The gradual built up of relationship!

A woman when she becomes a mother she has to make tough choices, our Thakurain has correctly pointed out, as a woman she may find many things wrong but as a mother she has to accept many things. Why So? Why every individual changes his or her role as per the relationship he or she is dealing with....have we ever thought why cannot we keep the same type of behaviour with everybody, why does our attitude changes with different relationship? This is because first and foremost because we love each of our close ones and try our best to keep harmony and peace amongst ourselves. If one is hurt, the other gets hurt also, sometimes we take the pain so that the other gets the joy, now enough of pravachans, before I get the habit of Bude Baba, aaj ki do baatein😉...

1) As you know during this time of the year, all bengalis go crazy and I am no different or so I found out, having spent the whole of Durga Puja in Kolkata, for the first time in many many years and many of you may have noticed my marked absence but having missed a few episodes in between today I found the episode to be very fulfilling and very complete in various relationship wise, the true reaction of most of the house members, the Thakur for the first time seemed to be very pleased with his father, the father or Bude Baba warning Loha of the sever consequences the future holds, asking his Bahu to speak up for a change, Laali and Shekhar, while Laali is thinking what to do next, Shekhar is concerned, Thakurain has great pleasure in informing her about the changes in Shekhar, Buxarwali unhappy and Ranvijay like many siblings jealous....

2) I loved the scene when Laali enters the room expecting to see Shekhar awake but sad to see him sleeping and suddenly he asks where she had been. The expression on Laali's face was lovely though I wonder how the girl servives, she served food several times to Shekhar but I hardly seen her taking any...kaise jeeti hai woh?

Last but not the least, Dadaji questioning Thakurain what does she feel about the whole show, I felt it was long overdue but the scene was marvelous, the conflict between a mother and a woman and I was surprised to hear once a upon time the lady used to speak😛 Had a voice... Phir Loha ne aise paath parai ki bolti band but occasional spark is enough to keep our lohe ka Loha on the track😉

Last but not the least, I am waiting to see who makes the moves now, Laali or Shekhar or when will Shekhar make his move to be more precise for a change and acknowledge that he is in love. I am also waiting to see how the sibling rivalry takes place and its outcome. Your thought friends, Love Tin

Welcome back

Well we will see but there are good signs for our Laali and shekar

and what about Jamuni and Ranvijay ?

To your topic: I also loved the scene betweent the Thakurian and Dadaji. It was nice to hear about the Thakurian's concerns and her attitude which changes with different people. I agree with the Thakurian to a certain extent, however the root of the problem is Loha. I do feel the Thakurian, with the support of the rest of family (now including our brave Laali), can stop feeding Loha's demands. The more that are fed, the more the demands will be. It is like the circle of birth which needs to be broken to obtain freedom.

Take care,

Mitesh.