoti hai sbki top priority aapki tarah family manage krna(24 hrs maid bnke rehna), So what?

Everyoe knows shahs are habituated for taking things for granted.

Rakhi's concerns are also not wrong. Shahs kinjal ko kb granted lena shuru kr denge nhi pta. Better be safe than sorry

I too agree that Rakhis concern was correct for Kinjal… Don’t know why people are not understanding Rakhis concern as a mom while people understand every concern of Anupama…. For Kinjal she always cares… and yes jisne apne bete ko itne rich aur luxurious lifestyle main rakha ho where kinjal didn’t even do a single work and was always focused on career, vo apne bete ko aise dekh ke khush kabhi nahi hoga..: though yeh kinjal ka decision hai ki kya karna hai kya nahi but her concern is correct that what is the issue of hiring a full time maid for your help when you can afford and need it… chahe usne jaise marzi card play kiya ho but she was apt in saying ki Anupama ka abhi operation hua hai and Baa and Bapuji ko enjoy karne dena chaiye rather than doing household chores.. so hire a maid for their help if not for yours…: kitne episodes se yahi aa raha hai ki Anupama surgery ke baad bhi kaam pe ja rahe hai and ghar ka kaam bhi kar rahe hai which is illogical as tumor koi chote baat nahi the….

And she was correct with Anupama and Vanraj example ki Anupama thoda time agar vanraj ko dete than spending time in kitchen(overrrrr time than some genuine time) toh shayad yeh baat hote na… so that was really a mistake and kinjal should learn and spend some time with toshu… and yes it seems like they are bit moving towards that track where toshu will act like Vanraj… or will have new girl in her life..,. As this was in other versions…

Working hokar dono cheez manage karna mushkil hota hai… Anupama toh mahan hai… but har koi habitual nahi hota so full time maid ko hire karna itna issue nahi hona chaiye jaise Baa aur Anupama ne bana diya hai… Kavya already maid se kaam karvate the apne flat main… pakhi ne bhi kaha tha ki kaid aate the kaam karte chale jate the so she knows how to manage them…

Shahs toh vaise bhi for granted lete hai sab… Baa ke bhi toh vahi dialogue hai mera beta ghaas phoos thode khayega… aur kal se khana khaana ho toh bata dena…. matlab abhi bhi Anupama banate rahe uske ex husband and uske wife ka khana so annoying… Baa ko directly kavya ko bolna chaiye itna behas karne se aacha ki ab apna aur Apne V ka khana khud banao hum kyu dekhe…

But Baa ko toh bete ki khushi chaiye

Rakhi was correct ki yeh kaam karna apke majboori and adat ban jate hai… aap foregranted lene lagte hai sab cheeze ko jaise shahs ne already Anupama ke saath kiya ab Kinjal ke saath hoga… yeh toh Anupama kinjal se karvate nahi varna baa ko toh koi rok na sake….

So maid hire karna issue nahi hona chaiye if someone is working actually,…

Yeah over the last 2-3 months or so Anupama's character has been completely butchered by these CVs.

I really don't get how this is supposed to be empowering, more like embarrassing lol.

when i started watching the show it was going their 25th wedding anniversary at that time i said it its the wife who is the first person to figure it out that why her husband is not interested in her if he is getting interested with another women why what is the difference is she have so wife trys to improve herself the way her husband wants to see her but she kept pleasing the rest of the family but not her husband and why she gave a chance a his co worker strange woman to stay in her house and letting them spending the time together that means she never loved her husband it was just for the name sake or her kids dad. but now i come to the forum just to enjoy the lectures of mahan aatma.

Originally posted by: kooki07

when i started watching the show it was going their 25th wedding anniversary at that time i said it its the wife who is the first person to figure it out that why her husband is not interested in her if he is getting interested with another women why what is the difference is she have so wife trys to improve herself the way her husband wants to see her but she kept pleasing the rest of the family but not her husband and why she gave a chance a his co worker strange woman to stay in her house and letting them spending the time together that means she never loved her husband it was just for the name sake or her kids dad. but now i come to the forum just to enjoy the lectures of mahan aatma.

Idk, personally I don't think it's fair to blame someone who was cheated on for their partner's cheating, and I never felt any differently when it came to Vanraj and Anupama's case...

But it was a little weird that Anu didn't suspect anything all these years, especially since it's not like Vanraj made great efforts to present himself as an ideal husband or anything, and his so-called "friendship" with Kavya was always weird.

And tbh where if you look at it one way it can seem like Anu never loved Vanraj to begin with, the way I'm seeing it, it looks like Anu is actually still in love with him, and only pretending to have moved on.

First she hid the cheating from everyone, dressed up and danced in Vanraj's birthday celebration post revelation, kept on her mangalsutra till the very last minute, and now she's living with him and his new wife?

I hate Kavya but I don't think she's being totally illogical when she assumes that Anu still has feelings for her Vee and is trying to get back together with him lol.

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

Idk, personally I don't think it's fair to blame someone who was cheated on for their partner's cheating, and I never felt any differently when it came to Vanraj and Anupama's case...

But it was a little weird that Anu didn't suspect anything all these years, especially since it's not like Vanraj made great efforts to present himself as an ideal husband or anything, and his so-called "friendship" with Kavya was always weird.

And tbh where if you look at it one way it can seem like Anu never loved Vanraj to begin with, the way I'm seeing it, it looks like Anu is actually still in love with him, and only pretending to have moved on.

First she hid the cheating from everyone, dressed up and danced in Vanraj's birthday celebration post revelation, kept on her mangalsutra till the very last minute, and now she's living with him and his new wife?

I hate Kavya but I don't think she's being totally illogical when she assumes that Anu still has feelings for her Vee and is trying to get back together with him lol.

Agree to everything you said, even I can accept that Anu may still have some left feeling for Vanraj, afterall she loved him for 25 years, but she is definately not trying to get back, if she wanted to she had an opportunity to withdraw divorve, Vanraj literally begged in front of her, but she did not. She was very clear of not accepting him back and that holds true even now.

i think Vanraj did not wanted to move on into the new life and still can not .

you lot can assume what i meant to write because of my broken glasses.

Anupamaa just needs to be shown as mahaan in every situation.

So when it suits her character to be modern they show that

When it comes to show Kavya down, they make Anu stupid and regressive

You know what…if everyone just did their part in the house they wouldn’t need a full time maid maybe just someone to come in and clean the house every other day

more and more working families in Canada have a cleaning lady come once a week to deep clean the house