Why u ppl hate vanr? - Page 2

PS: and not to forget, it was not Kavya who has manipulated Vanraj (ever), it has always been Vanraj who has manipulated EVERYONE.

It's just recently that she has started with all the manipulation drama (oof makers) due to insecurity (and maybe misunderstanding created by Pakhi!)

Anu will not go back to bcnaraj than they would be no reason for thier divorce and the imortance of how bad an EMF is

You say that Anupama will wholeheartedly accept Vanraj if he throws away Kavya.......

No not at all....

It's not Kavya who should be disliked or hated...she is not the reason for Vanraj cheating on Anu.

Its one and only...and only Vanraj who cheated on Anu , never let her do anything on her own will, that men threw Anupama out of the house...and even when it was only Babuji's house.

Vanraj totally deserves the hate that he is getting...and even now after everything is in front of everyone....all his deeds are well known by everybody....

Toshu, pakhi, Baa are saying that Anupama should forgive him and that the house is broken because Anu didn't forgive Vanraj...

Agar ek baar ke liye hum maan le ki Anupama Vanraj ko maaf karne ka soche...toh kya Vanraj ko kabhi bhi apni galti ka guilt hua hai....kya usne kabhi maafi maangi hai jo Anupama usse maaf kar de...jise aapni galti lagti hi nahi hai, jo guily hi nahi hai...use kya maaf kiya jaa sakta hai...?????

Or either saying that Kavya broke their house and their family...she just loves Vanraj and didn't manipulated him or swooned him...if he would not have reciprocated her love...then Kavya would have forgot Vanraj or didn't fell in love with him.

I am not against their love but what Vanraj did and is still doing is wrong. Kavya and Vanraj loving each other is not wrong but him cheating on Anupama is wrong. He should have told Anupama when he started relationship with Kavya and ethically get divorce with Anupama or shouldn't have married her at the beginning if he never liked her.

And even now nobody finds Vanraj guily for what he did....it's neither Anupama nor Kavya who is the reason of all this , it's solely vanraj who is a cheater, lier and a bad person. If he was not a bad perosn nobody could have made him cheat on his wife.

Huh??

I honestly can't believe you're asking WHY Vanraj/"Vee" is hated by us 😕...

He was clearly a terrible husband to Anu even if you leave aside the cheating....

Imo it's regressive and senseless thinking that other woman is more responsible than the husband for affair... we have to remember Kavya wasn't the one who vowed to love and respect Anu, stay loyal to her, took 7 phere with her... that was Vanraj! It's his responsibility to protect his marriage, not Kavya's... Plus Vanraj was Kavya's boss at work (giving him a lot more power), so it's plain to see that he would have been the one to initiate this affair... (not even trying to justify Kavya btw, anyone who's seen more of my posts here would know I hate her🤢)...

And if third person is always the worst one, then why are we forgetting that even "Vee" was third person in Kavya's marriage? Could he not be accused of breaking up Kavya's home/family?

Why should only Kavya get the blame? Because she's a woman??

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

Huh??

I honestly can't believe you're asking WHY Vanraj/"Vee" is hated by us 😕...

He was clearly a terrible husband to Anu even if you leave aside the cheating....

Imo it's regressive and senseless thinking that other woman is more responsible than the husband for affair... we have to remember Kavya wasn't the one who vowed to love and respect Anu, stay loyal to her, took 7 phere with her... that was Vanraj! It's his responsibility to protect his marriage, not Kavya's... Plus Vanraj was Kavya's boss at work (giving him a lot more power), so it's plain to see that he would have been the one to initiate this affair... (not even trying to justify Kavya btw, anyone who's seen more of my posts here would know I hate her🤢)...

And if third person is always the worst one, then why are we forgetting that even "Vee" was third person in Kavya's marriage? Could he not be accused of breaking up Kavya's home/family?

Why should only Kavya get the blame? Because she's a woman??

Kavya being married though separated still started eyeing paraya mard who is married.. Cudnt she just avoid falling for married man? Fact is Kavya is gold digger. She took full advantage of vanraj's missing friction with his wife. Upper class guy joh hai.

If she was so desperate to get hooked with new guy in life she cud hv easily put her bio in matrimonial advertisement service or look for some unmarried or divorced guy but no she went for someone didn't want break his marriage life even after going through hardship which many of you all in comments mentioned but Kavya used her illicit spicy life to get vanraj completely out of Anu life.

Originally posted by: Krrish4You

Kavya being married though separated still started eyeing paraya mard who is married.. Cudnt she just avoid falling for married man? Fact is Kavya is gold digger. She took full advantage of vanraj's missing friction with his wife. Upper class guy joh hai.

If she was so desperate to get hooked with new guy in life she cud hv easily put her bio in matrimonial advertisement service or look for some unmarried or divorced guy but no she went for someone didn't want break his marriage life even after going through hardship which many of you all in comments mentioned but Kavya used her illicit spicy life to get vanraj completely out of Anu life.

On the contrary, Vanraj took advantage of her vulnerability when she had marital problems. AniKa arguments have often showed us that she had problems with him over petty issues like not noticing her frustration, or not spending time with her or being careless at home. But the divorce was initiated when the affair with Vanraj started.

So Vanraj was the actual homebreaker, Kavya is just trying to cling on to whatever is left with her, as she has already put a lot at stake.

And there have been no signs of her being a golddigger. Vanraj has no wealth if he loses his job. And though Vanraj's junior, Kavya earns enough to have a good lifestyle. Like she doesn't own the apartment she stays in, Vanraj doesn't own the house with his nameplate either. But she has never forced him to go back and claim inheritance, rather she wants him to stay away as much as he can, for the fear of losing him.

Originally posted by: Krrish4You

Kavya being married though separated still started eyeing paraya mard who is married.. Cudnt she just avoid falling for married man? Fact is Kavya is gold digger. She took full advantage of vanraj's missing friction with his wife. Upper class guy joh hai.

If she was so desperate to get hooked with new guy in life she cud hv easily put her bio in matrimonial advertisement service or look for some unmarried or divorced guy but no she went for someone didn't want break his marriage life even after going through hardship which many of you all in comments mentioned but Kavya used her illicit spicy life to get vanraj completely out of Anu life.

First of all I do believe it was Vanraj who initiated the affair between them. This conclusion I came to is from the confrontation scene between Anupama and Vanraj. Only truth he told Anupama trying to whitewash his deed or manipulate her was when he confessed his affair with Kavya started during the time she was having marital problems (Even though he tried to manipulate Anu saying nothing is between them now thinking Anu did not see him declaring his love for Kavya). Clearly this does shows Kavya was in vulnerable state. I am not justifying Kavya. Just stating how Vanraj and Kavya's affair must have been started.

Secondly in one of the recent episodes Kavya taunted Vanraj of his middle class mentality. Clearly this does states she is from higher background.

Third Vanraj is not from upper class but can be said he is from upper middle class. Other than him being Boss and his high salary nothing is in his name. Which he can lose if his affair with Kavya comes out in his company.

Putting sole blame on Kavya is not right. Kavya was atleast little sympathetic towards Anupama before this week. Only because of her insecurity in losing her Vee she has become full negative and manipulative.

Lastly I hate Kavya but I despise Vanraj more than her.

Originally posted by: sillibilli

Krrish4you What I would say to you is Kavya doodh ki dhuli nahi hai maana, par Vanraj koi doodh peeta baccha bhi nahi hai jo wo kisi k behkaave me aa jaye.. Aur agar Kavya itni hi tezz hoti behkane me to wo aaj uski wife hoti mistress nahi.

Ulta Kavya is also a victim of Vanraj. Wo usko apni arm candy bana k rakhna chahta hai, apni life ke upar koi haq nahi dena chahta.

Aur Anupama ko usne kabhi pyar kiya hi nahi wo ye kayi baar khud bol chuka hai.

Exactly!

If v did not like a from starting, if not kavya.. it would be someone else in his life...

If v is/was suffocated in that relation - why he did NOT dare to explain that to family & ask anu for divorce even before he found kavya... ?????

Vanraj hid the affair and wants to have relationship with both.... be it with wife or GF, ...that is the worst and non-forgivable point: cheating / infidelity !

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

On the contrary, Vanraj took advantage of her vulnerability when she had marital problems. AniKa arguments have often showed us that she had problems with him over petty issues like not noticing her frustration, or not spending time with her or being careless at home. But the divorce was initiated when the affair with Vanraj started.

So Vanraj was the actual homebreaker, Kavya is just trying to cling on to whatever is left with her, as she has already put a lot at stake.

And there have been no signs of her being a golddigger. Vanraj has no wealth if he loses his job. And though Vanraj's junior, Kavya earns enough to have a good lifestyle. Like she doesn't own the apartment she stays in, Vanraj doesn't own the house with his nameplate either. But she has never forced him to go back and claim inheritance, rather she wants him to stay away as much as he can, for the fear of losing him.

As u said, she can't even tolerate petty issues so got separated.. This shows how vulnerable in relationship she is at least vanraj wasn't like that he kept his and Anu's short comings in their bedroom or when they were alone..

Originally posted by: arshi8927

First of all I do believe it was Vanraj who initiated the affair between them. This conclusion I came to is from the confrontation scene between Anupama and Vanraj. Only truth he told Anupama trying to whitewash his deed or manipulate her was when he confessed his affair with Kavya started during the time she was having marital problems (Even though he tried to manipulate Anu saying nothing is between them now thinking Anu did not see him declaring his love for Kavya). Clearly this does shows Kavya was in vulnerable state. I am not justifying Kavya. Just stating how Vanraj and Kavya's affair must have been started.

Secondly in one of the recent episodes Kavya taunted Vanraj of his middle class mentality. Clearly this does states she is from higher background.

👆 I agree vanraj has middle class mentality that's why he was reluctant to break his happy family. (His family ws happy till EMA got revealed)

Another point, even if he has MCM, Kavya with her high class mentality of taking relationship with zero value got vanraj in trouble.

Third Vanraj is not from upper class but can be said he is from upper middle class. Other than him being Boss and his high salary nothing is in his name. Which he can lose if his affair with Kavya comes out in his company.

Putting sole blame on Kavya is not right. Kavya was atleast little sympathetic towards Anupama before this week. Only because of her insecurity in losing her Vee she has become full negative and manipulative.

Lastly I hate Kavya but I despise Vanraj more than her.