Does anyone buy the reason V has to give.. - Page 3

Originally posted by: Shelly_392

So true!

For once let's just say you weren't in a position to choose your bride. People back then didn't have so much guts to bring this up in front of their elders. Even Baa didn't have guts to object against her Mom in law's wish. But if you so badly wanted an educated wife Vanraj, did you make an effort to know how she was with studies and extra curricular activities? Did you try uplift her, give her time to upgrade and groom herself? Did you ever allow her to even step out of her office and stop Baa from engaging Anu in household chores always? Vanraj just doesn't have any right to accuse Anu of being a good match for V, it's infact V who doesn't deserve Anu.

Yes, even I agree. This concept of having 3 children out of a totally disastrous wedlock is simply attrocious and outrageous. I refuse to believe you didn't like Anu and wasn't masmerised by her beauty even after having 2 boys! And you call yourself educated? You don't have enough brains and money to feed your wife or give her freedom and have 3 children. How disgusting! Even Anu didn't want a 3rd child yet she managed the entire house on her shoulders whilst V having fun with her juni in office.

I just hope the writers don't end the screenplay here. I so wish writers show V and his mom's true face. How creepy they have been to Anu just for being poor. V is totally a SHAMELESS and SPINELESS man who wants to maintain both his wife and his mistress and let them do their duties so he can have his cake, baker and bakery in this situation.

I totally agree with u! Yes Vanraj did not have a choice when he was asked to marry Anupama and that was not fair. Everybody expects their partners to have certain traits and think along the same frequency as they do. Its not wrong if Vanraj wanted a smart, independent minded educated woman for a wife. He should have refused to marry Anupama back then itself. At least then Anupama would have probably had a life of her own and married someone who would have valued her for the person she is and Vanraj could have married someone who met his criteria for an ideal wife. Back then I understand it was difficult for someone to put forward their views. But did he ever try to encourage her to change herself? He says fungus evolved but Anupama couldn't. Did he groom her to evolve? Then why complain now? He should have told his mom that he wants a wife who is on par with him. Buts let face it. He would never have liked it either coz the MCP he is, he would never have appreciated his wife being a successful independent woman!

P. S - I am new here coz I recently started watching this show.

Bapuji rightly said in today’s episode -“galti tune ki aur ilzaam meri beti par daal raha hai. Jo galti karte hai woh maafi maangte hai aur tu safai de raha hai? Chullu bhar paani mein doob jaana chahiye tujhe!” The guts that sh*tty man has, blaming his wife for everything from having an affair to losing his family. Lol. I’d blame Baa for this thing, sar par chadha rakha hai usko. No one can have anything but Vanraj’s favourite food, no one can do something which he doesn’t like. Who the hell is he? Itni power toh Prime Minister ko bhi nahi dee jaati. In the end, he will be left all alone, no one will put up with this cheap tactics. Family shayad karlegi bardaasht, koi bahar waala nahi karta.

Edit - and also, he is so fu***** egoistic. Someone please kill him.

Originally posted by: SiddJ

He says he did it cos of anupama, he hated her and she was not a match for him.

On a serious note who goes on to have 3 children without any interest.

Bloody hell if u r not interested in a girl say it out loud and don't agree to marry her.

What kind of weird shamelessness is this, that he wants a wife who is a maid and needs a girl friend for his fancy.

Atleast leave the spouse in dignity rather than putting her down so badly and trampling all over.

its simple, they dont want to tarnish their image..they dont want to lose that tag" vanraj is best" or their name..if he chooses for swcond marriage,whole society will laugh at him..so he is like ," i will do the mistakes,but the society should blame my wife". neither they will divorce nor will happily live with her.. They wont give respect or treat well,they want a free maid for the house and children ,once theor job is over will throw her out. that to in a such a way that it will look like its the mistake of the woman".

Originally posted by: Colors2012

No excuse for cheating.... breaking everyone’s trust

the problem is this society yaar..everyone blame the wife for her husband wrong doing...

Originally posted by: piyu008

You know, I am not even a bit surprised. I was sure he was going to blame it on Anu. But I thought he will go inline with love (like he never loved her or so), but that piece of j*nk. He went on and on about how undeserving she is.

Nerves of him I swear! If she is so undeserving why not go ahead and divorce her! Kavya asked thousands of times. He is refusing to let her go. I am telling you, there is not an ouce of logic with this jerk.

He needs Anu to feel superior, bully her, use her as a punching bag, and as a free servant of the house. He wants her as a mere slave! Things like him don't have any goodwill or character!

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Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

I totally agree with u! Yes Vanraj did not have a choice when he was asked to marry Anupama and that was not fair. Everybody expects their partners to have certain traits and think along the same frequency as they do. Its not wrong if Vanraj wanted a smart, independent minded educated woman for a wife. He should have refused to marry Anupama back then itself. At least then Anupama would have probably had a life of her own and married someone who would have valued her for the person she is and Vanraj could have married someone who met his criteria for an ideal wife. Back then I understand it was difficult for someone to put forward their views. But did he ever try to encourage her to change herself? He says fungus evolved but Anupama couldn't. Did he groom her to evolve? Then why complain now? He should have told his mom that he wants a wife who is on par with him. Buts let face it. He would never have liked it either coz the MCP he is, he would never have appreciated his wife being a successful independent woman!

P. S - I am new here coz I recently started watching this show.

MCP kya hota hey?

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

MCP kya hota hey?

Male chauvinistic p** 🤣

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

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Men like Vanraj will always put blame on women.

Even if Vanraj had been married to someone like Kavya then his reason would be wife not giving time to him, not caring for his needs or family always busy in work blah...blah...and if he had married someone like Rakhi then he would have threatened by her dominant character, here he would have had EMA with someone who could boost his ego and cater to his MCP. Either way men like him will cheat and shamelessly put blame on their wife/girlfriend.

Originally posted by: piyu008

I think it was not about the third child but just all children when they were still very young and at age of attending college. I know there is no age for that, but just a typical one.

No no... She did say clearly she didn't want a 3 rd child but V wanted a baby girl so they had another🙄🙄😏😏